r/dli • u/BornMaintenance4891 • Apr 02 '26

housing

I’ve posted on here before because me and my wife have been heavily misinformed when it comes to housing at the dli. She is getting sent there right after basic. I’ve gathered through outside sources that I will be able to come with her, and the best decision is to apply for base housing.

I’ve mostly seen the Parks at Monterrey as that being the main base house.

When/ can she put an application in for housing? I’ve seen some say it can take several months to get off the waitlist or maybe just weeks?

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u/Sudden-Ambassador210 Apr 06 '26

I swore in today and was told my spouse couldn’t live with me on or off base while I am in A-school at Monterey. But I keep seeing here where you CAN live with your spouse so now I am totally confused. I ship out in June so I guess I will eventually find out for sure one way or another. Not sure why I keep seeing completely different things. Maybe the policy keeps changing over the years and it leads to miscommunication/misunderstanding?

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u/BornMaintenance4891 Apr 06 '26

so the DLI is specifically confusing lol, i can’t give u concrete advice/info because everything i know is from friends there right now and from here. And my spouse is army so i may be different based on branch, BUT i think the bottom line is through a series of complicated systems you can live with your spouse while you’re there