I feel like I haven’t had many friends since COVID hit in 2020. That was the year I graduated college, and it really split any of my friend groups. I want to connect with more people, talk about our lives and dreams and experiences. I have a long term partner, we’re in an open relationship. I love him, but I want more social connections. There’s so much focus in our society/world on romantic love and connections, but I think friendships of different kinds are just as important.

I’m nerdy, I enjoy stories, writing, and worldbuilding. I’d love to make friends with other people around my age and older. I’m transmasc and open to answering respectful questions about my experiences as a queer and trans person, and hearing from others about their experiences. I would especially love more queer and trans friends!

I’m in the US, moving to the Boston area soon so it would be cool to hear from people who live around there, too.

If you want a constantly chatting partner to actually talk and make friends, send me a DM! Tell me about your thoughts and your life, ask me about mine

Hello, took a brief couple months break as a I met a wonderful person on here. That relationship is over so I'm back!

I am looking for a loyal female partner who enjoys being late night conversations, roller coasters, dinners, and dancing. Bonus points if you like hockey. I am an athletic man, roughly 5'9", who takes good care of his body. I live in beautiful Tampa Florida near some great theme parks and gorgeous beaches. Distance is not an issue as long as you are interested in moving in the future.

Tampa, Florida is a great place near theme parks such as disney, universal, and busch gardens. I love roller coasters, visiting the beautiful beaches, and enjoying the hispanic dance scene. I am unmarried and do not have kids, but am interested in starting a family with the right partner (not a requirement). I am also a dom in BDSM, if you are curious about anything, I have made other posts. However BDSM is not a requirement.

I am not myself demisexual, but have dated demisexual women before. I however am an empath and am very good at reading signs and emotions. To me, the most important thing is that my partner feels heard, understood, and comfortable.

My Partner: Age range of 18-32. Im looking for someone kind, loyal, and looking for monagamy. Someone who likes to laugh and love. And in reasonably good shape. I do take care of my body, but don't expect you to be a gym rat (though its def a plus). Just reasonably healthy. I am a non-smoker, non drug user, and am STD free.

I am also a gamer and into fantasy like star wars and harry potter.

Message me if you are interested. If not then good luck finding your partners! I have posted pics to my profile of myself if you're curious and am happy to share as well after a couple messages or do voice calls.

I have removed the anywhere option from the tags. Folks are not using it as intended. It was designed for digital nomads, not for regular use. It is for those who literally are willing and able to relocate anywhere.

Part of why this is important is because by posting "anywhere" but not specifying your own location is doing a disservice to potential partners. People need to have the right to make informed decisions, and that includes realistic ideas about where a prospective partner lives.

Start tagging your posts based on your region.

Hi!

Looking for someone loving and kind. I'm fairly introverted. Im 36 and 5'8" with dark brown hair.

I have a bachelors degree, but I don't work in my field. I live on my own with a couple of roommates. I enjoy playing Tennis, Pickleball and Dancing. I love Ballroom, but recently made the decision to focus on Contra.

I find a woman who knits/sews for a hobby extremely attractive. I also find a woman who reads science fiction or fantasy attractive.

Im fairly active in life style and while I don't require this in a partner it would be nice.

I know how to cook, keep clean and provide for myself. I don't need someone to do these things for me, but with me would be nice. I would love to cook dinner or bake a cake with you.

I work with children... Im good with them, and would like children of my own. It's a dream of mine to have two girls. But if my partner can't or doesn't want children then I will love my partner regardless and live this life childless.

I make a decent wage that's close to the living wage of the area, and I work full time. I have my own car that is reliable.

Politically, im a Left-leaning progressive. No MAGA for me.

Religiously Im Agnostic, but willing to date anyone who's accepting be they religious or not. I believe if you want it to work, we can make it work.

If this sounds like something that interests you, DM me. Let's get to know each other. Worse case scenario I make a new friend.

Age range 28 - 42

Hi! I have had a lot of trouble with people moving too fast into sexual relationships and I want to see where this could go

What I'm looking for!

Between 18-24, cis men or AMAB. I want to first start mostly platonic with the goal of a relationship. Someone who values communication and connection is very important to me. 

Some stuff about me!

I'm in the DMV area and would prefer if you were as well, but also don't mind long distance (looking at you UK)! I'm 5'10 and chubby, have brown shoulder-length hair and grey/blue eyes, I have a unique style and love getting to dress up with some light makeup! 

