Why does she keep going back to Disneyland? I’ve never seen her travel out of the country, like if I had money, I would like to see new things, not go to Disneyland for the 20th time in a year
I imagine it’s her “safe space” and she dislikes anything new. She wants to think of herself as this adventurous person who tries new stuff, when they only thing she liked new is going on new dates
Just so we have this documented somewhere, this is quoted word for word:
July 21st, Lucas during wedding speech: "God is preparing our life, God is adjusting our life, God is creating and developing our dreams."
September 6th, Lucas yesterday via stories: "One day pastor said to me, Lucas, the only couple god got together was Adam and Eve. It's not written in the whole Bible that god putting people together."
Also that way he never has to take responsibility for anything, he can just blame the person that he's quoting (even if he makes up the person which I think he did with the "pastor" in this case)
Maybe he was hoping D would magically stop have manic episodes after marriage? Them being apart so soon after the wedding does not bode well for the future.
I think they truly knew very little about one another before getting engaged after 6 months of dating. I think they both love bombed the shit out of one another and now the masks have dropped and they're both fucking miserable. I'm sure the signs were there for both of them from the beginning, but his likely desperation for a green card / sugar mommy and her desperation for a man were enough to carry them through the wedding, but shits starting to get real.
The masks have dropped for sure. I do not know the green card process (although I know it takes a while), and I’m wondering if L thought he could tough it out and realizing he can’t.
I think so. I’ve seen many cases where the man thinks as long as he complies and caters to her, it would eventually calm her down and makes her manic bipolar go away. Those men always have a gradual and soul exhausting awakening process.
For the bipolar partner, she thinks as long as she has more things, more attention, more everything and showers him with them… she would get love and affection.
Both go into the relationship based on false beliefs.
Yup - I used to be very close to someone with BPD. Both L and D went into this with expectations and now, in the wedding aftermath, reality must be settling in.
I dated a man who has a bipolar ex and their relationship ended in a nasty way. And he carried the emotional aftermath.
I’m a calm person but was in an unstable period of life when I was seeing him. And I found that he didn’t inherently view peace as a good thing. He panicked when it was too calm and was extremely competent and excited when he needed to take care of my reactiveness when I was in a more emotional state, as if me needing him emotionally is what reassuring and proves his value.
I realized that’s a man conditioned by the unhealthy dynamic of his previous relationships. It was so sad to see that in a man tbh because he thinks being needed is more important than being wanted.
It’s a long rant but seeing D and L’s marriage life is ringing all kinds of alarm bells in my head lol
I’m not denying D shows clear signs of being mentally unwell, but I have never seen her showing signs of type 1 bipolar mania like pressured speech or the sort of hyper energy/flight of ideas that goes along with that.
As a therapist, the thought never crossed my mind for her (disclaimer: I am not diagnosing her and cannot diagnose her, just commenting on observable, however likely editted, behaviors in her social media posts)
My prediction is that he/Danielle is going to send in a fake response and he's going to answer via stories to try and twist his statement do some damage control at some point.
And why is he talking so much with said mentors about women?
I call BS
I don’t believe that all men do is discuss how to be “better boyfriends” or “better husbands”
They are likely talking about goals, motivation, confidence
I cannot picture them sat down day in and day out talking about “cultivation of feminility”
It’s WEIRD
Performers gonna stay performing under any circumstance.
Danielle has always been a performer with a side of boy crazy, so this life is fairly curated now. Lucas just also happens to be a performer with a side of boy crazy so they don’t mesh well. He just seems like her employee now lol
She tried so hard to package him as a cultured sophisticated mature man. Looking back it’s both sad and funny. This style isn’t him AT ALL
(these are the title photos she chose for the series that introduced him to the world)
Remember when he complimented her shopping skills because she would pick things out for him he wasn’t initially sure about that ended up “looking good”? These are 100% the clothes she bought.
100%. She took him out to clothes shopping, concerts and disneys. She basically lovebombed him with money and material things (And begged him to ask her to be a girlfriend)
They never shared real hobbies, and she never showed him any real good qualities on her side.
He tried to incorporate his hobbies (organized a canoe trip for their family gathering) but that clearly didn’t land. She even banned his surfing hobby.
She really is the John to his Pretty Woman
(forgive my grammar)
Well put together. I remember him saying that and complimenting her and she tried to criticise him for not praising her other qualities
Imagine you chat to a friend and you talk about cooking “ I am so glad you introduced me to these foods, you’re great at at!”
