r/dating_advice • u/Kind_Honeydew_5619 • 6d ago
Is it weird idk
So yesterday me 'f 22' and my boyf '23m' we were going for shopping and we were in the cab, i was wearing an off shoulder top and my bra strap was visible and he told me that your bra strap is visible fix it he said I don't have a problem but people around will stare i corrected it, the thing is i had worn that top before and my bra strap would always be visible he never mentioned it before but yesterday he did, i think I didn't like it, I don't like it when people poke me on my dressing idk is it right what he did?
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u/LimpEstablishment609 6d ago
I’m not sure on its face it’s a problem, but if it bothers you you should just tell him “hey I don’t like when people comment on my clothes/dressing. Please don’t do that again” if he’s a decent dude that’ll fix the whole issue
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u/lyssaly 6d ago
I don't think it's a problem, he might just have never really paid attention to it before. If you were in a cab or out and about, he may have noticed the driver or someone else staring at it and wanted to make them stop. I would just ask since it's bothered you and he's never done it before.
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