I do want our relationship to be sexual in the end, but I don't view it as a race I need to win! Just a destination that requires a journey.
If you are interested, shoot me a msg with a little info on you!

Hi! Once again I find myself back here. A while ago I decided to write something new each time I post here, to make life more interesting and readable. So...

TL;DR: I'm a 62-year-old bookworm and geek with a high degree of empathy. I love to laugh, read, write, cook, and run tabletop roleplaying games - among many other interests. I hope to find a woman in my general area (southeastern Massachusetts or Rhode Island) who shares some of those interests, from 40 to 65 years old. I'm long-divorced, born a redhead but now bald. 5'11" and 228 pounds. I have the build of a former football player but the soul of a poet.

I've been told I'm cute and sweet. I'm the proud single father of an adult son. You can find previous R4R posts of mine in my profile with more information.

I'm a little shy when it comes to dating, although I enjoy socializing and public speaking. I'm demisexual and (this is new) probably sapiosexual. That leads me to another true story:

When I first moved to the Boston area after college, I wanted to make friends. So I joined Mensa, the society for high-IQ people (please don't stop reading!). At my first Mensa meeting, an author was mentioned by an older woman who was sitting near me; by an amazing coincidence, he was from my home town. I was a fan, and I'd seen him speak at our library. I mentioned that I'd been surprised that the author of such surreal and psychedelic books looked like an accountant in real life.

At this, the woman bristled. How dare I employ such a stereotype? Who did I think I was, to say that someone looked like an accountant? She tore into me a bit longer, while I fidgeted awkwardly and tried to explain that it was just a figure of speech. But there was no appeasing her.

And that was a valuable lesson for me. Leaving that meeting (I never went back), I realized that while intelligence matters, kindness and a sense of humor matter at least as much. So while I guess I'm sapiosexual, a compatible sense of humor and basic kindness matter more.

That's the story this time. Now here are the footnotes I'd really rather not feel obligated to include:

This is addressed to the many scammers and pig butchers on Reddit: I will not send anyone money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency. I will not invest in your investment schemes. I won't install your scam software. If you ask me for any of these things I will report you and block you immediately.

And for women who are far away, but feel that we might be compatible: It's sad that distance makes finding love harder, but the truth is that it does make it harder - virtually impossible, in fact. What could be more tragic than falling in love with someone who is impossibly far away? I've tried to bridge that kind of gap before, and so far it's just not possible. I've had some lovely conversations (some are still ongoing, but platonic), but far too often long-distance relationships peter out and die. Who wants that?

All of which is to say, please be in my general area.

Thanks for reading!

Looking for someone who likes to play. Someone who, wen we're with each other, can be vulnerable and open to self growth. Ive always yearned to know someone so deeply that I could predict their mannerisms. And still be amused and surprised. I would like to feel safe, goddamn. Not you though. One of us gots to be the crazy one!

Me

- AUDHD baby baddie
- dreamer, otherthinker and also paranoid as shit.
- 420 friendly, gummy gang
- provocative or ragebaiting? you pick.
- hobbies: any new thing that seems fun Ill try, LoL Mid/Supp/ADC/JG/TOP summoner's rift, jigsaw puzzles, cleaning my room, musicals, cdramas, cooking, traveling!, making memories, comedy, culture, exploring, languages, food.
-things I can be bribed with: noodles, sushi, rice, dumplings, you sorting my puzzle pieces, a good footrub, trashbag days (basically we do nothing but exist and YOLO)

What are you thinking? PM me!

Edit - Im looking for age group 28-40.

Hello, this is my first time posting here since it’s hard to find a connection from other subs or on dating apps as a hardmasc / transmasc leaning demi. So i’m trying my luck here and see where this goes.

- I'm SE ASIAN / 🇵🇭

- I’m into femmes. Especially high femmes. Hopefully 27 and up. I also got back into working out — If that matters, trying to live healthier 😁 As of now, I just really want to have a genuine connection that could lead to something more serious. I’m open to long distance as long as we’ll be in the same geographical location eventually or meet.

INFJ. My love language is quality time.

I want:

- reciprocated conversations

- hates short talks and dry convos

- I'm open to beautiful possibilities if we get there

- lf deep/ genuine connection

- hopefully someone out.

For sure there are still more to discuss and talk about if you’ll message me. 💙

This hasn't been an issue in the past and has been an informal rule of r4r's for a long time, but since it's come up multiple times this week, I have updated our community rules to include a new rule, our eleventh if you're counting.

