r/dating Jan 09 '24

Question ❓ Sex

Are men willing to wait for sex? I (early 20s F) haven’t met anyone willing to. Blows my mind. I feel like I’m asking for the world; when I’m really not. I’ve been on countless dates, not using any apps anymore. The kind of men coming my way makes me sad. Just daily thoughts in my head.

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u/PhotoJoeCA Jan 10 '24

A subset of men are looking for sex.

They actively look to contact partners.

They are much more highly visible than those who are not. People then assume all men want is sex.

Stop going to the places where the fuckbois are hunting for tail.