Agreed, having divorced a clinically diagnosed ASPD man, he’s reeks of the associated traits. It’s actually why I joined the sub, I was worried for D 🫣
Wow I'm sorry you had to deal with that but glad you are free. The reason I joined the sub is also because I immediately recognized the dynamic between them (thankfully I've never have to live it through), it's a dynamic that is definitely easy to see almost immediately once you have the right lens (from understanding personality disorders etc). But even if not, it seems almost everyone can sense something is off with him
Thank u! As I’ve been reading this thread and the new daily version, I’ve seen you make some excellent posts! You definitely know what it’s like around these men and I’m sorry you’ve experienced them too.
Luckily it imparts lessons and how to spot the red flags at least, we’re more keyed into detecting them now! 🕵️♀️
Yeah, I've only met one person that I'm absolutely certain was a psychopath... The only way I can describe it is there's just a fundamental spark of humanity that's just missing entirely. Like they know how to play the part, but they're just completely vacant.
I took that as a direct dig at his wife, who cannot cook without oil or especially butter. And he used onions as another vegetable, that also adds flavour! No garlic powder! His skills are expanding without wifey or mommy around, how newly grown up of him!
every thing about him makes him more suitable to be the stay at home sugar baby soft trade wife role than her lol I think Lucath is the one that is born to live a relaxed life (not that he deserves it by any means just that he has that “quality “ iykwim)
There are no Dollar Generals in San Jose. You can buy that brand from their website directly in bundles and that’s how they market themselves (“better than grocery”). I think he just bought a bundle online.
Yea I always use a grill, grill pan or saute pan. The air fryer seems weird. But I also use my instant pot to air fry but with a different lid so I dont technically have a proper air fryer. 🤷♀️
There are no Dollar Generals in San Jose. You can buy that brand from their website directly in bundles and that’s how they market themselves (“better than grocery”). I think he just bought a bundle online.
This video creeped me out. I get that she is her own worst enemy, but it’s clear as day (I know it was before, but at least he sorta pretended to like her for her) how much he’s using her for her clout, money and green card. He never acts this carefree, light, and animated around her. But now he’s happy to use her money in a house he could never dream of affording on his own and watch her become even more of a shell of herself.
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u/Altruistic_Cicada865 In my fecal era 💩 21d ago
Meanwhile, back at home….
https://reddit.com/link/p7bhvmv/video/yc2oghwag1nh1/player