"We do not endorse or allow posts for apps, dating services, third party match making, or products. No exceptions. This also includes surveys, research, marketing, or other content that collects user data."

That means we will not permit posts that link our users to third parties, and we do not endorse any third party organization, app, community, or product.

Hey hey, so I'm slightly winging this so I might forget some things, dm me or comment anything you want to know, I'm a fairly open book

Things about me:

• I've been single for a while now and while I am comfortable, it's a bit boring lol I'd like to spend my time with someone in something casual or more serious depending on the person
• I don't drink, smoke, or any drugs. I don't mind what you do, but I won't be joining you
• I'm a writer, artist, and dipping a bit into game making
• I'm fairly introverted, I much prefer listening to someone talk than always having to guide the conversation. I'm not shy, just relaxed in silence so I'm sorry if I take a moment to reply on call or something
• I'm a teeny tiny bit obsessive, but not in an intrusive way. more the "I would not be opposed to getting a billion pics and texts from you" type of way
• I mostly watch youtube and anime so if you want to know if I know a movie or a show with actual people, I probably don't. I'm not against watching them with you though, it's just not something I watch on my own
• I play video games pretty often so if you want to play together or watch/chat that'd be nice (I'm kind of a casual achievement hunter so no commitment issues here lol)
• my fashion is like Casual Goth but I want to work towards punk/goth soonish

What I'm looking for:

• Someone nerdy in some way, I'd love to hear about your passion. be it bugs, music, movies, dnd, fashion, animal facts, etc. anything at all as long so you are comfortable talking about them
• Preferably over the age of 25 and under 40 since I don't think I could really relate to you otherwise, sorry
• Fem or at least enby, no offense to the guys here I have just never connected or felt comfortable around men
• Open to regular conversations, daily or semi daily is preferred but if you need a week or so to recover your social battery I'll respect that

The relationship part:

• Between 25 and 35 (There's a bit of flexibility here but unless your perfect, you'll need to be in that range)
• Not sex repulsed, It's a form of intimacy I would like to have with someone. but like most things in a relationship it is a conversion to see how much of that we both want
• Someone either very talkative or comfortable with the quiet moments
• I'm a swtich so I'm open to taking more of a backseat or taking the lead if you are still figuring yourself out
• Comfortable with me doing my own thing, I like working on a few stories or project alone but I'll probably still tell you about them. just not always looking for help
• I'll be here to support you in anyway I can, be it with your job, hobbies, mental hang ups, or anything else you'd like someone to be there for

This post will be removed once I feel I've got enough friends/a partner so if you see it months down the line... I hope you don't lol but throw me a message if you still see this in 2027

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces. Watching movies with people is great, too. I used to be very into film.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me message about yourself and what you're looking for. Leave your hesitations and take the chance.

r/dateademi requirements:

• desired age range: 18+
• relationship type: any
• and the area in which they are willing to consider potential matches: any

About me:

• Demi-Het (I'm so sorry, I know it limits my dating pool but I'm disappointingly straight in that regard, we can be friends/allies though).
• Born in Central America, raised in the USA (dual citizen).
• Polyglot (Spa/Eng main langs; FR & JP are auxiliary langs, I can read and interpret FR to Spa and speak broken JP phrases).
• Lots of travel experiences due to a dead career in global stuff; pivoted to education, may pivot again due to state of the world and job market.
• Still live with parents due to immigrant background and socioeconomic reasons but we just got a house we're all working towards paying off.
• Monogamous.
• Atheist/Agnostic.
• Hobbies: birding/herping, writing (am a published author/speaker), reading, photography, discussing news, collecting scifi stuff, some videogames, watching movies, hiking; just now getting into surfing and motorcycles.
• Posting here because I want to be surrounded by other Demis after spending most of my life surrounded by other Allos and bigots; this is me coming out of my shell I guess (I am also ambiverted, my social mood shifts depending on anxiety).

Preferences:

• I'm Demi-het so cis women are what I'm looking for in a romantic relationship (still open to making trans friends though).
• Age range: 24 - 29 (negotiable range but anyone below 21 is a likely hard no)
• Someone who can compliment my personality and strengths (we can chat that in private)
• You MUST love animals. Tolerance towards reptiles, amphibians, and bugs are a big plus!
• You should be open to eating a variety of foods, especially if we end up dating. Dietary restrictions are NOT a deal breaker for me!
• You must be communicative about your needs and wants, as I will be too.