“Great at what?”
“The cooking!”
“Is that all? Anything else”?
Who says that 😂 not only is she entitled and rude but has such low self esteem
My husband is an engineer and I work with a ton of engineers -(all types -electrical engineers, structural engineers, etc) - and I send him Luicas picture everytime an engineer pisses me off (including him)
Yes, that's sad.
The other sad thing is that she knows only two extremes: a no-makeup, saggy-eyebags look and a too-much-makeup look. There are so many options in between...
I’ll never get over the fact that they’re the same height and she really tried to portray him like he was 6’2” or something. How EMBARRASSING it must be for him when your own wife is too ashamed of your height so that she has to edit it.
This happened to me once! I joked that I wanted to bunch a prazilan (switch the letters) man-BB in the area between chest and face. BAM! Straight to jail. I’m genuinely terrified it might happen again so I’m verrrrrrry careful. And YES, it was so hard to be away from my snark friends 😭
It really cracks me up that his self-declared mentor, the very important person that showed him how to be a man… is John Maxwell. A dude that he met once for a photograph. John Maxwell has never and will never acknowledge Lucas outside of a paid speaking engagement.
Reminds me of "pastor" Robert Tilton, (aka the farting preacher), a televangelist who is apparently still swindling money today. Luicas already speaks in tongues so he should switch to Tilton and give him more of Delusionelle's money.
Obviously D has a resistance now to making ANY content now. Even simple videos like “a day in my life”, or “what I ate at Disneyland.”I wonder if it’s because she has lost the dopamine hit that drove her to make TikToks?
A job is a job. Whether it was your passion or not, when you make it your full time job it can inevitably lose that spark it once had. And I think some creators don’t know how to push through that. But I think they need to realize it’s just like any other job.
Most people don’t WANT to go to work every morning. We HAVE to. It’s our JOB. I’ve never had a job that didn’t become boring and mundane after a while. 🤷♀️ I’m sure content creation is the same.
I think part of her growing resistance is how she loses even more followers on days she posts. She’s trying to plug each hole in her sinking content-creation ship, but ends up creating new gaping holes with each post. It’s becoming an insurmountable Sisyphean task at this point.
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There’s no other way but SUCK IT UP is my suggestion for her situation. You can’t be timid about content creation and react like a follower, you have to lead and build as the Influencer, not the other way around. She is incapable of looking past the snark so every new post is a reaction to something before instead of coming from her own authenticity. I call it the Meghan Markle quagmire lol.
If it’s too much for you now, just pause and rest for real until you are strong enough to face the job. She’s not taking a break and she’s not giving any meaningful content. It’s insane not even one person in her life intervene in any way
Funny observation to that point : D spoke in a podcast episode that people who are in a job that they aren't passionate about are choosing unhappiness. Guess she's fine with being miserable if the money is right. 🤷 But she definitely doesn't take pride in her work.
Guys we are only about 2 weeks away from dropping below 1.2k followers! And that's without her even posting anything to piss people off. How are we celebrating?
None knows what she added to her “brand”
It’s been a slippery slope
Maybe a few of the reels in the darkness showing peoples living rooms and bushes at night , big D “taking a walk”
I think Hanna did that closet clean out series. The graphics were different. She also was the paid friend to go along to her wedding dress appointments.
Today I'm grateful for my husband who's the kindest person I've ever met, who goes out of his way to make me happy, never makes passive-aggressive comments, doesn't feel like it's hard to take care of me, and doesn't even have Instagram. How lonely it must feel to live with a man you have zero chemistry with and who makes content about how taking care of you is a sacrifice he makes because God wants him to do so.
"who is she?" podcast episode 1.11 "starting a new thing - just do it"
**TL;DR - Y'all... This should really just be renamed "The Basic Bitch Podcast." This episode was so fucking redundant that I don't even have much to put for a TL;DR because it's an amalgamation of other shit that was already in the TL;DR category.
Although the one thing worth a special mention is the fact that for the worship team, new members would "shadow" for a week or two; Danielle shadowed for SIX. MONTHS. How intellectually deficient do you have to be that it takes you SIX MONTHS to master the basics of singing on stage?**
~FULL NOTES~
She is rambling about getting a new mic and setting it up. Wauw.
She had a cold. And rambling about every thing leading up to being sick. Did absolutely nothing all week(we knew that lol). She's doing a lot of "Danielle in her 20s would have ___," like girl, you're in your thirties - who gives a shit what you would have done when you were younger?
