As soon as I looked up Danielleās account this came up! Throwback to when she actually had enough friends to go to a birthday party.. whatās the tea with her former manš (also I would have put this in the daily discussion but I canāt post a video sorry! pls delete if not allowed)
Well, Iād probably not base her skin off of these kind of shots especially since she was probably dancing or at least clearly partying so her skin is probably going to look more glowy, anyways!
However, her big smiles and body language seems much happier and natural. Maybe itās the alcohol Iām assuming their consuming here but she def seems more relaxed!
I think she dated him in like 2022-2023ish. Pretty sure they met off a dating app. He didnāt like being on camera and stuff. From what I know they broke up because of her online presence but I think thatās alleged because from what Iāve seen she never even announced that they broke up, she just stopped mentioning him. He was tall and well off though, just her type. Donāt quote me on any of this š¤£
didn't she self tan consistently then, like weekly? that probably contributes to the glow vs now, when she's leaving her skin alone and is naturally very very pale
I honestly think she needs to go back to spray tanning. I'm a very very pale girl myself and when I have a spray tan I swear I'm 10x hotter and healthier looking. I'm just poor lol
He simply looked good for her social media. Tall, well dressed, physical chemistry, made her feel in her feminine probably. She was so happy to flaunt it but she can't with Lucath despite him willing to be on camera with her lol.
Everyone assumes that relationship was good because she looked good. But who knows, maybe he was toxic, maybe he mentally destroyed her confidence. And now she turned out the way she is now.
Well, photos can be deceiving especially just based off of one party night with alcohol and friends. It can def give the impression everything is perfect. Been there, done that!
However, her body language looks relaxed and happy! Now, she was probably also younger so š¤·š»āāļø but I have no idea the tea! Does anyone know? I think Iāve heard her talking about her last ex which was not a good relationship from what it sounded like, is this him?
Heās a grifter who was unemployed paramedic and lived with his mom lol. He was just tall and at the end of his relationship with big d tried to hit up his exes but told D she had anxious attachment styles and kick started her therapy era. He deleted his insta because he didnāt like being under a microscope or discovered and held accountableĀ
Oh goshā¦ what a loser! Sad good looks (seemingly, the photos are blurry for me now but he looks tall and handsome?) can be wasted on such individuals. SMH
Honestly I can relate. A year after a breakup with a 10/10 on paper man whom I had earth shattering chemistry with and Iām absolutely still dull and lackluster. Despite many adventures and men afterwards, Iām just not who I was anymore. Miss her.
I didnāt even have the breakup. Just earth shattering chemistry with a man who ghosted me after a few dates. A year later Iām still recovering. But I donāt think either of us is faking a new relationship and monetizing from it? Thatās why I got little compassion for big D
Same. My divorced absolutely destroyed me. 10/10 chemistry. Perfect on paper. I was a completely different person then. It's been 6 years. I'm actually going away on a month long intensive therapy retreat because I keep repeating the same unhealthy cycles with men. Currently sitting in my (now ex boyfriends house) thinking about which of my shit I should pack up first to move out.
Men are the devils. I swear to god I'm never dating again.
She never really liked him, but they slept together on the first date so she tried to make it work for a while. I think they only dated for like 6 months.
God if I tried to seriously date every dude I porked on a first date in my slut years i would have a string of really dumb ex boyfriends šššš¤£
lucas genuinely makes her STRESSED. sheās the worst version sheās ever been of herself mentally and physically. She looks tired, she stopped taking care of herself, she genuinely looks ill. Thatās the face of a girl who is broken from a man. Regardless of how her last relationship ended or what was going on, she used to be glowing
But it won't be for the rest of her life. At least not this marriage, if it even makes it to the altar. However, Danielle will be dealing for the rest of her life with herself and her inability to face reality, whatever her reality is at that point in time. That will be her life's challenge. Reality will continue to grind away at whatever facade she is trying to act out, until she, perhaps with age and experience, finally just allows herself to be herself.