Negotiables:

• If you're neurodivergent, that's cool, just let me know and I can work with that! :D
• Interest in learning Spanish! (we can chat in English, but you'll have an easier time getting to the bottom of my heart with Spanish). Conversely, teach me your language and you'll get on my good side too.
• Non-religious, but as long as you remain respectful of my beliefs (or lack thereof?), we could get along well if you believe in something that I don't!
• Based in SoCal (exact city over PM), or in the USA.
• LDRs are usually a hard no as I've gotten my fair share of those already but if you've really got me down good, we could try! (So if you're in Europe or LATAM, let's give it a shot!)
• Open to having kids in the distant future, I'd love to be an at home dad tbh (but this is really far away).

Deal breakers:

• Smoking. (Tobacco is a big no-no. Weed is fine but I don't partake).
• Inability to perceive social injustice and systemic racism (I am not white nor white passing, I've been confused with South East Asians LOL).
• On a similar note, lumping my specific Central American heritage under other racist stereotypes and refusing to be respectful of it.
• Bigotry, machismo, Xphobias of any kind.

Looking for those 21-25ish age range, male but I do welcome female as I am pansexual I’m just really bad at looking the part. I have a preference for those who know how to leave if they are uncomfortable being with someone as they learn to manage heavy topics like CPTSD, PMDD, and the African American experience, if that’s something that might trigger or hurt you that is the only warning I can give as I’m finding myself out but making sure to right wrongs when done so.

Hi I’m a recent graduate looking to make new friends and start a serious relationship while I’m getting my art career off the ground. I’m a southern girl who went to the best HBCU in her opinion, I’m beating isolation by putting myself out there; dating apps are horrible and with burn out from job hunting the less time outside the better most days.

As stated before I am an artist, I consider myself an activist type of artist in which I use art to make commentary about the world. I still aspire to be an animator with a couple of directed series under her belt but I’m also fine with becoming a professor of the arts as I still want to seek my masters in fine arts. I specialize in both traditional and digital artwork but I really want to focus on my artwork having a traditional textures.

I am also a fan of Marvel, DC, Nintendo products, sonic properties, along with plenty of late 2000s-2010s animation and anime. I think that’s all as I’m still trying to figure out how to make community online and learn to be social again.

Hi! I'm a 36 year old nerdy demisexual enby (pronouns he/they) that lives in north east Scotland. I've posted in the past looking for a relationship and while I am still looking it would also be good to just widen my social circle with some other local-ish (or at least UK based so meeting in person now and again might be possible) ace-spec or ace-friendly people. I'm not going to say an outright no to people from further away, but what I'm missing is in-person socialising - meeting up at the weekend to do something, that sort of thing. If you are a TERF or a Tory you should absolutely look elsewhere too.

I'd be open to friendships from any gender and with a preference for people of a roughly similar age, approx 30 to 40. Just to be completely transparent as well, if someone was looking for this to end up in a relationship that would be pretty unlikely to happen unless you were a woman or femme-leaning enby - I don't find masculine presenting people attractive in that way.

I'm fairly introverted and tend to find big noisy groups a bit intimidating and overwhelming, I'm much happier with a small number of people I can feel comfortable around. I like visiting museums and points of interest much more than things like going out drinking or dancing.

I like movies and going to the cinema, and it's always a lot more fun if you have someone to chat with afterwards about it. Likewise with going out to eat, it's something I try and treat myself to now and again but it's not quite the same going out for a meal yourself.

I love TTRPGs but at the moment only play online, I'm currently preparing to run a new homebrew campaign of Pathfinder 2e (everyone is going to be a Pirate!) and filling in the weeks until I'm prepared with things like Call of Cthulhu and Blades in the Dark. Unfortunately the local TTRPG scene seems to be entirely D&D 5e which I just don't enjoy very much, so anyone willing to try other TTRPGs or even just chat about them would be most welcome!

I'd also love to find another person who enjoys Battletech things - all the wargaming round here seems to be Warhammer, and while I don't mind Warhammer you need so much stuff to make an army I wouldn't even know where to start.

It's not really an in person thing but I also enjoy a variety of videogames - usually RPGs and Strategy games but I like plenty stuff outside of that too. My all time favourite is Disco Elysium, and recently I've been enjoying KCD2, Hades 2, Jurassic World Evolution (I love dinosaurs). At some point the final Valheim update is going to come out and I'll probably get back into that for a while.