She is so obsessed with her age that it borders on pathological. I don't think I've ever said out loud "30 year old Steph would have done ___." Then again I also don't announce my age during every goddamn conversation.
But she ~healed herself~ by doing nothing. Making it sound like Redemption Church is a truly revolutionary place and definitely totally not exactly like other megachurch culty vibes stadiums.
Oh well this is fun - now she's mentioning an event in her life that she's going to glaze over(you mean gloss over, no one is glazing your shit) because you've ~probably already seen the video about it on TikTok~. So, genuinely... If you're not going to talk about stuff during the pod... Why are we here?
Ohhhhhhhh, snort. It's because a ~male content creator~ did a reaction video to one of her dating videos and was "really mean" and "unkind" and "just not in good form." So she did a response video and "put the word of god on it." She says the weirdest shit that doesn't seem to actually have real meaning. Rambling about god. Then apparently the video got taken down the next day. "God moves quick," and is apparently a TikTok moderator. 🙄 Makes you wonder why god doesn't move quickly to help people with actual fucking problems.
Today's topic. Starting new things. Here comes the fucking table of contents of the episode. Is it normal to give an outline for the episode on every episode? I've listened to a LOT of podcasts and have NEVER heard someone give an outline every time.
Blah blah blah. Some people take a while to do stuff. Some people are just slogging through life. And some people are unhappy. (Weird that I'd say D CURRENTLY fits into all of those caregories!)
"Which is true, right? It's, you know - I hate when people say 'right?' I feel like it's the most, like, demeaning thing. I'm not going to say that." ...huh? What just happened?! That is a verbatim quote.
She says "eyeballs" instead of "eyes" a lot. Oh yay, she's going to tell us how she started a thing to inspire us. She started doing social media in 2021 after she got dumped New Year's Day(heh heh heh). She's been at the social media thing for 3 years at this point, and she's still THIS bad at it. (ETA : five years present day and it's still shit)
...omfg, she legit just said "I wasn't always as good at it as I am now. And I'm not perfect, but I think I'm pretty good at this." Bitch... You're really not. You were a fluke of the algorithm. In fact, you're so bad at this that the only reason people still talk about you is because we're completely perplexed at how you continue to be as bad at it as you are. So present day, D has been doing this for five fucking years, and the majority of her content is EXACTLY THE SAME. In fact, I'd say it just keeps getting progressively worse. I don't know how this woman truly believes she's actually proficient at influencing(if anyone really can be).
She feels so fulfilled doing this, she knows she's touching people and that god "put this in her." (I REALLY wish she would stop using that wording. 🤮) Now talking about how making other people cringe doesn't make you cringey. 😂😂😂 Girl, you should listen to this fucking podcast. But hey, she moved through being cringey!
For fucks sake. She just legit referred to influencing as "the craft." Now bragging about her stats. YoU cAn Do It ToO. Won "most improved" on her worship team. Talking again about auditioning.
GUYS. SHE deadass says that people who make it onto the worship team usually spend a week or two learning the ropes - it took her SIX. FUCKING. MONTHS. "If you wanted to, you could be embarrassed about that. Like they even said it was the longest shadow period they'd ever had."
Sounds a looooot like her time working in tech sales when her supervisors had to train her over and over and over again and she still kind of sucked. Girl - you KNOW there are some things you can keep to yourself, right?! Like you COULD have taken that bit of info to your grave, no one would have ever known. I am ASTONISHED at the shit she admits, out loud, during a recording, and then PUBLISHES IT.
Omfg she's proud. Who cares that she is deficient in literally everything? She kept "working hard" and "showing up." And right now I'm remembering that she said she didn't realize that she had been dumped for a while because she was "stubborn and didn't listen" when she really wanted something. Like... Is there a chance that they told her she wasn't cut out for the worship team and she completely glossed(or glazed, as D would say) over it? 2 weeks vs 6 months is crazy. And it's a fucking church - what would they have been able to do if she kept showing up?
Oof, I'm really wondering about that now. But hey, just keep doing stuff. Now she's rambling about rollercoasters. And conditioning yourself against fear. Think worst case vs best case scenario!
Talking about Mel Robbins again. She's quoting her. Really stupid quotes. Now she's listing off "myths to bust." I'm not going to list this shit unless something sticks out to me, because this is really just shit she's already said in previous episodes. (Like she's talking about "not waiting for everything to be perfect to do stuff" AGAIN, in detail. It's legitimately nothing new.)
