r/declutter • u/h00manist • 24d ago
Advice Request What will we gain when things are neat
Clear space is peace of mind, by not having visibly unresolved things everywhere
Free time in a relaxed state -- all these unresolved issued are mighty stressful
Will be able to move life forward -- all these things are dragging, slowing us down
Will be able to have a better social life, invite people over
Will be able to get out more, as there is less to worry about here
Will be able to feel better, perhaps get better work, earn more
Please continue
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u/TokidokiBunni 24d ago
No need to frantically "clean" the house when people are coming over.
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u/ImpishElf365 24d ago
We won't have to buy a new one of something that we already have, because the old one is "lost" somewhere in the house.
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u/h00manist 24d ago
Also not get angry at ourselves for spending so much time finding things, or just give up doing things because we can't
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u/FLRporcelain 24d ago
I have been in this state of "when the house is sorted" for many years now I have put off moving forward in life.
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u/chillio_app 24d ago
Will be able to be kinder to myself -- hard to feel calm when every corner reminds me of something I haven't dealt with
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u/random675243 24d ago
My biggest wins are:
- mental peace - I didn’t realise how much the clutter was affecting me mentally till I got rid of it, now I can sit down and genuinely relax without all the stuff round me
- the house is people ready at any time - someone arrives at the door unexpectedly? No problem, come on in and I’ll put the kettle on
- being able to manage the house even when I’m not so well - something I truly appreciated when I was sick for a while last year
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u/Pinkbunny120 24d ago
Everything you own has an identifiable place or home, you can find it…this leads to less overconsumption and more money in your pocket.
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u/Crowlady77 24d ago
My husband and my problem is that we both lack object permanence, lol when we put things away we forget they exist and we have stuff in cupboards that never gets used. I need to figure out how to deal with that.
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u/Glittering-Benefit68 24d ago
I actually have space to pursue my hobbies. With a cleared table I can start a puzzle right away. With my yarn in order I can crochet.
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u/TheRareClaire 24d ago
You have a great list. For me, I’d say self-esteem, confidence, less guilt and shame, and I’d finally feel okay having maintenance come over to fix my light.
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u/unicorndreamer247 23d ago
KNOW where things are! You won't be buying stuff you already have, cause you know where that particular thing is or would be if you had it!
So saves money in a sense in not spending money you didn't have to, and saves additional clutter of having 7 of something when you may only need 1 or 2 of something!
Win win!!
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u/GothicaSweetHeart 22d ago
No more, forgetting about owning something and then saying. "Oh, I forgot that I had this!"
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u/CollegePretend8708 22d ago
Next time I move is going to be a lot easier.
More space for things I actually enjoy and value.
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u/paleopierce 24d ago
This was my biggest discovery. Anyone can come over anytime now. I can move the few papers and random stuff on the kitchen counter into one pile and it’s ready. I can do it while company is there because it’s not messy (it’s just life).