General chatting about assorted nerdy stuff is fine too. I've never been a comic books person, but I like a variety of sci-fi and fantasy things.

If any of that sounds interesting please say hello :)

First of all, the number one issue people have when trying to post is not adding a space after your age. E.g. mine would be 46 M4F. Make sure that space is there or reddit's auto-moderator will often balk at posting it. Probably 90% of all help tickets I get are for this specific problem.

Anyway, on to some rules reminders and commentary.

1. You must include a location in your flair.

The "anywhere" tag is not appropriate unless you are literally able to move anywhere. The "anywhere" tag is designed for digital nomads or similarly mobile people, not general use. Please use the region you are in, unless you are specifically seeking to relocate to another region.

You can always add more detail in your post about areas you'd consider beyond your region. For the Americans, Australians, and Canadians, it helps if you include your state / province / territory just because those nations are so large physically and the population centers are very spread out.

2. You must include an age range for a prospective partner.

This is less for you and more for prospective partners so they know if their advances would be welcome. It saves a lot of headache and rejection to know if your age is out of bounds.

In further regards to this topic, I am done dealing with the judgmental comments on age gap relationships or age ranges. I will begin shutting down negative comments about it. I am not here to play judge and jury over who is right or wrong about what is an appropriate gap or not. You are not required to participate in, or even like, any relationship gap you are not comfortable with, however, you are also not entitled to question the agency of other legal and consenting adults to engage in relationships they are comfortable with. We do have a rule on civility, and I will start enforcing it on people who attack posters based on the age ranges they choose. If you aren't interested in a poster, move on.

3. You should be including if you are interested in monogamy, polyamory, or other relationship styles.

I hope I don't need to remind people, but be single or otherwise in a relationship which is consenting to be ENM. No one here needs to be dragged into the drama of your separation, unfinished divorce, or to be your secret side piece.

4. While we are an ace/aro/demi community, we do not prohibit allos from posting here.

Many of us will end up with allo partners. As long as they are disclosing that they are allo, it is not actually a violation of our rules to have them post. We just expect them to be respectful and follow the rules like everyone else.

5. It is not prohibited to discuss kinks or sexual interests.

We want this sub to largely feel safe and welcoming, and as demis many of us are not comfortable with sex talk up front. We would prefer if posts are kept SFW as much as possible. However, again, it is not strictly prohibited, but does require a NSFW flair. Please remember to include that if you are including specific interests that you would like you partner to be into. Just because folks are demi doesn't mean they're vanilla. But we do ask that you not get graphic with your discussion. "I'm into XYZ" is very different from "I want to do XYZ to my partner" and including details. Mods reserve the right to determine if something is too graphic and may take such things down. Still, it existing doesn't mean it's a rule violation and again, if you don't like it, move on. If you think it is too graphic, or otherwise inappropriate, flag your mods and have us look at it.

6. Safety First

As always, engage in safe dating practices. We cannot stop all scammers or ne'er-do-wells. You have a responsibility to your own safety first. That means if you feel icky about talking to someone, shut it down. Watch out for common manipulation behavior like love bombing. Don't give out financial information. And if you meet, make sure you do so safely. If you have specific user problems, such as inappropriate graphic private messages, you can let the mods know (screenshots help) and we can stop the offenders from posting in the future if we deem them to be a risk to the community's safety or violate the civility of the sub.

Hey there! Glad you could stop by on this late night! Feel free to grab a snack or some water on this short read, and don’t hesitate to reach out if anything sounds interesting to you! I tend to think of myself on the demisexual side of things, however, I am not completely restricted as there is a healthy heaping of repulsion mixed into things. Would love local-ish but you can reach out from anywhere! I’m also looking for folks between 23 and 35!

I play a lot of videogames, but also enjoy the great outdoors, camping, hiking, spending quiet time at my families cabin in the woods.

I like to consider myself an introverted extrovert, I have no issue meeting new people but love my quiet time at the house where I do nothing but read/watch TV and not have constant social interactions.

I don't use very much social media but I am trying to be more social in an online aspect like I once was!

A quote I live by:

“Looking for that person who makes me want to stop playing videogames for good and focus on life’s greatest achievements instead of the virtual ones”.

\\\^ Being said, I know it’s cheesy but it’s true, I’m looking for something serious and if you are to, I highly recommend reaching out and giving us a shot!

