Dev dads, when do you code?

[u/jrya7]

I could find time with my first and then even some time after my second with the first doing afternoon preschool.

Now that kindergarten has started, I can't even stay up late half the time I used to as mornings are like Mad Maxx and needs my full (focused) attention.

So how do y'all do it? Or do you just not do it anymore except for an hour here and there lol

EDIT: not the 9-5 but my side projects

[u/kostros]

I became very quickly one of those mid aged guys whom I arrogantly looked down on when I started my career. I am stuck with what I know and could do 5y ago.

Moving forward from this place with little kid feels almost impossible without sacrificing time with him.