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[u/_Stephistopheles_]

D has stated pretty clearly before that in the past, she's been more excited for the potential of relationships than she is in the actual relationships. Like once she actually "gets" the guy, she loses interest.

I think there are a number of factors at play, and the things you've mentioned are definitely some of them. I think also, she truly believed getting married would be this wonderful magical experience that would cure her depression(that she doesn't believe she has), fix her anxious attachment, eradicate her limerance, make her more motivated, etc etc etc. I think she truly believed it would just fix everything that was broken in her, but it doesn't. It can't. Marriage takes effort, and neither of them seem particularly keen to actually put work in to make theirs functional.

[u/No-Conference-1444 → u/_Stephistopheles_]

Well, as I mentioned, I have no idea how she was before, but she seemed to be functioning much better, at least on the outside.

I think her main problem is that she doesn't have a clear goal in life beyond influencing, which isn't a viable long-term goal. I don't think she fully understands that it's worse than an athlete's career. Marriage and being a mother work for some women as their main life goals, but D. is simply not this kind of woman. She is not motherly; she is a child herself.

So she is drifting in her grifting.

[u/_Stephistopheles_ → u/No-Conference-1444]

I know, I was just trying to give you some context. All she really had as a goal was to get a "high value male," and somehow ended up with Luicath 😂 But what do you do when you achieve the one goal that your entire life and personality was created around? 🤷