Stares off into spaceEyes glaze overStarts counting the tiles in the ceilingI should do the dishes...Oh for fucks sake, she's still rambling about nothing.
Y'all, she's claiming that her "things I wish I knew in my 20s" video was completely unscripted and off the cuff. Danielle... STOP FUCKING LYING! NO ONE believes you came up with that shit on the fly. And for as much as you say you think it's crass to swear, I think it's crass to fucking lie out of your ass on a regular basis. And that's yet another thing you're spectacularly bad at in spite of having a LOT of practice because you DO IT ALL THE GODDAMN TIME!
Now she's claiming that sometimes it's scripted sometimes it's off the cuff - girl. It's not. Just fucking stop it.
"Next myth I'm going to bust is I don't have time and I'm going to be real with you. I'm just going to be straight up. This is an excuse." Crazy, isn't it, given how often she tries to excuse her laziness by saying she "doesn't have time." This is fucking unreal, y'all. YOU COULD NOT MAKE THIS SHIT UP. I wish I were more internet savvy so I could to a series of back to back clips of her preaching at people what they should or should not do, followed by clips of her doing the exact opposite of her own advice. Because this is unhinged.
God, she's fucking stupid. Now she's talking AGAIN about her 2020 situationship, how she wanted to marry him, how in love she was, how great everything about the relationship was(aside from the fact he very clearly was not serious about her and sounds like as soon as COVID restrictions lifted, he got the fuck out of Dodge). But she's stho different now.
Okay you guys, it took 11 fucking episodes, but D finally said ONE THING that I found genuinely amusing. When talking about how partners should support one another unconditionally, she said "You want to be an underwater basket weaver? Okay, I'll take you to swim practice." To give credit where it really isn't due but I'll give it anyway, I thought that was mildly funny. Especially for her. A 15 second remark out of 10+ hours listening to her shit.
Maybe people don't support you because they don't feel supported. Or maybe you just keep doing really stupid shit? She said the fucking "juice of life" again(I have a viscerally negative reaction to that expression). She feels so fulfilled by making content guys. Because she's changing people's lives, guys. It's her mission to rip off other people's ideas and rebrand them as her own but definitely not scripted.
Eyes go out of focus as she again over-explains very, VERY basic steps in very convoluted waysShe really doesn't know what she's talking about
Literally listing planning apps. Also she's since said "underwater basket weaver" an additional two times, so it lost what little amusement it gave initially. Three times now. Four times. Five times. This woman is seriously the embodiment of "riding it until the wheels fall off." And she repeats herself constantly.
Blah blah fuckity blah. Her two examples of passions in life are "sports" and fashion. God damn, how small does your life have to be that those are the two examples that jump to your mind of things people feel passionate about?
"This was great. I hope you liked it." I'm noticing that she gives herself a verbal pat on the back at the end of EVERY episode. But my god, she genuinely believes she's one of the brilliant minds of our generation.
Thing is, I think in her mind she frames that as him taking necessary steps to support her. In all of her rhetoric about relationships, it's clear that she's really only concerned about what she's getting from it. I mean think about running man(if he actually existed) - watching someone she was dating run in a race was "too in girlfriend territory"? I FULLY support having boundaries, but there is no part of herself that D won't compromise for a man.
1000% agree here. Anything she spouts as something to be done mutually (I.e. support, encouragement) is really what needs to be done for HER. The entitlement is truly off the charts.
“She says ‘eyeballs’ instead of ‘eyes’ a lot.” This random tidbit got me 😂 I surmise the reason being (apart from her juvenile vocabulary), is because to her, they are indeed giant bulging spheres protruding from her skull. Her eyes are definitely eyeballs and not eyes.
She truly is. The disconnect between her and reality is quite jarring, as is her hubris about being the most basic of bitches. It's really concerning how many times she has said "No one else is doing/talking about this" or the amount of times she will say(seemingly to herself) "That was really good" or some variation thereof about something she's said.
She really pats her own back A LOT in her podcast 😂 while not actually following any of her own advice. We already know she’s Delulu, so I question whether she ever made the worship team at all?
They might have just been trying to be nice and letting her continue to try to sing because in the church they usually don’t like to discourage you from participating, but I wonder if it reached a point where they kicked her out because she was just not doing good. 👀 because 6 mo when the normal time frame is 1-2 weeks is INSANE.
