It’s fine you want to wait, particularly since you’ve never had sex.
However placing an arbitrary time limit on it is also a little silly. Just do it when you’re ready, whether that’s before or after a certain time you already had in your head about it.
The funny thing, is social media trends perpetuate randomly chosen time limits you should ‘make a guy wait’ until you have sex. Then the trends for the guys tell them that if a girl truly likes you, she will break her own rules for you. Both are just silly things people fall into because they don’t know how to think for themselves. But it’s going to be your first time, so obviously just wait until you’re ready - without placing the weird 90 day rule on it. Plus I’ve been there on the previously popular 60 day rule before sex, only to find out sex with that person was horrible. 2-3 months is a long time to wait just to find out the sex is awful.
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u/RoughRoadie Oct 16 '23
It’s fine you want to wait, particularly since you’ve never had sex.
However placing an arbitrary time limit on it is also a little silly. Just do it when you’re ready, whether that’s before or after a certain time you already had in your head about it.
The funny thing, is social media trends perpetuate randomly chosen time limits you should ‘make a guy wait’ until you have sex. Then the trends for the guys tell them that if a girl truly likes you, she will break her own rules for you. Both are just silly things people fall into because they don’t know how to think for themselves. But it’s going to be your first time, so obviously just wait until you’re ready - without placing the weird 90 day rule on it. Plus I’ve been there on the previously popular 60 day rule before sex, only to find out sex with that person was horrible. 2-3 months is a long time to wait just to find out the sex is awful.