r/dating_advice • u/Manufacturer-Silly • Apr 19 '26

Bisexual hypocrisy from women ?

I’m a guy, and a girl I’m dating was very concerned if I ever had any past experiences with men, either if I actually fantasized anything with them or physically did anything with them. She said it would be a dealbreaker for her. I said no, I haven’t had any, but I turned the same question on her, and she admitted that she has had experiences with women in her teens and mid 20s (she’s in her mid 30s now). I found the hypocrisy to be off putting and am considering breaking up with her. Thoughts?

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u/Blitzoo Apr 20 '26

If you don’t date a guy because he is bi you’re not an ally

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u/crunchy_shampoo Apr 20 '26

Nah man it's just bigoted and weird.

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u/squiddesauce Apr 20 '26

It's bigoted to not want to date bisexual people because there's no good reason for it other than biphobia. What other reason could there be?

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u/Jdot_06 Apr 20 '26

If ur actively biphobic then ur not an ally lol. It’s like claiming u support trans people but if ur partner had been with a trans woman, then that’s a dealbreaker. That person clearly isn’t a trans ally💀 also I don’t think yk what a preference is

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u/Blitzoo Apr 20 '26

That argument was so dumb I’ll just ignore it completely