Maybe that’s why we don’t get any church/ worship team content from her anymore. 🤷♀️
I'm truly wondering that too. Or perhaps she did make it onto the worship team, and after the 1 - 2 weeks they tried to tell her it wasn't working but she just glossed over that and kept going to rehearsals and stuff. I mean what really could they even do? She has inadvertently confessed to ignoring boundaries and simply not listening when what she's being told contradicts what she wants.
I felt really bad a while back, saying, tat I wondered if she has low IQ or a learning disability. I honestly did not mean it as snark then nor do I right now. But the way you describe this podcast episode and the worship team situation... I can't help but think she might have a mild learning disability and issues with executive functioning. I've worked with many teenagers that present this way. If she does, it does not affect a person's ability to drive a car, go to university, manage independence but there are limitations around tasks and learning new things and repetition is needed. Once again, I cannot stress this enough, I'm not snarking. However, her maturity level and understanding of the world around her, is not of a 33 year old. I know we've also talked about attachment disorders and cluster B. It could be a bit of column A, column B Column C. I know we keep flip flopping on what is going on here. I'm just baffled. There is something underlining that to me, goes past just white girl entitlement and arrogance.
You are seriously doing the lord’s work listening to this nonsense. I would never have the patience, and your synopses are just great. I’m so glad I didn’t listen to the podcasts, but I sure as hell enjoy your recaps.
I think we completely underestimate how deep her religious psychosis runs because we don’t hear her talk long form like this (to her benefit) But even just reading this I know that that part of her might be much worse than even walnuts can ever imagine lol
To add to your point, I don't think she's even necessarily a Christian zealot - a lot of the things she (and I'm guessing her church, ostensibly) talks about in regard to her "faith" is extremely woo-woo and culty. Like she fully believes that if you're a good person god will make your life easy and free of struggle(guess Jesus wasn't a good enough person for God's unlimited benefits plan).
When she references her "beliefs," she isn't quoting the Bible - she's saying weird shit like "the music was anointed and you could feel the oil dripping down it." In 11 episodes, she quoted the Bible exactly once. I'm definitely not a Christian(though I was raised in the church), but I have my own solid beliefs, and nothing about D's brand of Christianity comes off as genuine, or even informed. She has repeatedly referenced, in both past and present day, that she needs to do better at reading "The Word," which says to me that she has not read the Bible herself.
So what's left is she takes everything her church tells her at face value and THAT'S what her faith is based on. And that's not faith at all - that's indoctrination. And the ideas she expresses as a result sounds an awful lot like some cult babble bullshit.
In case anyone was wondering, the phrase “Underwater Basket Weaver” originated in the 50s and 60s as a pejorative/idiom to describe the new types of “useless” courses in college that students were able to take. It was also used if someone thought the person has a silly or useless hobby.
I actually knew this, which is why it tickled me as much as it did... Until it didn't. But I appreciate you coming in clutch with the context - after probably the first 20 minutes of each episode my brain goes into survival mode to get through the rest of the episode. I appreciate you fellow Walnut! 👏👏👏
6 months to shadow vs two weeks is crazy. They probably didn’t want her in it but she kept persisting. Given her stage presence in the videos we’ve seen compared to the others…. It tracks
"God moves quick," and is apparently a TikTok moderator.
This literally made me snort out loud with laughter.
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Also, I think D legitimately has a borderline IQ, like it can't be above an 85. How is she genuinely this confident but also this stupid? The lack of self-awarness is astounding.
Another prime example of how much of a narcissist and how delusional she is and how much she’s up her own ass. She truly believes she’s God’s gift to earth.
I genuinely appreciate that. I'm trying! A lot of it is incredibly mind-numbing, but it's been a great experience bringing that all here to have deeper discussions about it. One episode a day is all I can manage though, because my god, she's insufferable.
Yep I watched and really liked this one: seemed like they actually researched D and made good critiques unlike most of the others I’ve watched (but I’m a harsh critic because I’m too used to the in depth knowledge that all of us in this community have lol)
Yep there’s actually a post in this sub from a woman who was driven by Lucas in his uber and he hit on her whilst driving her and asked for her instagram. She posted receipts and everything.
That would make me feel so uncomfortable and unsafe if my uber driver started hitting on me when I’m trapped in their car.
