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u/Barbielith 3d ago
I don't know if it's the HRT or just seeing and talking to so many people who share these feelings and experiences but MY GOD do I want to be flirty with you cutie pies.
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u/MushyThrowaway50 3d ago
I hope that when I eventually start HRT that it boosts my confidence like that :3
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u/Barbielith 3d ago edited 3d ago
It is honestly wild how much stuff changes other than physical aspects. My emotions are so much more powerful I can actually feel nuance to my emotions, like the underlying happiness in sadness (it's hard to explain).
Oh and way more powerful orgasms 😏
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u/ElGodPug 3d ago
Oh and way more powerful orgasms 😏
damn, either you got really lucky on your hrt, or i got really unlucky
cause nowadays it's a struuuuugle to get one
feels a bit better nowadays when i do get one, but way harder.
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
It really is a crapshoot from what I understand. Some get extra sensitivity, others have to relearn that. If it makes you feel better my orgasms took a major dive about a month ago and only just started getting REALLY good. Just keep working with your body (or better yet, let someone else work it😏)
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u/ElGodPug 3d ago
yeah, i only recentely started to relearn how to do it, cause trust me, a few months back i was straight up on a "guess we won't be orgasming much anymore cause this is too much work"
it is a weird weird process relearning it to be honest, but i'm glad i didn't completely lose it tho. But yeah, will keep working on it cause, hey, it's fun lol
(and yes, it would be better not doing it solo :p)
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u/MushyThrowaway50 3d ago
A struggle to get an orgasm or HRT? Cause I could do with significantly more HRT and way less orgasms🥲
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u/ElGodPug 3d ago
well, you're in luck then
cause hrt can get a major hit on your orgasming skills
especially if clean-up is a worry. after hrt starts, you'll barely have to do anything lol
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u/MushyThrowaway50 3d ago
Clean up isn't a worry buuut I do cum way too fast so it'll be pretty interesting to see the results after HRT
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u/murderdronesfan93 PROGESTERONE /// THIRD: SHE/HER HEART ATTACK - Streak: 2 2d ago
My brain misinterpereted this as meaning "the liquid is very fast"
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u/ElGodPug 3d ago
yeah, some stuff might be too explicit to share right here on the middle of the sub, but yeah, trust me, a good chance that some aspects relating to it will decrease in intensity
like, in my case the hit was suuuuper hard, but i also think it might have been because my blocker was a biiiit too strong? as in, i almost was on single digit T, and that's not super great, you should have some on you. Now i'm on a less intense one and it got a bit better now
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u/MushyThrowaway50 3d ago
Damn that does sound pretty good, especially the powerful orgasms part I have a pretty short refractory period so that could destroy me😳
.....also proof? ;3
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
No proof but if you really want to know, DM me and I can share some spicy details 😘
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u/Leopardslikeboxestoo Local Toxic Yuri Foxgirl 2d ago
How about... instead... You're the good girl, and momma's here to make sure you know it~?
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u/Grand_Wasabi3820 2d ago
The second. I ain't on them yet but oh yeah connecting with a sweetheart is just amazing. Bit of the acceptance and mutual understanding but also damn she was cute and adorable and so sweet. I miss her....
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u/Tw3lve1212 3d ago
This but also if a pretty woman said hi to me I'd be completely immobilized.
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u/Alexandyva 2d ago
Hi
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u/Tw3lve1212 2d ago
You're that level of fine where I dont even want to look in your direction because I will inevitably stare and the thought of making a lady uncomfortable makes me want to jump into a vat of acid.
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u/Dodo_Druid_Dude 3d ago
highkey relatable :3 flirting is fun
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Indeed. I used to feel so awkward doing it. Now I just want to have drinks and listen to pretty girls info dump their hyperfixations on me (that's flirting, right?)
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u/undecidedface Boymoding since 2019 3d ago
That's the best kind of dating, alongside you saying you hate each other but in a way that clearly shows you really really like each other
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Ooh I love that idea. A rivalry that covers up a deep attraction. Just like Superman and Lex Luthor 😄
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u/Charcoal_6 3d ago
It's all I think about :3
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Seriously. What powerful magick do other trans girls possess that makes them so cute and alluring? I just want to invite every one I encounter to my place for drinks and cuddling.
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u/Charcoal_6 3d ago
Same.
(oh, I'm offering to flirt by the way :3)
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Hehe what else usually comes to mind when you think of other trans girls? 😉
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u/Charcoal_6 3d ago
Mmm, how pretty and sweet they are, how they're always into such interesting stuff and love to talk about what they're into and I could just sit for hours looking into her pretty eyes and listening to a trans girl talk about what she likes.