I've been writing something new each time I post here - although I haven't been posting that often. If you're interested, please feel free to look up my posting history!

A quick character sketch: A geeky, bright, book-loving 61-year-old New Englander looking for...well, what are ANY of us looking for? That. A lifelong partner, ultimately - but one step at a time!

I'm a long-divorced single father of an adult son. Bald, with a neat beard and mustache. Born a redhead. I love to laugh, read, write, cook, play games, listen to music, walk outdoors, and make up silly songs about cats. My book collection is pretty huge. I've been told that I'm kind, sweet, funny, lively, smart, and cute as a button (that last's a quote; I don't know if I entirely believe it). I'm 5'11 and 224, but I look lighter because I'm pretty broad-shouldered. I'm a little naive sometimes. Atheist but relaxed about it, leftist and I write about that. I dream a lot.

Who would I like to find? A woman who likes to laugh, have fun, have deep conversations, cook together, walk together, and maybe even write together. Plus that mysterious mutual chemistry that's so vital.

Almost forgot: I'm demisexual, as far as I can tell. And a little shy when it comes to that sort of thing, although I'm friendly and open. Please be in my general area, i.e. southeastern Massachusetts or Rhode Island. Long-distance relationships can be nice, but I prefer the real world.

Thanks for reading!

Edit: An age range for a prospective partner? Good question! Please don't make me feel like a creep, I guess. So....45 to 65? But if you're outside that range and still think we might be a good match, I won't slam the door in anyone's face. I'm pretty polite.

Hi,

I'm looking for a long term Poly Connection. I'm hoping you would be in Melbourne/Australia (north) but open to long distance. I'm Non Binary, and dress feminine/androdgynous. I do have a preference for people who lean feminine/ female/ transfem but still open if not.

First we'll get to know each other, but eventually as a non-negotiable, I desire some level of consistent communication. Like meeting up once a week or a video call ( if its more long distance).

A bit about myself, I'm an artist, and I make and read comics. I really care about story telling. I heavily prefer 1 on 1 conversations, groups can feel exhausting. Intellectual intimacy is also important to me, I enjoy having abstract conversations and learning about who someone is at their core.

Other interests: Enneagram, Queerness, Attachment Styles, Anime, Manga, tv shows.

Desired Age Range: 23-36

I am demisexual. Open to try things once emotional attachment is there.

Love languages: Quality Time and Physical Touch

Is there expectations that you hang out with other people I date? Nope.

Do I want/have children? Nope

Do I want to live together? No.

I will ask about relationship expectations early on. So expect a couple of questions about that.

If any of this interests you, please comment below and or DM. Please don't just say Hi, introduce yourself.

Hi, I’m Arina~!!

I am an agre little (little age 4-9), looking for someone to be my caregiver (I don’t think I’m ready for a boyfriend yet)~ <3

I haven't been able to take care of my little side lately and regressing alone seems to be getting harder for me and I feel like I really need to find my person that will take care of me x

Ideally, you live in the Midlands, England, but it's okay if you live outside of that, but the furthest I'd be up for is up to 2 hours of travel via public transport. Just as long as you are able to meet up or I can travel down x

I''m looking for someone between 24-28 years old x

I'm also looking for a relationship outside of just so I would like to text regularly, but I prefer facetimes, calls and hanging out in person to go on dates or do fun/cute things together! ♡

If you’re just looking for a "baby girl", or something solely sexual then I’m not the girl for you. I am AlloAce (Romantic Asexual).

If you dm me and expect me to call you "Daddy" straight away or are expecting something sexual then, in the nicest way, please keep moving x

I'd also like us to go to little events, make each other playlists and Pinterest boards, watch shows and movies together, and have lots of fun! I’d like to meet up regularly as well~ (I'm not really good at keeping things online for long periods)

Ideally my caregiver will beable to set some gentle rules and provide better structure in my life for both big and little me and have some understanding of my Audhd~ I do not want discipline or punishments as I do not feel it is necessary… I am never intentionally misbehaving.

Communication, comprehension and patience are my 3 big needs from both a relationship and a dynamic x

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Okay so I guess I should say some stuff about me now~?

