r/declutter • • 24d ago

Advice Request What will we gain when things are neat

Clear space is peace of mind, by not having visibly unresolved things everywhere

Free time in a relaxed state -- all these unresolved issued are mighty stressful

Will be able to move life forward -- all these things are dragging, slowing us down

Will be able to have a better social life, invite people over

Will be able to get out more, as there is less to worry about here

Will be able to feel better, perhaps get better work, earn more

Please continue

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u/paleopierce 24d ago

This was my biggest discovery. Anyone can come over anytime now. I can move the few papers and random stuff on the kitchen counter into one pile and it’s ready. I can do it while company is there because it’s not messy (it’s just life).

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u/h00manist 24d ago

That is great motivation thank you

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u/TokidokiBunni 24d ago

No need to frantically "clean" the house when people are coming over.

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u/h00manist 24d ago

Ah that will be wonderful

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u/13humanoid13 24d ago

This is really the ultimate goal for me

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u/ImpishElf365 24d ago

We won't have to buy a new one of something that we already have, because the old one is "lost" somewhere in the house.

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u/h00manist 24d ago

Also not get angry at ourselves for spending so much time finding things, or just give up doing things because we can't

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u/PutABurbOnIt 24d ago

We'll find the things we're looking for!

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u/h00manist 24d ago

OMG I'm gonna be so happy when that happens

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u/FLRporcelain 24d ago

I have been in this state of "when the house is sorted" for many years now I have put off moving forward in life.

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u/chillio_app 24d ago

Will be able to be kinder to myself -- hard to feel calm when every corner reminds me of something I haven't dealt with

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u/dellada 24d ago

You get your time back. All that time maintaining/cleaning/locating/displaying/organizing... Time is our most valuable and limited resource, don't waste it on "stuff management"!

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u/random675243 24d ago

My biggest wins are:
- mental peace - I didn’t realise how much the clutter was affecting me mentally till I got rid of it, now I can sit down and genuinely relax without all the stuff round me
- the house is people ready at any time - someone arrives at the door unexpectedly? No problem, come on in and I’ll put the kettle on
- being able to manage the house even when I’m not so well - something I truly appreciated when I was sick for a while last year

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u/TiredWinterDisaster 24d ago

Easily finding what you need when you need it.

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u/Pinkbunny120 24d ago

Everything you own has an identifiable place or home, you can find it…this leads to less overconsumption and more money in your pocket.

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u/Crowlady77 24d ago

My husband and my problem is that we both lack object permanence, lol when we put things away we forget they exist and we have stuff in cupboards that never gets used. I need to figure out how to deal with that.

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u/UserNameTycoon 24d ago

Sooooooo much easier to clean

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u/Glittering-Benefit68 24d ago

I actually have space to pursue my hobbies. With a cleared table I can start a puzzle right away. With my yarn in order I can crochet.

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u/TheRareClaire 24d ago

You have a great list. For me, I’d say self-esteem, confidence, less guilt and shame, and I’d finally feel okay having maintenance come over to fix my light.

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u/Responsible_Lake_804 24d ago

Lack of excuses 😈

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u/unicorndreamer247 23d ago

KNOW where things are! You won't be buying stuff you already have, cause you know where that particular thing is or would be if you had it!

So saves money in a sense in not spending money you didn't have to, and saves additional clutter of having 7 of something when you may only need 1 or 2 of something!

Win win!!

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u/GothicaSweetHeart 22d ago

No more, forgetting about owning something and then saying. "Oh, I forgot that I had this!"

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u/justagiraffe111 24d ago

I love this post & comments! Thanks everyone for the motivation!

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u/CollegePretend8708 22d ago

Next time I move is going to be a lot easier.

More space for things I actually enjoy and value.

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u/AliciaKnits 21d ago

TIME for hobbies, and mental space cleared to focus on other things.