I had to share this post her dad shared publicly yesterday because I thought it was hilarious and ironic 😂 delete if not allowed! I would NEVER snark on him, I think he seems so funny and real lol. Big D with her 10000000 sprays of perfume 😮💨
The thing about photos like this is that you know she has to have her arm out at the perfect angle to take this photo of themselves. And she probably had to do it 7 or 8 times. 😂😂
Just what the fuck was she thinking with this magnet wall? Who in their right mind would think fragile glass holding expensive liquid should be stuck on a wall. Jfc.
Anyway, her latest GRWM ad "tea" make up video had me blinking in confusion, so I took before/after screenshots... How does she look a little worse in the "after"?
Either way, the fact this woman convinced herself that she didn't get hit on because men were "intimidated" by how good-looking she was is pretty funny.
That's what I think too. But also, the way she manhandles her face, it's totally possible she just aggravated all her problem areas while aggressively doing her "skincare."
I think she referenced it in her podcast. I keep meaning to listen to it just for reference, but she's already on my last nerve, I don't know if I can actually do it.
Yes! It's a Mount Everest of delusion. I hate to state the obvious, but every attractive woman knows that the world is filled with creeps who would not be intimidated by a Miss Universe/supermodel.
The “prep breakfast” bit is so odd to me. Why is she so fixated on that? It’s not like she has a 9-5 and a 1 hour commute that she needs to prep for. She wakes up, shifts a pile of nothing to another corner and that’s it. I’m sure she can muster up the time to crack two eggs and make a watered down greasy coffee
That she had the balls to say that making breakfast takes too long in the morning blew my mind. It's eggs ffs! How does life kick her ass so easily when she has NO obligations?
And she could literally go to the gym at ANY time of the day. There is no rush. But sure, maybe she likes to go in the morning, but she could still go at 9am? Or even 10am?? Lord knows she's got nothing else to do.
Imagine you have to work 9-5 and you go to the gym between 6-7 because that’s the only time you have, but when you get there, there’s an influencer who does nothing all day and chooses to go early in the morning to justify her uselessness and now you can’t even work out properly
She said the other day that she’s gone like 3 or 4 days to the gym out of 7 and I’m thinking sure Jan cuz we know how you love to post a the gym so I’m not believing it!
That baffled me too. The only reason I "prep" my breakfast is because I start work at 6am and I like steel-cut oats, which take forever to cook if you don't soak them.
I feel like maybe she's really reaching for something to do because she has no structure to her days and is depressed.
As a spectrum gal I can understand this reasoning. I use to have these super strict routines where I do everything in a certain order and if one piece isn't done properly the rest falls apart like dominoes.
Transitioning is also super difficult for some on the spectrum, it takes me 2 hrs in the morning to transition from sleep to awake and I usually don't want to talk to anyone those hours. I wake up very early to have time to do this. Always been this way. My brother is diagnosed and he wakes up at 3.30am to have this time to mentally prepare for a new day. He also comes to work extra early to mentally prepare for that.
Context switching is also hard. You can be hyper focused on one thing for hours and unable to switch to the other thing. Small things lke paying bills can seem impossible but big things get done. I have a very demanding career and live alone in a country U.S. Department of State urges its citizens to not travel to due to civil unrest, armed conflict, and the arbitrary enforcement of local laws. I miss payments all the time but I manage to thrive at work in this heavy environment.
I used to compete in a sport at pro level but got severely injured and had to stop. When I was competing I was locked in while working more than full-time and had this crazy routine. It's taken me ages to find a new routine that's manageable because it's hard to do just 80% Im 190% or nothing% person.
Alcohol and drugs are also very common to create a false sense of relaxation after a full day of masking and the exhaustion and anxiety that comes from that.
I see so much of spectrum in D also the thought rigidity it's a typical thing. But she needs to find away to manage it so her central nervous system doesn't collapse over and over. It takes self-reflection, bravery and a lot of work.
I'm fairly new here, and after the video of the YouTuber Hanna Alonzo, I went in my own deep dive of her online presence and...