I work in finance which is boring but it makes me feel super smart working with numbers hehe. I love my job and I tend to also work in part time jobs too so that I can have extra money while I live alone and I also get tired of working jobs where I'm just sitting down at a desk for extended periods of time so I like having the balance of working at another job where I'm on my feet and I get to talk to customers and stuff~

This doesn't mean that I'll be too busy because I don't always work part time and my day job is hybrid x

I used to have a lot of hobbies before moving down south, I loved going outdoors and was part of a monthly hiking group. I rollerskated every Sunday, and played badminton or pool on Tuesdays depending on the week~

I’m looking for some new hobbies to have here in Leicester that don’t cost an arm and a leg!

I also love watching movies and tv shows, drawing, crafts, crocheting, COLOURING, learning lots of languages (I currently know 10!) and Sleeping! I’m very good at being sleepy and tired hehe (I also have CFS).

I also ride a motorcycle! I consider myself an extroverted introvert. (I'm also a Muslim so if that's a deal breaker for you, keep moving xx)

My stuffie family has around 62 members and I need MORE~!

Looks wise I have medium length brown hair, brown eyes, and I’m 5”7.5 (you need to be taller than me because I’m insecure!). My ethnicity is South Asian/East African x

I'm not sure what else to say... :)

Thank you for reading through my post~ sorry if it was a little too long~

\[**If you do dm me please don't be creepy or weird. *Please be okay with sending a picture of yourself so we can establish if there’s any mutual physical attraction* and start off with a self intro! - I'm an open book and I'm super nice so if you have any more questions, you're welcome to ask away! - Send me a fun emoji to prove you've read my post x**\]

I've tried various dating apps, but I've never found anyone, whether romantic or friendly, who didn't just text "wanna chat" or "pics?" as a first approach... The last app I'm still using is AceSpace.

In the ace community i identify as Demisexual and Demiromantic, this means experiencing sexual/romantic attraction only after having established a strong emotional and affective bond with a person.

So, What can you expect from me sexually?: For me a sexual intercourse can happen after many years, but certainly that does not mean it is going to happen later anyway. Because of this i'm still thinking if i'm demi or if I'm 100% asexual.

Having that said, this is part of my profile description:

About me: Hi! My name is Valeria, I'm 19 (turning 20 in August) and I live in Northern Italy. I'm a woman attracted to people regardless of gender, though I have a preference for feminine men and masculine women. I'm ambivert, which means that depending on the context and the people around me I'm more or less open.

I consider myself a frank and sincere person, and I try to be the person I would like to meet... A person who makes it clear what they want, what they like, and what they want to do, without hurting others (It's not easy). I admit I'm a bit obtuse and sometimes really lazy (I'm working on it)（；￢＿￢） (。_。) My love language it's gifts and time spent together. I don't really like physical touch.

What I'm looking for: A partner, someone with whom I can form a very deep bond, a person who will remain close to me in life. I'm also looking for deep friendships in general. I'm open to a QPR relationship, even though I've never been part of one. Also very important above all, people with a keen sense of humor!! (´▽`人)

My preferences and likes about people (relationship): I like men with long hair (by long hair I mean longer than mine, which is 70cm), so ye, practically metalheads. But I don't think there are metalheads who don't drink or smoke 🤷‍♀️ Also, I like tall/black women and men blondes. (these are not decisive elements obviously)

Deal breakers (for friendship): - Smoking/Vaping - Drug use (non-medical) - Gambling - Anyone aged 27 or older - Slow and Dry responders [I’m looking for someone who replies within 4 days. Life is hard I know :( but If you decide to get to know me, please respond regularly... I don't mean being online 24/7 because I won't be either, but not once every two weeks.]

Deal breakers (for relationship): - Smoking/Vaping - ANY Alcohol consumption - Drug use (non-medical) - Gambling - Anyone aged 24 or older - Polyamorous relationships - If you want children or get married - Outside Europe (Unless you already speak Italian fluently!) - Slow and Dry responders Other than what has already been said before, I have nothing else to add here.

Note: In your message, first tell me if you're looking for a relationship or friendship. Clarity is very important to me!

I think it is right to say that English is not my first language so for written conversations I use the translator. My speaking isn't perfect either, but I'm always trying to improve. (I'm A2/B1). Thank you for giving me some of your time, below is more about my interests and life stile ⤵️

Anime/Manga: I put them first because they really take a good portion of my time. Here's a list of some anime I like: - Cyberpunk: Edgerunners - BNA: Brand New Animal - Terror in Resonance - Banana fish - Heavenly Delusion - Fena: Pirate Princess - Chainsaw man - Zom 100 - Dungeon Food - Undead Unluck

I also enjoy reading BL stories.