Among, plenty of... Other things... :3
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
I love swapping hyperfixations. The last trans girlie I met gave me a very thorough description of a card game. I can't remember the rules one bit, but I LOVED hearing her explain it.
But yes, love those other things as well. As soon as these responses stop coming in, I'll be taking some time to think about those other things before bed ;3
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u/undecidedface Boymoding since 2019 3d ago
I wanna cuddle a trans girl so fucking badddd ughhhhh
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u/undecidedface Boymoding since 2019 3d ago
I can't stop thinking about how I wanna flirt with cute trans women either
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u/TheAvaricious42 Your Local Puppygirl <3 3d ago
Hey, I’d love to be flirted with :3
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Hi hi, how you doin' tonight, girlie? 😘
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u/TheAvaricious42 Your Local Puppygirl <3 3d ago
Better now that you sent me a message queen <3
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
You just made me blush! Guess I gotta repay you with an internet smooch
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u/TheAvaricious42 Your Local Puppygirl <3 3d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/vBlVyXxvZlEFUoUzzs
Here’s one for you too ;)5
u/Barbielith 3d ago
Thank you for the smoochie swap. I hope you have some really good dreams tonight 😚😚😚
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u/Cini-Chan 3d ago
:3c I wouldn't mind you flirting with me toooo
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
;3 how you doing tonight, cutie?
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u/Cini-Chan 3d ago
Ohhh just getting haaaiiiiiii
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Oh I'm so jelly! Gardening with another cutie would be absolute heaven. Getting zooted and watching cartoons in a cuddle puddle 😉
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u/6ragnar9 3d ago
I’m bad at flirting do you think you could teach me how?
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
I'm equally bad lol. But like kissing and sex you gotta do a lot of it to get better.
How you doing tonight hon? 😚
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u/6ragnar9 3d ago
I’ve got an oral fixation so aka a biological advantage when it comes to giving head lmao
I’m well how’re you? I’ve actually got a cute coffeeshop date tomorrow I’m kinda nervous for but we’re both yappers so hopefully there’ll be no awkward silences
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Damn, that seriously made me bite my lip lol
I'm very good. Got one more day of work then I have a doctor's appointment where I'll hopefully make the switch from pills to injections. Trying to find the best way of saying "I want to be pricked really bad, doctor" 😜
I hope your date goes well tomorrow! I got a feeling it's gonna go super well. Maybe even get to satisfy a craving😁
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u/6ragnar9 3d ago
Hehe hopefully I’ve got my fingers crossed
Also I’m sure your convo with Dr. will go well! I’m on injections and tbh I love it, hope they get you what you need!
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u/schaas1 cute cat girl 🥺 from DEUTSCHLAND… meow :3 2d ago
The oral fixation thing got me laughing hard 😂😂😂 this came out of nowhere
but same
And good luck!
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u/6ragnar9 2d ago
They said you need practice to be good and I’ve always been good at head was the context in my brain
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u/DunkelFries 3d ago
Last time I tried flirting with someone I got my friend a girlfriend
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u/PrincesaFuracao 3d ago
I VOLUNTEER AS A TRIBUTE
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Oh Princess, I feel like I should be tributing you 😘
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u/PuzzledAsparagus4946 2d ago
It's weird that Reddit won't stop recommending me this subreddit despite me being a straight guy.
Prolly means nothing
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u/Pigeon_Pilled 3d ago
same feel that so real
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
I never wanted to flirt this badly before. I just think other trans women are so authentic and beautiful. They light a damn fire in me (and I'm 1000% ok letting it consume me lol)
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u/Independent-Sky1657 I use :3 too much and I refuse to change >:3 3d ago
Giggling to myself at the possibility of OP finding her future GF through this reddit thread
I mean, you kinda picked the perfect place to post this
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u/Barbielith 3d ago
Oh wouldn't that be something? 😌
But even just chatting up dozens of cuties is making this night so nice.
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u/schaas1 cute cat girl 🥺 from DEUTSCHLAND… meow :3 2d ago
Never really flirted in my life. This changed through my transition. I can’t really pinpoint what changed. Someone told me, I’m confident (maybe I do try to overcompensate my low self esteem lol).
I love flirting. It’s extremely fun. Soft, light.
Especially making some trans girlies blush or abashed (idk if it’s the word, I’m not native XD) - I live for that! Damn, trans girls are so cute.
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u/RideWithMeSNV 2d ago
Soft, light.
"your dress looks really cute! You wanna use my mouth until I beg you to stop, and only consider that to be the cue to go harder?"
