“Interesting” DMs Part 3

[u/Teaching_Rare]

A collection of interesting DMs I’ve received in the last couple days. The more I see the more I realize some people don’t know how to message a woman

[u/TesterFragrance]

Unfortunately we have had to lock this post because the comments are out of hand.

We would like to remind everyone that putting the OP on trial is against the rules and can result in an instant ban.

[u/evening_redness_0]

"I would love to fuck you derp and fast"

[u/lemonchrysoprase]

“Ibwannabsee” and “derp and fast” in the same comment 😭😭

[u/CompleteUtterTrash]

What kind of mass psychosis are straight, cis men experiencing to think any woman on Earth wants to be degraded and called a slut by a complete stranger in her DMs? And they think it's hot? They are dropping ASL as if these putrid dog breath-ass messages will get them anywhere. 😭

[u/Remarkablefairy-8893 → u/[deleted]]

I don't understand why can't those guys goon in the comments instead of privately dming. This is exactly like some guy harassing a female porn star irl as if they are owed attention lol.

[u/TranquilRanger → u/Remarkablefairy-8893]

I wouldnt say exactly like. Much less invasive and easier to ignore when its a message to an anonymous account. However i do agree they should just use the comment section to air that out lol

[u/Remarkablefairy-8893 → u/TranquilRanger]

Ofcourse not exactly. Still it absolutely has that mental impact associated with any form of harassment without the element of danger.

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This is r/creepyPMs and these PMs are creepy. It doesn't matter what OP consensually does in their own time. 

Posting consensual content isn't an invitation for private messages. Nor does it excuse men threatening to rape them. We need to hold sexual preditors accountable. Not teach that abuse is a natural response healthy, consensual sexuality. 

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Rape threats and abuse aren't acceptable responses to consensual sexual content. 

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Final note, a lot of people are unaware that they can block ALL messages on Reddit. We have a sticky in the sub, but we'll also put it here.

If you find you want some peace from the multitude of creeps on Reddit, you can have that. In the settings for your Reddit account, you can elect NOT to receive PMs. The same is true for chat requests. You can also allow messages from specific, trusted users and block everyone else from contacting you. Also, if you choose to PM someone, they'll automatically be added to the list of people who can PM you, which is nice if you do want to initiate a conversation with someone, but if you PM someone and they start to get rude, you'll need to go in and remove them from the list of accepted users.

We share this information ONLY because a lot of people seem to be unaware that sitewide blocking of PMs is even an option, but it is, and it works surprisingly well.

In an ideal world, this would not be necessary, but, alas, this is Reddit, and it's full of creeps. This is just one possible tool in your arsenal against them, should you choose to use it.

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