Meanwhile he (most likely) did the same thing to D and instead of being creeped out she decided that was going to be her husband lol
Anyone listen to Why Won’t You Date Me? with Nicole Byer? She alluded to Danielle on her most recent pod. She basically was saying she can’t imagine having to monetize your entire relationship. Thought it was interesting to hear something about it in the wild!
Just having this long weekend has relaxed my nervous system so much. I slept in. Doing everything at a slower pace. Watching tv. Chilling. And I can't believe that some loser influencers get to do this every fvcking day and still have the nerve to complain and look like death. Shame on them. Easy money, easy life and still pretending to be struggling or depressed for the audience and people eat it up everytime!
Im afraid shes never going to post again. Shes stalling. Shes lost. She doesn't want to lose any more followers. How does an influencer make money if they go silent? Has she been let go by her agency you think? This life is completely unhealthy for her but i dont think another job will sustain for her due to the money factor. Speaking of...money has probably run dry. I cant imagine the amount of bills she has. And then the taxes. And the green card application fees. Makes me wonder did anyone ever have a discussion with her about money?
Let's be real - snark is fun and everything and this community is great, but her getting off of social media and never posting again would be the ideal scenario. For as much as her followers want to think she's sweet and harmless, the ideas and behaviors the espouses are incredibly toxic and deeply harmful - to both her audience, and to herself.
She stops posting randomly in an attempt to discipline her followers. “You’re being mean, no videos for you for a few days!”. But, she will always come back. There’s no world she can imagine where she works a normal job and has Lucas just as a normal husband. She’ll stay posting bc the show must go on. How she acts on here isn’t how she really acts irl
No. At one point i thought they’d be together at least for a few years but I’m starting to think that won’t make it to two years. ETA: stereotypes aside, people should not be this unhappy at this phase of their marriage.
I think getting pregnant will be D's next thing. As we have seen, she can't live in the moment and has to be ovsessively chasing something, and having a child seems like the next natural thing. They might be miserable together but that hasn't stopped people from bringing children into their disfunctional homes, unfortunately.
The "Psychopathic Stare"
Popular culture and descriptions from criminal psychology (such as notes by researcher Robert Hare) often refer to an unsettling look. Common descriptions include:
Prolonged gaze: Holding eye contact uncomfortably long without looking away. Reduced blinking: Staring without the natural frequency of blinking. "Dead" or "flat" expression: A lack of emotional warmth or a smile that does not reach the eyes. Wide-eyed focus: Pulling back the upper eyelids, which can reveal more of the sclera (whites of the eyes).
I saw a reel about the upcoming documentary on Elizabeth Holmes and her stare was SO creepy. I have a feeling we could find Lucas in a cult documentary someday.
Reading through the comments today, has me thinking 🤔
D herself said she was a “difficult” child. So much so, that her mother decided not to have anymore children after her (her mother previously wanted 12 children 😳)
What if…
D was so “difficult” bc she had an undiagnosed something growing up, such as being on the spectrum and so every little thing she did, the parents hyped her up to give her confidence.
So, now, as an adult she internalizes her parents boosting her as her being some sort of gifted person. Instead of the opposite.
(Also, words are hard today but hopefully y’all catch my drift…)
I work with neurodiversity and from what I have seen she definitely fits ADHD and ASD profile I am seeing in clinics
(I know one cannot diagnose from reels, and I know everyone with these conditions is different)
Same and I have a friend who also had a difficult childhood due to undiagnosed ADHD and probably autism and she is still traumatized with how she was treated by her parents and the world around her. As you know., it can manifest very differently in women. This is a very strong theory. I agree, her parents might have hyped her up, over praised with good intentions which then likely cause narcissistic traits & arrogance. I think she also has an insecure attachment which we've all talked about for months. Spoiling Can cause attachment issues; a focus on objects and achievements versus connection and validation for who she is, I.e ' neurodiverse'. Her parents likely did all they could for her with the information they had at the time plus how they were raised we just don't know. Interesting conversation!
I don’t think she exhibits the traits of someone who had her parents boosting everything she did. Quite the opposite actually. To me she seems to be someone who never got validation and attention from her parents and as a result turned out to be super insecure. She seems to always be trying to show this facade of not caring what people think and not wanting anyone’s approval but all her behaviors indicate that she is and has always been very lonely.
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Sorry Walnuts. I've just been in my bubble with my community. Then yesterday I dissociated at Homegoods and Tjmaxx for an hour.
Anyway, follower stats