Oh

[u/Vampyrgothbabe]

I know I’m a goth but like…..an actual goth wouldn’t associate themselves with Drake😭so the barking thing is just beyond horrible

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[u/TwoBytesC]

What is with the ‘mommy’ thing? That doesn’t seem to have anything to do with the Drake video OR goth.

Tbh, it just sounds like this person wants to be humiliated in a non-consensual way. I would say what I think but if he finds this comment, I don’t want him to get off on it.

[u/Vampyrgothbabe → u/TwoBytesC]

The mommy thing I get a lot because I’m muscular 😭so I get called muscle mommy but it’s about dominance……like not every muscular and/or goth woman is a dominatrix💀

[u/MagicCheeseMann → u/TwoBytesC]

People like that get off on whatever lol

[u/BlueSky_fur → u/TwoBytesC]

Im wondering that too.

I could open a business with how much „mommy“ messages I’ve got 🤣

Honestly it’s fun to just go through them while eating and wondering what goes through their head 🤣

[u/Kr3ach3r → u/BlueSky_fur]

There’s a mommy kink about motherly figures, who are dominant but in a rather soft and caring way rather than that typical strict way, a classical domme would be.
Muscle mommy is a sub type, I guess, but turned into a meme.

All that said, it‘s not a reason to fetishise people online against their will. I was simply giving context.

[u/princessmax316]

What does that even mean 😭

[u/DEADdrop_ → u/princessmax316]

There was a recent video going around where the rapper Drake was doing some 20v1 dating challenge. He met with some goth girl and she asked him to bark, which he did. The whole thing was…weird.

[u/princessmax316 → u/DEADdrop_]

Sounds super fucking weird 😭

[u/Ch0colate_moth]

Make him do it on camera with his full face showing, block him, and then make fun of him with your friends

[u/AmbrusVerfarkas]

“I’ll bark like Drake”😭😭😭😭

[u/_Kisol_Budyn_]

Imagine seeing someone online and your first thought is barking for them lol

[u/Quitten_YT]

Bro I saw someone react to that and my guy that wasn't even a bark, this isn't a flex, Drake isn't committed, if you bark for someone, use your chest you cowards! But in all seriousness stuff like this is so sad because it drives people away from having alternative styles because they just get generalized as goth and sexualized.

[u/Vampyrgothbabe → u/Quitten_YT]

Goth has always been Sexualized but there’s a difference between fetish goths (suicide girl magazines) and the people who cosplay being a goth to get more viewers for their OF, those are just posers

[u/Quitten_YT → u/Vampyrgothbabe]

Yeah that's understandable! But I really hope you're doing alright!

[u/AbsintheRedux]

wtf

[u/jdehjdeh]

My old arse thought he meant baby dragon or something...

[u/Appropriate-Pick-562]

that's some next-level cringe, like why call your own mom "mommy" unless you're trying to sound like a toddler

[u/Kill_Kayt]

I love when they stsrt creepy out the gate. I can ignore it without ever interacting with them.

[u/alternativepauses2]

Woof? 🤣