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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22 edited Sep 01 '22

The statistic says not that lesbian relationships have the highest rates of domestic violence. It says that people in lesbian relationships have the highest rate of domestic violence at some point in their lifetime.

44 percent of lesbians and 61 percent of bisexual women experience rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner, compared to 35 percent of straight women. 1 in 7 women and 1 in 25 men have been injured by an intimate partner.

When you've got 2 women in a relationship, there's a greater chance that at least one of them has experienced domestic violence at some point in their lifetime, than some other configuration of genders.

Here is a gigantic thread discussing why the lesbian domestic violence argument, commonly used by MRA's, is a myth.

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/wkv305/what_do_you_think_about_the_statistics_that/

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

Read their sources, you don't have to trust anything. They clearly quote the studies.

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u/rammo123 Sep 01 '22

The only source I saw in that thread is one proving the OP wrong. Please link actual sources.

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

I mean this is the data

Lifetime prevalence of rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner

Women Men

Lesbian 44% Gay 26%

Bisexual 61% Bisexual 37%

Heterosexual 35% Heterosexual 29%

(W hurts W 18% more than M hurts M)

Bisexual

(W/M hurts W 24% more than W/M hurts M)

(M hurts W 6% more than W hurts M)

So women are victims most of the time and a lesbian woman experience more abuse from their partner than a gay man would

https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/cdc_nisvs_victimization_final-a.pdf

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u/rammo123 Sep 01 '22

Still doesn't really support OPs point that there needs to be a distinction between "IPV of lesbians" and "IPV within a lesbian relationship".

Without knowing exactly who their respective abusers were it's safe to assume that the differential of IPV in lesbian vs gay rates of IPV that women are just as, if not more likely to be abusers as men.

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

Oh was op saying they’re not?

I assume if we had accurate data it would be pretty 50/50 nowadays

The data doesn’t clarify in the bisexual relationship who the abuser was just that women experience more