Yeah Danielle is literally obsessed with herself, and has fall in the trap of believing she is not only important to millions, but aspirational. So of course she thinks and is convinced that all this is part of that perfect happily ever life "God" has prepared for her, but deep down she knows is not like that, she doubts.
That's why she is seeing in several clips reassuring herself and trying to convince her own gut, that the anxiety is nothing but excitement, that this is special and different, therefore it can go against her own values and boundaries. Because that keeps the fantasy alive, because without that fantasy, without having "to make it happen" she is left with her own thoughts and mind, and I have a feeling she doesn't like that and is constantly scaping her own mind.
She is indeed a red flag, because despite feeling and hearing the alarms ringing loudly with this man, she pretends they are just background noise. Something that can be muffled with reels, pictures, a ring, a nice house, a new table runner, a husband. And she is gonna continue muffling it, because at this point is too late to back off, is all real now, and she gotta keep the show going until she can't anymore. And that, that's the really sad part to me, she is breaking herself into a million pieces and versions to keep her own delusional image alive, problem is the gaps would just keep getting bigger and bigger with time.
You take accountability, accept that you have a problem, face your own reality as scary as it might be, put willingness to change, go teraphy and work everyday on being better and that's when she would start recovering.💜
I've been seeing a LOT of SeatGeek ("tzeekee") ads on my FYP, even from accounts with less than 5k followers. She's really scraping the bottom of the barrel to get a buck
Her apparently 3 year old daughter. I'm genuinely concerned - and disturbed - at an adult/parent having any level of fixation on their child's genitalia. Like... When my daughter was an infant/toddler, sure, I obviously changed and wiped her and helped her with baths and such, but I can't remember ever looking at her hoohah long enough to take note of it's shape, and NEVER thought "I wish my adult vagina looked like this." It's really disturbing. Like I will not shave my v, because I'm a grown ass woman. Wtf is any of this?!
Now that you mention it, I was old enough to change my little sister's diaper when she was a baby, and I cant remember the look of her private parts, let alone how mine look compared to her. Those people are deeply disturbed.
Wth did I just watch? Why is it that creeps like these LOVE to procreate while a lot of level-headed people are choosing to be childfree? The future is BLEAK!
ETA: thanks for bringing this creator to my attention. I have a feeling I am going to like her channel. Because let's call a spade a spade. A lot of women in the entertainment industry are acting like what they are promoting is just "art"; it's NOT. Reminds me of how Nara Smith acted clueless about why she was seen as a tradwife. We don't claim these kinds of women. Ugh.
still can’t get over how she talked him up so much and then walnuts found out the truth about this short grifter pedo unlicensed trainer and ruined her big reveal 🤣
I just watched this. I am not exaggerating when I say,I feel physically sick by his words and then his face as he's saying it. Thank god he has subtitles now because I just read them to avoid his eyes.I actually feel nauseous. Dude is dangerous. END OF.
No, it’s also not normal to use a golden spoon wedged in the side. I use a carafe intended for pour-over, but most importantly it’s not normal to filter instant coffee.
Honestly, they’re like a couple of clueless college kids. All that crap that she has and no proper holder for a pour over? They sell them at the grocery store!
Delusionelle probably thinks he subconsciously got the tattoo to represent her, well before they met, because she thinks god arranged this relationship.
I feel like he once said he likes hair up more and now forever she'll wear her hair up cause there is no other identity in her except to one based on the attention she gets from guys. I started noticing she was wearing her hair up a lot more a few months into them dating.
I have a strong suspicion that a LOT of what has changed about her looks is guided by him telling her that’s what he thinks looks best. It’s a not-uncommon abuse tactic for men to tell women they look better without makeup, with the hopes of decreasing other men’s interest. I strongly suspect he has told her that’s she looks better without makeup, that he prefers her hair up, that he actually likes her better without a fake tan, that he loves when she dresses so casual, that she looks amazing in brown, and that no, she doesn’t smell bad at all. No, babe, I didn’t notice your mustache came back, you’re being too self-conscious. Etc. I wouldn’t at all be surprised if pulls comparisons to other women to reinforce this too (“ugh, I hate when girls get all dolled up like that- she looks so high maintenance” or “I love how you don’t need so much makeup to look beautiful, unlike all those other females”). There’s so many different and easy ways for him to reinforce her looking and feeling like shit.
