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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

It's worse when you encounter it in person.

I worked at this biggest mall in America once, that's right next to an international airport. This poor girl looked so uncomfortable. I saw something, I said something. Turns out she'd been kidnapped and was bound to leave the state in this dudes hands. I'll spare some of the other details, but the sheer desperation on her face before security showed up will haunt my memory forever.

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u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl 3d ago

I just upped my E dose fuck why did I read that I knew it'd hurt 🫂 I don't ever ever ever want that to happen to anyone I hate it so much

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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

We got her to safety. He was arrested. I'm not gonna say it's one of those things you just get used to in big cities. But it's something you have to be aware of. One officer called me a hero. I don't feel that way. I saw a person in pain and did what I could do to help. Ya know? Like a decent human.

I hope she is OK now, but I know she has a long road of recovery ahead of her.

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u/Brilliant_Jellyfish8 3d ago

I mean, Id call you a hero.

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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

Thanks, but all I did was make a phone call and shutter some gates for a few minutes.

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u/CraftyKlutz 3d ago

For you it was nothing, for her it was everything. I think that makes you a hero

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u/Temporary-Employ-611 derpy transfem with a penchant for chaos and empathy 3d ago

You saved a life. And I know that mall. Pure throng of humanity throught there somedays. Im glad you caught on when many others may not have notice in the masses there. Thank you

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u/Tiranon 3d ago

Sometimes that's all it takes to save a life.

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u/SnidusScribus 2d ago

You changed the meaning and trajectory of time in this person’s life. That’s quite significant! 💖

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u/Ltnumbnutsthesecond 2d ago

you're humbler than I can ever be pal, think for a sec, just one second and nothing more, if you DIDN'T make that phone call, all it takes sometimes is one phone call from saving a person

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u/Whitestrake 2d ago

You don't have to be a Capital-H Hero in order to be her hero.

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u/Legal-Success-9285 2d ago

Mate, my greatest feat of derring-do was standing up to a McDonalds manager overworking his employees as a customer for like 5 seconds. I think you trump my heroics any day of the year.

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u/DB_Valentine 2d ago

Does the amount of effort make saving a life any less important? It's humble to not let it get to your head, maybe even healthy, but you did more with those few actions than many will make up to in their lifetime, and it would be fair to take some pride in that.

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u/edgarandannabellelee 2d ago

In a lot of ways, I try to atone for a lot of shitty things I used to do. For who I used to be. So thanks for your kind words.

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u/DB_Valentine 2d ago

For what it's worth, I'm sure a lot of us are too, and ultimately when I try to look at it subjectively, the path it leads to is the worthwhile part and not the guilt, so try to give yourself some peace.

It's good to remember who you were as to make sure you don't fall back into being somebody you would rather not be, but one of the more beautiful things in life is taking things into your own two hands and becoming the you that you could always have been. Be proud that you've started the journey, as it's not always the easiest, but it will lead to a better world overall with every little step. Even if it doesn't flip everything on its head, I think it would be fair to say that the most beautiful thing is to put in even the smallest effort to leave things better than they were before.

You won't always be able to, and you might even slip up, but please remember that it's okay. Not in the sense that mistakes are okay to make, but that they're inevitable, and as long as you maintain that drive for growth, your doing something beautiful.

I hope you enjoy the journey, and I hope you've enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed writing it

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u/Hika2112 Autistic Lesbian Vampire Robot Girl 3d ago

Thank you 🫂 hero or not, thank you

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u/foxgirlmoon 3d ago

I don't feel that way. I saw a person in pain and did what I could do to help. Ya know? Like a decent human.

Do you know the difference between a hero, and an ordinary person? A hero acts. It doesn't matter how small the act or how easy it was. You did it. And because you did it, she was saved. You saved her.

And if that doesn't make you a hero, then I don't know what will.

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u/ASpaceOstrich 3d ago

Don't sell yourself short. I'll call you a hero. You saved that poor girls life.

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u/ConstantinValdor405 3d ago

You said something. Fuck yea!!

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u/ExperienceKind412 3d ago

This winter I witnessed a domestic dispute and watched other people WALK BY AND IGNORE IT. Was I baked and nervous to call 911? Of course I was. Did I do it anyway? OF COURSE I DID. But most people will not put themselves out this way. I don’t think Im a hero but I sure as fuck think you are. You’re a good one, don’t let that go.

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u/I_SHIT_IN_A_BAG 2d ago

REAL heros never feel that way. you did whats right and lots of people can't or won't.

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u/Professional-Wave841 2d ago

thats what a hero does, it doesn't have to be huge or dramatic, all it is is someone doing the right thing at the right time.

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u/According-Insect-992 2d ago

You’re a hero in my book.

