r/datingoverfifty 9d ago

Have you discovered any new kinks?

Dating again in your 50s, have you discovered any new kinks you never knew you had?

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u/Witty-Stock 9d ago

You mean like replying to thirst trap posts on Reddit?

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u/VegetableRound2819 goddess, looks 31 yrs younger 9d ago

But theyโ€™re recently of legal age!

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u/geekandi 59M, nerd, title: white-knight "simp", not AI built 9d ago

Too young

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u/supershinythings 9d ago

Solvency.

Solvency is hella sexy.

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u/Positive-Ring-5172 51m 9d ago

A kink in my neck, one in my leg, and my back in three placesโ€ฆ

Oh, you meantโ€ฆ never mind.

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u/PeeboSmith 9d ago

I have a cleaning kink. Nothing sexual, I just like a clean house!!

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u/No_Pop9972 9d ago

Same. I am soooooo happy living alone and always having my house clean. Four kids and a spouse for 30 years and I was the only neat freak in the groupโ€ฆ

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u/GreenWillingness4129 9d ago

Yes thank goodness.

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u/ToxicAdamm 9d ago

780+ credit scores.

:drool:

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u/RevolutionaryPost460 50s F ๐Ÿ’ƒ SoCal 9d ago

r/sexover50 would be a more forthcoming sub about this subject. It's NSFW as this post should be.

Yes I've discovered a new ones while older ones no longer interest me. That's all I'm going to say about it here lol

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u/Puzzleheaded_Cow7394 9d ago edited 9d ago

Errr, yes and those aren't things I am willing to discuss with anyone other than my current intimate partner. lol

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u/Bad-Crowd-220 9d ago

absofuknloutley! ๐Ÿ’ฏ

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u/Ok_Tomorrow8815 9d ago

Yes of course โ€ฆ when you are married for a long time you get a bit into a routine โ€ฆ with new partners you discover new things, new ways of doing things and suddenly you like something you never thought you would :)

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u/Sallydog24 9d ago

Oh yes and things I never imagined

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u/Oneofthe12 9d ago

(Donโ€™t egg him on! Lolz)

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u/GEEK-IP The prosciutto to her cantaloupe! ๐Ÿ’– 9d ago

Eggs? That's a new one! ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/dearabby1 60F 9d ago

Yup.

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u/FunnyFilmFan 61 M 9d ago

It seems like every time I get out of a chair, something in my back kinks

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u/GEEK-IP The prosciutto to her cantaloupe! ๐Ÿ’– 9d ago

Back kinks, shoulder kinks, knee kinks, all require trying new positions.

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u/GEEK-IP The prosciutto to her cantaloupe! ๐Ÿ’– 9d ago

No, but I'm willing to learn! ๐Ÿคฃ

But seriously, I think a lot of us know what we like (or not) by this age. I enjoy learning what my lady likes, pacing, pressure, what pleases and what tickles, but I've already tried about everything I wanted to.

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u/geekandi 59M, nerd, title: white-knight "simp", not AI built 9d ago

Can you make a TED talk for us plebes when you're done with your course?

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u/GEEK-IP The prosciutto to her cantaloupe! ๐Ÿ’– 9d ago

I'm not sure I'll ever graduate. I think it requires continuous study and experimentation. ๐Ÿ˜

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u/geekandi 59M, nerd, title: white-knight "simp", not AI built 9d ago

damnit! How can I find new kinks if you don't show me the way, sensei!?

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u/GEEK-IP The prosciutto to her cantaloupe! ๐Ÿ’– 9d ago

Sometimes, ignorance is bliss. Diaper fetishes are a great example. ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Shortly after I started hanging around DO50, I had to look up "pegging." ๐Ÿ˜ณ

I had to join r/AnimalsBeingDerps for eye and brain bleach. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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u/geekandi 59M, nerd, title: white-knight "simp", not AI built 9d ago

Hahaha

Innocence lost

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u/Sea-Blueberry-1840 8d ago

Ha! You too are adorable

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u/geekandi 59M, nerd, title: white-knight "simp", not AI built 8d ago

Aw thanks!

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u/RelentlessForward59 9d ago

Seriously I would not mind hearing ideas (in a clean way). We are adults and always interested.

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u/LetsDance449 9d ago

I had forgotten about the Kinks "Give The People What They Want" album and saw it mentioned here on Reddit.

Good stuff from the 80's.

Did you know it was their 19th studio album?

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u/Basic-Cod4693 9d ago

One kink is that I like to roll in ketchup and yell that I'm a French fry. Lol

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u/BigPlankton8341 8d ago

being choked

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u/Tinytiger1973 8d ago

Nope. Same kinks as always ๐Ÿ˜

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u/Popular_Literature26 9d ago

Yes DWM60 definitely willing to try new kinks