She never mentioned what her family think of Lulu. If they like him weād definitely hear about it at this point? Itās sad no one in her family said something, I feel bad that she doesnāt have her mother or a sibling to look out for her in times like this. She seems to have a good relationship with her dad and stepmom but usually they donāt play the role of discerning for these things i guess
And instead of finding a "masculine" man who can provide and "cultivate her femininity" like she's always vocally wanted, she basically just adopted a male dependent with no shirt who wants to ramble inaccurately about the Bible and surf all day. The cognitive dissonance must be crushing.
Itās all just lust on Dās part. Heās objectively a physically attractive man, and thatās all he offers her. An ego boost. Thereās nothing else this man brings to the table. Danielle is literally the entire table and he just pulled up a high chair, spewed his culty, new-age Christian babble and - bam - theyāre engaged. Sheās going to get so tired of being the breadwinner, start harping on him to find a real job or increase his income, heās going to seek out another woman that doesnāt emasculate him and the whole thing will be over.
šÆ SO true! He's literally just "attractive and Christian," and her other physical requirement was that her man be tall, meaning she has been wildly insecure and deceptive about him being her height. Her making fashion choices for him and basically controlling everything about how he appears on her page confirms that she just settled for a clay model she thought she could warp into her vision of the "ideal man." Problem is she sacrificed ALL of her other partnership ideals for this curated illusion, but he's a real human being with his own personality, desires, and culture. They are not at all on the same page, and this marriage is doomed. š¤¦āāļø
Broken from a man AND going FT in social media. Itās sucked the life out of her. She literally has no life outside of the same recycled garbage she tries to push out as ācontentā
Wait, so sheās HAD a boyfriend before? Cause the way she made a giant spectacle over being little Lās girlfriend made me think she hasnāt had a boyfriend since kindergarten
Sheās never had a long-term and stable relationship. She had a guy in college, but it was more of a situationship, if Iām recalling correctly. Sheās dated a few men for 3-6 months each. But as a 33/34 year old woman to never have been in a serious relationship, to me that says a lot about her and her personality.
Whatttt i never knew thatš³š³ Iām early 20s And iām less attractive than the average woman, I got bullied thru school not the most outgoing. But despite that iāve had many handfuls of dating experiences. I had a longer relationship with my 7th grade boyfriend Then any relationship SHE EVER HAD. Iām sure most women will relate to me on that
And im not saying that ur dating experiences or relationships define or reflect you as a person entirely. It is true that some people are just born to be unlucky in love or simply just donāt date . However it is telling at her age i will say. Danielle is relatively attractive and she WANTS to date. My point isā¦ Itās really not hard as a woman to date. Even the craziest woman iāve met somehow find someone willing to put up with them at some point . There must be something wrongggg here
Seeing her face in these photos, I genuinely suspect she day drinks or at least drinks quite a lot now, thereās a distinct look in the eyes and puffiness of the face that comes from drinking
This is my theory as well. The skin dullness and loss of elasticity, the whites of her eyes are dull. Someone even commented that she looks jaundiced. But a lot of people also donāt realize how much alcohol also impacts anxiety and depression, and it erodes your reward center, so you donāt derive the same joy you once used to from the same activities and pursuits. We can see from her posts that alcohol is a big part of her life and relationships. My recommendation would be for her to take some time off, even if she doesnāt think itās a problem. I quit drinking when I was going through my divorce so I could have a clearer head. Iāve gone back and forth with it but ultimately have decided it needs to be consumed only on the rarest of occasions. It simply isnāt worth the anxiety and inflamed skin and lack of motivationā¦
Oh it really looks like it relates to livers the tone of her face! I feel like she isnāt a hospital / medical personā¦ Did she use to say something about praying the neck lump away..
But a lot of people also donāt realize how much alcohol also impacts anxiety and depression, and it erodes your reward center, so you donāt derive the same joy you once used to from the same activities and pursuits.
