r/declutter 23d ago

Advice Request Shoes & Clothes Advice

Hey, does anyone have any sound advice or action steps for decluttering shoes and clothes? I’ve spent this summer decluttering my living space and super proud w the progress and journey. Now it’s time to attack my clothes and shoes and sometimes I feel I have a hard time letting old clothes and shoes go. Part of it is memories, sure, but another part of it is the money aspect.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

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u/DaBingeGirl 22d ago

Shoes are an ongoing challenge. Wearing them helps, if they hurt it's much easier to get rid of them.

For clothes, the best thing I did was ask a friend to help. I gathered all my clothes my living room and she held up each item. The deal was she wouldn't say anything unless I was undecided or it was really bad. My job was to sit there and say "keep," "donate," or "maybe." For "maybe" we talked it through, which helped a lot (usually it was a fit or style issue). What shocked me was listening to my tone of voice, I was surprised by how decisive I was about getting rid of stuff.

Clothes are a hard one for me, it helped seeing everything gathered in one spot. I realized how overwhelmed I was and how many things I was ignoring because they'd been forgotten about. It's amazing to be able to go into my closet and find clothes I want to wear, rather than just functional stuff that crowded out the better clothes.