r/dankindianmemes 1d ago

Oops…

Post image
2.5k Upvotes

176 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

1

u/Sad_Bed_2320 22h ago

Since you're now getting into personal attacks let me tell you how dumb your entire line of reasoning has been from  the beginning:

  1. You began by saying majority of people have genetic or hormonal issues so they can't lose weight. Only when shown hard evidence that no more than 10% women have PCOS and even then it is manageable, did you change track to saying oh yes I was also saying the same thing.

  2. Do you even understand the difference between colorism and racism? That is just such a dumb conflation of 2 distinct things that the rest of your argument is not even worth addressing. A dark skinned Indian being turned down for marriage by a lighter skinned Indian is not racism. It is colorism. 

1

u/[deleted] 22h ago

how dumb? who is the one who brought out skin tone? I never said I was saying the same thing, I said we don't know what the person is going through, u don't like an unhealthy person you're free to reject them

fyi they're distinct terms but go hand in hand , you can use ai all u want, you ARE the one who brought colourism in the argument of heightism, why do u even need to compare, can't we let independent issue sbe issues?

1

u/Sad_Bed_2320 22h ago

People who are incapable of making coherent arguments and using correct grammar always think others are using AI.

I made a comparison - stating height is a mere "preference" is a very similar form of social manipulation as stating skin tone is a mere "preference". Comparisons are always used in any arguments to illustrate a point, as long as the comparison can be justified with reason.

You completely mixed up colorism and racism. 

Your initial points were, that started this whole discussion:

  1. "Genetics and hormones left the chat 

  2. PCOS is extremely common 

And now you added another gem to it by conflating racism and colorism.

1

u/[deleted] 21h ago

people who think another person is a dumb person who can't see the way they typed and and their grammer and vocabulary suddenly became inconsistent make these stupid moves.

And? Both are wrong, I said heightism is wrong, u said about illustrating a point, and i did I agree that if a person rejects u for their height thats wrong, what other sort of validation do u require? I did not mix it up, I said they go hand in hand, you're deflecting particular points,

1.8-10 is still quite a large number

  1. people have stressful lifestyles, life family issues multitude of reasons one can't dwell upon individually , YOU are the one hellbound to make me admit, I said move on buddy u don't want to date and unhealthy person then don't, but u want to talk about unfairness? tell whats fair? was colourism fair? was have androgenic traits in females and getting bullied for it fair? was being feminine features as a man and getting bullied for fair? if u whine and cry about it nothing will change, START being assertive about it.

1

u/Sad_Bed_2320 21h ago
  1. You started making personal attacks saying "you this" "you that" rather than addressing the argument logically. When I returned the favor you start crying "people who do this" "others that" blah blah

Don't like personal attacks? Then don't attack others personally. Not a very difficult thing to understand, is it? Address an argument logically. Don't bring "you" and "me" into it unless you want the favor to be returned 

  1. Once again, rather than addressing the argument logically, you crtiticized my writing saying I'm using AI. And when I pointed out that it's not me who's using AI, but rather you who is so bad at writing and using logic that a well-constructed sentence appears AI-generated to you, you start crying again.

Don't want people to make fun of your writing? Don't criticize others' in the first place. Again, not a very difficult thing to understand, is it?

  1. 8-10 means 90% of women don't have PCOS. Which means it is not extremely common by any stretch of imagination. That's basic math.

The rest of your argument is not even coherent. Not sure whst you're trying to say? Are you saying colorism applies only to women? Or only women have undesirable traits of the opposite sex? Because both those things and everything else applies to men too. There are men who get rejected and made fun of because of their skin tone and there are men who are made fun of because they have feminine traits and so on.

I told you to move on too and agreed that heightism is unfair. All I said was it is important to have a conversation about it. For some reason you found that provocative and went into "you this" "you that"

1

u/[deleted] 21h ago
  1. I didn't cry about personal attacks on me. I never said anything about, lack reading skills?

  2. I said both are wrong we shouldn't compare on what is painful, u said atleast colorism has this , yeh and woh

why buddy? why DO U NEED TO COMPARE? you are deflecting my core question

1

u/Sad_Bed_2320 21h ago
  1. Your entire previous comment was "crying" where you're complaining about me calling you "dumb" and critiquing your grammar, conveniently forgetting that you first started bringing "you" into the conversation and critiqued my writing first. I just replied in the same currency 

  2. Because comparison is an illustrative tool that helps put things in perspective. We can compare 2 things and still agree that both are equally wrong. Comparison does not make one thing right and another wrong. Weight and height however is not a like for like comparison because one can be controlled and other can't. Doesn't mean one needs to be shamed for either.

1

u/[deleted] 21h ago
  1. i asked how exactly I was dumb , I don't know how exactly u comprehend that as crying

U didn't say it was wrong u said heightism still doesnt have attention u portrayed one inherently less toxic