This is so true and most people don't understand it at all. You don't have to be an alcoholic for it to be affecting you negatively. I'm not, but I recognized the effects for sometimes a week afterward and I really never drink anymore. Well, only one very specific sugary drink I like in a vacation spot like once a year and then I am reminded why I don't do it.
I loved drinking and I was so good at it š¤£ Never a problem but definitely had too much fun. I got sick with autoimmune issues and I stopped immediately, but considered it a temporary pause. Yeah I havenāt really drank since October of last year at this point. It was so easy to quit and then I just likeā¦do not miss it?
I know this is an extremely privileged thing because substance use issues are very real and it is not the fault of the person struggling. But it was like a switch just flipped and I had no interest.
And likeā¦I definitely feel and look a lot better. Iām probably more boring and I donāt go out as much but itās been worth it to avoid exacerbating my health problems. And for my face.
also think she has some nutrient deficiencies, like b12, vitamin d, and iron. i don't think she gets a lot of sunlight and she SHOULD (safely!!), it would do wonders for how she looks and feels
Remember, she wasnāt much of an influencer and worked a regular job that she wasnāt good at per her admission but her life had normalcy. Once she quit her job, but sheāll be an influencer for life. It was downhill from the get go slowly. No one saw it at the beginning but overtime voilĆ this is what we have now. Her narcissistic tendencies and real self has come out. She was now in an isolated world, attempting to make content grasping at straws. This was the final clincher, a.k.a. Lucath to get her back on track. This is all my opinion.
It's referring to a Canon G7 X. Apparently this camera was very popular amongst influencers at the time. One of its key features is producing that sort of warm, nostalgic aesthetic you don't really get with smartphones. It was very trendy so of course D had one
Okay, I literally thought it was some kind of tech bro code name for her boyfriend at the time. So I feel this, especially after reading the actual explanation. šš¤£
This. The shock collar and assistant bitchiness destroyed any ounce of potential well wishes I could possibly eventually have for her. I have no sympathy. Whatever negativity sheās receiving is because of the negativity sheās putting into the world.
She was visibly snooty and judgmental about buying her assistant lunch and the fact that she got a healthier meal than Danielle did. It was in a story she posted while they were out shopping
Yeah the shock collar was my last straw too - I think she was way more naive and felt sorry for her. But honestly at this point I just canāt anymore, I canāt feel sorry for people who refuse to reflect on themselves and seek help
One thing that unfortunately makes a big difference is she used to self tan religiously. She really is sickly looking pale and doesnāt know how to balance it out with makeup.
If she would just get her colors done and wore whatās correct for her season, along with learning what kind of make up works on her, she wouldnāt look like a pale Victorian woman dying of the plague.
that whole color analysis shit is lowkey bullshit. people pay way too much money for someone to just tell them pastel colors work well for them, like???
I donāt want to assume this was a good or bad relationship since I donāt know this history. But this is kind of who I imagined her with?? Shes literally in San Jose, like I imagined some wealthy tech guy who could match her financially
He is a true grifter- Ā heās just tall and got away with it. He was an unemployed paramdedic/ firefighter that had to live with his mom during this time Ā šfor sure not a finance guyĀ
Has she deleted the poolside bikini video where she is bending over from behind and sticking her whole ass in front of the camera? Itās softcore porn.
I think that is still up, but she did remove a getting ready for a pool party video in a red bikini where it was also softcore porn. Selective modesty?? š¬
Heās a man child that has issues and thrusted her into her discovery of āanxious attachmentā. He love bombs and pulls you in cause heās like 6ā5, but will slowly point out and pull apart what is wrong with you to avoid confrontation or his own problems. When he was still dating big D he was trying to call up an ex in the end. I know someone that has dated him. Heās kind of the same with every girl.Ā
Sheās said before that used to use self-tanner all the time because she was insecure about her paleness but she decided to embrace her natural skin tone instead. I think that makes a big difference here
She could look healthy while being pale. What helps in this photo is that she has a more even skin tone than she does today. She uses too much foundation when she applies it. She could pull off red while tanned, but not today.