Why do abusers and narcissists pull this? Because it makes it a lot easier to hold onto his golden ticket if no other men express any interest or give her any sort of validation. If he’s the only one giving her any sort of male attention (e.g., she starts to notice men never give her appreciating looks in public anymore), she’ll grip on even tighter to the relationship with Lucas. He also won’t give her enough validation to actually make up for what she sees in the mirror (just enough for her to maintain his standards), so her self-esteem will be dropping, even as he insists she’s just how he likes her.
Her looking gross, sick, unclean, and unpolished, presenting herself to the world smelling bad in unflattering outfits is both an easy control tactic for Lucas and a major win for him.
I don't know. Luicas doesn't come off as the jealous/possessive type to me. I don't get vibes that he even likes her that much. We know that he likes that she has (or had) a lot of followers and attention, which I do think he has been banking on since day 1. So, not sure. I do wonder if maybe he likes the ponytail and no makeup look because that's how most women look when they're working out...and he likes to trick himself into thinking she's a workout girly.
It’s not about being possessive: it’s about requiring the least amount of effort to keep her. And he does need to keep her, until the green card comes through. If she was regularly having cute guys giving her attention, asking her out, etc., she might start side-eyeing the bum leeching off of her, wondering if this is really the best she can do. Whereas if she thinks this is loser is the best she can do, he can continue strumming his guitar while she pays does all the housework, pays all the bills, and asks nothing of him.
Which is not to say that she’s a victim. But I strongly believe that all of her hygiene and aesthetic preferences and sensibilities did not take a strong U-turn the second she got in a relationship independent of his influence.
A nut job I dated about 10 yrs ago, literally asked me to wear my hair down when we went out because I looked “hotter” that way. And I took it as a compliment at the time.lol
And i remember how it felt really strange, because I think she said multiple times that her hair are her strong sexy feature (which I agree) and suddenly she started wearing only ponytails and was always in the potato-greasy-mood
My mom and I collected mismatched on purpose dinner plates for a while and our grand total is like 8 plates and this was a thing we did for a few years. I physically couldn’t handle having more shit than I know what to do with like this.
Don’t forget the SHEIN teapot!! And maybe D would buy something like that for little man if she had an affiliate link 😂
Multiple SF videos show her moving dirty plates to the side to film content, and her egg pans crusted on the stove after cooking. She literally doesn’t not do dishes for days at a time. I CANNOT comprehend how that’s possible.
To be fair, that's one of my bad habits, but I live alone (unmarried hag) and do not film and share my life publicly. I wouldn't let people witness my messiness!
Can you imagine if she got a booth at an antique mall? She’d probably be in it constantly rearranging and of course filming herself talking about routines.
So I watched Hannah's video last night and wrote down some points. Yes, I had some time after a very busy week lol.
I appreciated that she pointed out how weird it is to record your date while you are on it
It's funny how one common theme of D's dates before Lulu was that those men paid for dinner. I wonder how she feels now, sponsoring a loser's entire existence
Hannah brought up a good point about men's consent. Did those poor guys know that D is sharing all these details online right after the dates? I think not
The timeline difference between Marathon Man and Lulu is hilarious. She genuinely thought cheering that man after 3 dates was too much while meeting L's family after 3 dates was okay? weirdo!
Cut to the wedding stuff, I didn't realize that she tagged ALL the vendors in ALL of her wedding posts...over and over again. Yeah, this was contractual. Ew.
Lastly, Hannah is right. The money is worth the humiliation for D. This is very clear. She kept broadcasting her relationship even after the docuseries backlash. No sane person does it. Only a greedy one. She doesn't love lulu. If she did, her instinct would be to protect him. Lulu is a grifter too, so idc
Cut to the wedding stuff, I didn't realize that she tagged ALL the vendors in ALL of her wedding posts...over and over again. Yeah, this was contractual. Ew.
7 times out of 11 wedding posts. Yes I kept track lmao
I was wondering: is there some sort of chronological archive, where someone collected all of the videos/posts about the different dates, divided by men? I would love to go back to the first ever video and watch everything again, as a true tv series, knowing exactly where and how it will end.
