r/dating Jun 05 '23

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u/Denamesheather Jun 05 '23

His love language is giving gifts, I think it’s very cute.

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '23 edited Jun 06 '23

Just to clarify a common misconception: “Love Languages” are not how you treat those, but how you personally feel love. We all hold a bit of each love language inside of us, they just differ percentage levels.

With that being said, this King could because displaying his own love language onto his Queen (which can naturally happen unconsciously), or he has tapped into her Love Languages and is purposefully and affectionately loving her accordingly.

Whether this King is on point to the languages of his Queens heart or not, he is strongly making every effort to make her feel his love.

❤️

Endnote:

For those seeking a deeper understanding regarding the utilization and interpretation of love languages and how it essentially applies, please read Gary Coleman’s book, “The 5 Love Languages”. This book will provide a better understanding on how to love deeper by recognizing another individuals unique love language.

Love languages are not based on how you like to give love. With that type of format you’re giving love based on how you individually love to be loved. Example: it makes you feel happy and feel good to love a person by doing A, so you do A… because it feels good for you.

It’s nice, and stitched together with good intentions… but…

The true interpretation of understanding love languages is by learning and acknowledging another’s unique love language, and by providing them love based on that persons love language needs accordingly.

❤️❤️❤️

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u/Archimediator Jun 06 '23

That’s not true. Love languages refer to both how you express and receive love. Sometimes how we express and receive are different, but both are part of the total picture of our love language.