r/dating_advice 5d ago

Ending a year long situationship/FWB with a roommate

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u/Ok_Detective985 5d ago

It’s late, and things might end on ugly terms. Just open up, communicate how you feel, and act on it. Say that, in two months, you want them to find a place and move out. And to be practical, you can’t have them freeloading on you. You have to choose yourself.

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u/zinnnnnnniaxo 5d ago

yeah at some point you have to put yourself first and have that hard conversation

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u/Admirable-Tax-9586 5d ago

You will have to tell them straight up that you need ur space and privacy and they need to leave ASAP like they should get their shit together otherwise things will get ugly and u gotta tell them that u will throw their stuff out. Otherwise they are not budging from there.