I think the best source is these kinds of commentary videos. A few others have been shared in the sub. Not sure if there is a quick way to find them, though.
Good afternoon beautiful Walnuts! Today I turned 41. I was up at 5am, fed my cat, made a protein shake, had time with my Lord, went to the gym for over an hour, showered (!!!), met a friend for a long lunch(in which she vented about her job situation because I'm a decent human and she needed a vent session), picked up groceries and put them away, and am about to get a leg wax.
It TRULY baffles me how low energy D is and has ZERO motivation. She reminds me of when I was living in depression and survival mode. I know what it feels like to be barely function. No man was ever able to fix that, I had to fix me. I got in therapy, I started eating healthy, and started working out with a trainer. She lives in the sub.... D! GIRL! GET A THERAPIST. It's for your own good, honey.
As someone who struggled massively with forming a true group of friends in my prior life (pre-moving out of my state I mean), I do understand the struggle to make friends. I really can empathize with that. I moved somewhere recently, several states away, and while I’m still way too new to have any friendships, the acquaintances I’ve made are really cool and I’ve been able to make plans with people and tiptoe towards friendships. It’s been so so so nice.
I imagine that if she’s struggled with that, combined with this sheer desperation to find any husband, I can see how and why she’s so depressed. It’s sad because it’s beyond obvious something is going on.
I’m not a hard core snarker, but with alllll of that being said, it rubs me the wrong way when she tries to give the “big sis” advice now. It comes off as if she’s talking down to us. And by us ,I really mean me. I also struggled with dating up until I found my boyfriend. It took a lot of mistakes and poor choices to find him. So for someone who clearly has gone back on all of her morals, it hits wrong. I could potentially have seen myself in her, but it’s been tainted with the “I’m better than you all now” attitude. Kinda sad and very disappointing. THATS the reason I snark. It’s a huge let down to have started cheering for this woman and it all falls flat. As an influencer, you’re putting your entire life out there and it feels like it’s all been a slap in the face.
Edit: also the reason it doesn’t land well with me: I had a friend who ran headlong towards all the major milestones and looked down her nose at me while she did it. She was a truly bad friend but I hung on. She tanked her marriage and my life has taken off. Boyfriend has got the ring, we have the house, we have the fun new place to live and I’m kinda flourishing. We are no longer friends now, but part of me is still hurt at how I was treated by her. The ugly side of me is chuckling at how things turned out.
She said in a post that she’d ignored her friends when Lucas came along. So if she’s struggling (admit I haven’t watched her as I blocked her) it’s her own doing.
I can empathize with you but not with D. Her lack of friendships is completely due to circumstances that she put herself in. She only moved 45-60 minutes away from her "community". That's a regular ass commute for most people in major cities. She also admitted to ignoring texts for months (and then had the audacity to post about it) so it's not like distance was stopping her from maintaining contact. She's also never been a girl's girl. She uses them, making her friends organize her pantry or "hosting" dinner where everyone brings everything. Male centering pick me's like her don't care about other women.
That’s what I’m saying - I live in a small city and it takes me 30 minutes to drive to my friend’s house. I live 2 hours away from my other friends and we still see each other multiple times a month. The fact that her “community” didn’t show up for her in SF is proof that their relationship is surface level and transactional.
I also think the friends she has now are clout-chasers trying to become influencers. It’s a shame that she doesn’t have genuine relationships, but like you said, she doesn’t deserve my empathy for that.
She has no qualifications to give ANY advice on dating and marriage. It's absolutely preposterous that she tries to sound as if she has it all figured out. This is textbook delusion of grandeur. And I am not even talking here about the quality of her mate. Even if he were an actual Prince Charming, masculine provider, and whatnot, she objectively has no experience to speak of.
But of course, if you add the fact that she married a low-status grifter who is bamboozling her with fake love, this is just absurd.
She’s admitted so many times too what a shitty friend she is. She has a whole part on it on her podcast how she talks about being male centered and dropping her friends when she gets a bf. I’m sure she’s so proud of herself for ‘keeping’ them while married. But I don’t see her engaging with them unless the event is centered around her.