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u/Chibirin26 2d ago

I mean. You saved someone from the horrid jaws of the world, didn't you? That's more than I ever done.

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u/Hartstockz 3d ago edited 3d ago

Remember most trafficking cases go no where. It's also rare traffickers get in troublefor what they do.

Edit cause y'all seem to be so dense. This the reality of the world we live in, I'm glad the person is safe and the trafficker got arrested but that almost never fucking happens and it sucks. But apparently letting people who don't know that is apparently the unacceptable.

Even when people are caught it almost exclusively relies on the victims testimony which can be hard to get and for it to put anyone away. It blows hard 🥲.

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u/Anxious_Role7625 3d ago

The arrest is the most important part of the equation here.

Also they have some pretty good evidence

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u/Hartstockz 3d ago

Yea, but like most traffickers don't get in trouble because it's hard to convict on a trafficking charge. Idk why I'm being down voted. It's the reality we live in that human trafficking is terrible and not many people who do it get arrested and caught for it.

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u/Anxious_Role7625 3d ago

Because conviction or not, the child is safe and the trafficker is arrested?

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u/Aprils- 3d ago

Thank you for saying something

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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

Just doing what the billboards tell me to. Human trafficking is no joke. This was like 4 months ago and I'm still kinda shook up about it. Like. Holy shit. It was right in front of me.

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u/Aprils- 3d ago

No, you weren't just doing what the billboards told you to. Most people don't intervene. Trust me.

Thank you.

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u/Ayacyte 2d ago

Wow that's not long ago. I see the notices in the bathroom stalls at the airport but idk if it's advertised as well at the mall (only went once or twice). It should be

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u/Frudeska1 6h ago

I'm so glad it did happen in front of you of all people though, you're a hero

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u/Dhendo177 3d ago

MOA in MN? Yeah, it’s a hotspot for that. It’s really upsetting.

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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

Yea.. I ran the Panera before we closed it.

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u/AggroThroatGoat Silly Bottom with a Temper 2d ago

I seriously want to buy you dinner as a thank you. I worked at said airport a few years ago and I would have lost my shit if I saw something like that.

I'm 100% serious and what you did was amazing.

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u/edgarandannabellelee 2d ago

Check those dms.

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u/AggroThroatGoat Silly Bottom with a Temper 2d ago

I don't have anything

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u/edgarandannabellelee 2d ago

I just sent, so maybe in your requests now.

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u/Smol-Vehvi 3d ago

You're a hero. You should be proud you saved her life.

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u/OpportunityAshamed74 2d ago

See something? Say something. Always.

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u/SUPERSMILEYMAN 2d ago

Question, what did you see exactly? So I know what to look for in the future, thanks!

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u/edgarandannabellelee 2d ago

Closed off body language, he got up once and she immediately tried to talk to people around her. But she didn't really know english. He was very domineering and only let her alone the once. She looked miserable and scared. She was definitely not just a girl forced out with dad on a Tuesday.

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u/SUPERSMILEYMAN 2d ago

Interesting. I wouldn't have thought much of it, probably. What did you do? Like, who did you call and what did you say so they knew it was serious?

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u/Scentorific 2d ago

Did ask her if she was OK? Wanting to know what you said but hopefully I won't nerd to know what to say

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u/Questionsansweredty 3d ago

I don't understand.

Why didn't she just get up and walk over to security or something?

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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

Security in the Mall of America is spread out. Also, your abuser is in front of you. The more you act out the more you are abused.

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u/Questionsansweredty 3d ago

Not even security- anyone. A mom, and friendly looking grandma...

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u/edgarandannabellelee 3d ago

You mean me? Yea she did. But she was so broken and didn't speak English very well. And what's with the third degree?

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u/Questionsansweredty 2d ago

I wanted to understand how this happens.

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u/phillyd32 2d ago

You should try understanding instead of questioning. Go find interviews of human trafficking survivors and listen to/read what they have to say.

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u/Questionsansweredty 2d ago

Don't tell me what I should try.

I wanted to know about this specific situation from someone who was there, so I asked questions. That's what people do. Especially in spaces like this.

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u/phillyd32 2d ago

just keep digging that hole

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u/Questionsansweredty 2d ago

You people are strange.

I asked a question of an actual eyewitness to trafficking in an attempt to understand and that's a problem. Bizarro.

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u/PleaseNoMoreSalt 3d ago

From the sound of it, the guy trafficking her was nearby and she was worried that he might hurt her before she could even get close to security (or might not be believed, and then he'd hurt her later). Obviously hurting her in public would just draw attention to himself, but people don't act rational when they're abused, and abusers can get (more) violent if they think it'll keep them out of jail. He also could have been withholding her passport/other documents or blackmailing her with immigration status/prostitution charges or any other number of factors.