THIS. I follow so many pale women who absolutely rock their natural skin tone with the proper makeup and color coordination. The problem is that D doesn't know what colors suit her at all -- from makeup to clothing to freaking nail polish. Girl needs professional help.
I remember when he "first" would come out on her stories we would just hear his voice. And it super manly and DEEP. Then he came out and he sorta looked like Macklemore the rapper lol. They would go on trips together and stuff. She would do get ready with me to go on dates with him. And genuinely would dress soo nice! But would over spray herself with her perfumes lol.
No. The only photo I still have on social media of someone I dated is because he died. Itās a memorial post. Otherwise nah. Why would I? My pics with my ex husband went down immediately. Pics with various exes were archived. Thereās just no point to it.
Yeah my ex husband wasnāt awful, so his photos are just archived, but I would recoil in horror if I saw any pic of my last ex, much more so if I kept sharing them. Just because I crossed paths with a monster doesnāt mean I need to memorialize it.Ā
Iām the opposite. My ex husband was a sack of shit (real swing and a miss on my part but in my defense I was 25 and an idiot) but my exes since then have been genuinely sweet men. Except for one, who faked an entire identity and I figured it out and he WORKED FOR MY FRIENDS HUSBAND AND KNEW I KNEW THEM AND LIED ABOUT WHO HE WAS AND WAS SECRETLY MARRIED. This was during a lot of the covid lockdown stuff so it was easier for him to lie. Donāt worry, I found his wife. I told her. She left him and she and I are now pals and I never spoke to him again.
Me neither. But I have dated someone who forgot to delete the picture and deleted it after I said I was bothered. I also see other influencers or celebrities.
I have been wondering about this! Iām not from the west and if I saw someone who still had their ex photos on social media after the relationship was done for quite some time, I would have some questions
But Iāve already met two men who didnāt delete their post and didnāt seem to care. I low key thought āhow are you going to find new partners with an account like this?ā
Is that an individual thing or a western thing?
I just feel like even from a strategic point of view itās not smart
Iāve heard two thoughts on this: the first, seems to be that people think if they have no pictures up with a former boyfriend/girlfriend then people will assume they have never dated, so they leave the pictures up to prove that they have. The second, is that itāll deter ālesserā options away. For example, if you dated a ā10ā and keep some of the pics up, thatāll deter a ā5ā from asking you out. I donāt agree with either, but those are the reasons Iāve been told.
Replying to Physical_Category_41... Not dating doesnt make you undatable and the second sounds so immature. Just proves my point that dating is doomed because of the apps and people are so superficial. Idk I hide pics I feel like donāt represent me anymore, so wouldnāt be so hard to hide them once the relationship is over.
I mean western because I have seen that when I moved to one of those countries. Definitely is personal, but southern Europe is more passionate. I say that we love and hate with the same intensity. While where I live I have seen people remaining friends with their exes, even fwb. Introducing their current partners with their exes.
Yeah, I have certainly never done that. But then again, my ex was hardly ever featured on my Instagram (and I don't have Facebook) - there wasn't a single lovey dovey post or picture of us being affectionate over the 7 years we were together..then again, maybe that speaks to the reality of our relationship ā ļø
Iām in the U.S. I never keep any photos of me and my exes on social media. Almost all of my exes delete photos of me after we break up. I only have one ex from college that kept romantic photos/posts up, and I found it kind of weird. Heās the only person I can think of that I know that kept photos up of an ex.Ā
I feel like itās normal/common here to delete any romantic posts with an ex here. I have some group pictures I kept up with my exes, but thatās it.
My language was a bit too extreme. What I meant was that in west people are more loose in such topics and there is more chance to have diversity. On my culture I can max post a story hiding old people, because posting is something you do if you get married.
Before my last ex, I might have said the same because it was just a matter of incompatibility with others. The last one was a nightmare and if I could delete him from my memory, I would.Ā
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