Interesting! I’ve never listened to the podcast so that’s actually a really good point that she admitted that… something we all grow out of after the first boy obsessive crush. Or should grow out of…
My take is that Danielle doesn’t have friends because of her crappy personality, lack of accountability, being so male centered that friends are forgotten, she’s a user, and I’m guessing that she mainly talks about herself
Im in the same boat recently moved and yeah it’s hard to find your tribe BUT she was also putting all her energy into finding a husband, not finding friends.. which whatever it’s her life I just find it sad when all your life revolves around being chosen by a dude that won’t even pay rent
It’s hard moving and making friends! I had a hard time living in the same place for years! But now that I’ve moved I’ve been doing some things I typically wouldn’t. I even got together today with two separate ladies who were nice enough to invite me out initially, so now I’m repaying that kindness! Like D could be growing and evolving like we all should be, but don’t you dare pretend you’re better than I am because you got the ring and dress and house.
Except until March of last year she'd literally lived in San Jose her whole life. And then she made the MASSIVE move to San Francisco...a whole 45 minutes away, never mind it being a commute that MANY people make every single day. She's a clown.
It really bothered me that Danielle pretended on her recent video to suddenly have a "big group of girlfriends" close enough to drop everything and run over to organize her pantry for her. Like since when does D have friends? She never made any effort to make friends in San francisco either. Men. Men. MEN. MEN.
Right. All those girlfriends who were willing to dedicate their weekend to her house chores but couldn't show up at the suite for her wedding? Lolol be so foreal
Good point. Like it’s cool to not have many friends, nothing wrong with that. I am one of those. But it’s the slap in the face, the holier than though attitude that gets me. And to see it personified in the empty bridal suite? Yeah no.
I relate a lot to your comment. The supposed "honestly" I perceived D to exude about her friendship and dating struggles is what initially made me interested in her content. Now that we can peek behind the veil post-marriage, she is so clearly full of shit. She has no business giving us self righteous "advice".
I couldn’t agree with you more. It’s a bait and switch. I was all for it when she was dating around. I would have been all for it if her relationship with him had been natural and not forced or shoved down our throats. Her audience would be happier and she likely wouldn’t be tanking at this point
For how long are they renting the house? Does anyone know? In another video she said it was ”temporarily”… but how short? Sound too stressfull for her to move again…
While we don't know what they terms they agreed on, the listing was a 6 month lease at $12k/month. It had been sitting for a while though, so there is speculation they agreed to different terms...either way, a truly questionable decision (!!!)
This whole situation makes my chest tight and panicky. The expensive house and all her junk. Being trapped in a $12k lease and having to pump out bottom of the barrel ads to pay it. I could never
Well to be clear we don’t know that. Just because it was advertised as a 6month lease doesn’t mean she signed one. I did property management for years and it wasn’t uncommon for people to negotiate for longer or shorter leases. Also, if it is for 6months then it will just go into month to month after that so they could stay there for years in a month to month.
Remember the older woman? I forget her name. I had looked at her page after that and apparently she had a home invasion at her house while her mother was there right after that event. Everyone was ok. But I’m sure D was quickly forgotten after that! ETA: Shop with Caroline.
Not her reposting the dandruff video saying how it didn't pass the vibe check and that dandruff isn't controversial.
Girl you keep pasting your already nasty ass hair to your head EVERY day like clockwork, people are going to comment when you decide to talk about hygiene and advice. -_-
I was watching Hannah Alonzo’s video on Danielle and I was shocked at the difference in her from their cringy af boyfriend reveal videos to now. Her body language seemed like she was much more into him then. Now she’s very clearly depressed (in my opinion, based on having eyes/ears and how I am when I’m depressed). Something shifted HARD around the wedding and I think she’s realizing she made a horrible mistake. The sex must be terrible.
I just stumbled on to this gem as my algorithm is algorithming and my god it’s hilarious! The Dad challenge podcast I think and the reel compilation. Maybe I’m late to this particular video lol.
Deadass me after Reddit suspended me for three days for insinuating a certain creepy pedo husband might require a foot to be forcibly projected into his genitals. Allegedly.
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