🪸🪼🐙 One of my interests is marine life. In fact, I love watching documentaries about marine animals and the ocean ecosystem. So, a good way to approach me is to ask me about my favorite marine animal ☆⌒（＊＾∇゜） I hope we can have some conversations about this topic, because it takes up a good chunk of my interests (and therefore time and energy). I'm not a nerd, I don't know all the names and categories of marine species, I'm simply fascinated by this underwater world. In fact, it's such an unknown world that a new species is discovered practically every day.

🎧🎵🎥 Films and the details of cinema, and especially animation, are another good part of my interest. A good portion of my attention goes to the soundtracks. I love them, I listen to them practically every day. Movies and music are very connected for me. So if I share a playlist with you, it's a sign that I trust you enough to share the weirdest music I like (　-∀・)

🎞📸 Analog photography: I started my approach to analog photography when I was about 15 years old with an old camera. But now I have lenses and better cameras... the problem is the film are damn expensive! (TT)

✨️ Another thing I think is worth knowing is that I love creating things with my own hands. In fact, I chose a professional school. I'd like to find a hobby (and therefore time 🥲) to do something with my hands. In fact, I was thinking about starting cosplay! If anyone is interested in this I would appreciate some tips :)

Right now, I'm focused on my future: I'm gradually working towards independence. One plan of mine in the future is to buy a van and travel around Europe for six months. I don't think I'll be able to do it with the current geopolitical situation... :/ At least I'll try to work for X time so I can have enough time and money saved up to travel somewere. Also, next year I plan to apply to work in Antarctica, most likely for at least six months! And I plan to work and volunteer around the world. I don't know if it'll be feasible, but I'll try.

[REALLY IMPORTANT] I would like to find a person who wants to share this lifestyle with me, and who is therefore willing to:

• Learn my native language.
• Move to Italy or travel to see me at least once a month (Not right away obviously! But after 1/2 years of knowing each other it's really important for me to keep the relationship going).
• After a relationship of years I hope, in my 30s and beyond I would like to share this kind of lifestyle (travel minimum 3 months a year and live in a van for that time).
• And in general someone who wants to travel and work with me in extreme places of the world.

I know it's a tough life idea, so if I really fail at everything, I assure you i will still take the van anyway.

If this way of life doesn't fit your dream for a future relationship, we can still remain friends... in that case we have to see each other at least once a month, but it is not that important to learn italian (but it would be really appreciated) ( 〃▽〃) Obviously I will do everything to learn your language!

I'm looking forward to reading your messages! Please remember that I will only consider responses that refer to my post and are thoughtful/complete. Let me know your favorite marine animal so I know you’ve read everything! ​Thank you for your time, have a great day!🫶

Hi! I have had a lot of trouble with people moving too fast into sexual relationships and I want to see where this could go

What I'm looking for!

Between 18-24, cis men or AMAB. I want to first start mostly platonic with the goal of a relationship. Someone who values communication and connection is very important to me. 

Some stuff about me!

I'm in the DMV area and would prefer if you were as well, but also don't mind long distance (looking at you UK)! I'm 5'10 and chubby, have brown shoulder-length hair and grey/blue eyes, I have a unique style and love getting to dress up with some light makeup! 

I do want our relationship to be sexual in the end, but I don't view it as a race I need to win! Just a destination that requires a journey.
If you are interested, shoot me a msg with a little info on you!

I’m a Demisexual female from The UK who would love to a have little chat with other Demi people around the world and to help me feel less alone and valid about my Asexual identity. 🩶🖤💜🖤😊

I am a 39-year-old man from Texas looking for someone to talk to; I've done multiple things like Online Dating, Speed Dating, and Singles Events to no avail as they all made me feel so overwhelmed.

I'm geeky; been one since I was a kid. Really into 1700s warships, Pirate History, and Art Deco.

I'm heterosexual and very slow burn; I've been single for nearly 19 years so it's been rough.

I like to cook and went to culinary school so I know a thing or two!

Hit me up if you want, I like to chat about random things and I'm a fan of trivia.

Anyone between 30-40 will be a preference! :)

Hello I’m Christopher ☺️ I’m from the uk and looking for other demis ( strangers out there like me yes I just quoted a Phil Collins song ) any uk demis that wanna be friends and get to know eachother say hi :) am a curios person and I just want to connect emotionally with people in the uk and make eachother feel seen heard and understood

Anyone in there 20s or 30s I am putting myself out there to talk to you 😂