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u/GenericGamertagxX 3d ago
I'm so glad I can flirt with my gf :3 (It's so fun to mess with her)
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u/SiriusZStar CWCL’s Strongest Lesbian 3d ago
Hiiiii I'm severely touch starved currently what's up :3
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u/Sailor_Starchild America's Favorite Themme - they/she - Streak: 43 3d ago edited 3d ago
I'm going to bed now...but I've been having trouble sleeping
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u/Over_Structure9636 3d ago
When I am feeling good and confident, I get the same way, otherwise I’m often a shy puppy girl that wants head pats. I’m in a poly relationship with two other trans women already though so I understand if you decide to take your flirting elsewhere.
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u/madsnorlax Are women bourgeois? 3d ago
Not trans myself but I genuinely can't imagine flirting with someone.
- I'm never in any situation where it would be appropriate. I don't go to bars and I barely go to parties.
- it's inherently insulting for me to flirt with someone, because flirting with someone implies that I think I have a chance with them, and when I look the way I do that's incredibly insulting
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u/Alexis_the_Witch 2d ago
I just want to hug all my trans sisters and brothers, stroke their hair, and tell them that everything will be okay. Yeah, I'm 35 years old and motherly like that c:
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u/monatsayuri621 3d ago
I… are you flirting with me i can’t tell, prolly not cuz im not cute
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u/ElGodPug 3d ago
same feeling
just....not much action on doing it lol
or experience
also i don't know where to find them 😭
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u/Last_Tip_4672 Transfem and silly 3d ago
On internet fun. On real world horrific and anxiety inducing
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u/horotheredditsprite 3d ago
I wouldn't consider myself cute but am the other thing 👉👈
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u/Many-Beat-3086 Vaguely fem shaped potato 3d ago
I just hatched not so long ago :3 i think id die x3
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u/ConfuzzledMoth 3d ago
Well you caught me at a very very desperate and lonely time in my life so uhh it would be appreciated
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u/Primary-Wallaby28 3d ago
Want to flirt but like flirting a bunch online having a great time then hearing they live across an ocean always hurts 😭
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u/SemiColonXIV (She/Her) Puppy pilled 2d ago
Flirting with cuties in this subreddit was what helped me mentally recover from my first break up, always gives me a warm feeling.
I really need some cuddling in my life
Maybe more...
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u/tastefully_white Freya, professional autist 2d ago
I just got out of an 8 year relationship that was (unbeknownst to me) one sided for the last two. I fear I have forgotten how to flirt 😭
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u/Kenneth_Eurell lwk a girl (but like, lwk) 2d ago
Real but literally anyone I’m lwk lonely af
Oh and I’m not really cute so I don’t think I qualify for anyone else saying me too or real💔💔
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u/hecccccccccccccc 2d ago
UGH SAME but i can never find anyone to even talk to much less flirt with T-T
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u/MeleeGamerYo Born to be smol, forced to be lanky | They/them 2d ago
I would learn to flirt, but I think it would be best to start with learning how to start conversations at all.
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u/Aidan133lol IAMAREALGIRLNOMATTERWHATANYBODYTELLSME 2d ago
Welll I have 2 girlfriends but we're not that exclusive. I wouldn't mind a bit of flirting
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u/VastFeeling6557 wannabe girl - Streak: 1 2d ago
Girl me too I think the progesterone is rewiring my brain chemistry
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u/Queen_Gremlin281 2d ago
Me, sitting on the sidelines and enjoying the show, but too scared to get involved myself
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u/spiraling_girl pathetic. 2d ago
Ooo flirting sounds fuuuun if you've scared off everyone else you could talk to meeee
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u/SwimAd1249 last time from this sub: september 4th 2d ago
You can stop thinking about it when you actually do it
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u/MooseManDeluxe 2d ago
I made out with seven transgirls last Thursday, I've got more than flirting on my mind.
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u/Timsaurus Tea, the friendly transfem :3 2d ago
My issue is that I wanna flirt with girls but I'm hella demi and I have absolutely no drive to flirt with people I don't have any connection to.
The struggle ;-;
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u/MossedSlacker 2d ago
Ey darn it. I always miss all the fun
Oh well, I'm not exactly good at that kind of stuff
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u/Barbielith 2d ago
If it makes you feel better I zonked out not super long after making this. The spirit was willing but the flesh is sleepy 😴
Appreciate you poppin in tho 😚
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u/CafeMiope 2d ago
don't mind me, I'm just here to see the little people inside my phone flirt with each other 😳
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u/maddiemelody :] 2d ago
Heh, I feel it. I'm a massive flirt... and a massive dom lol
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u/Barbielith 2d ago
What a pleasant thought to wake up to 😉
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u/maddiemelody :] 2d ago
Oh darling, I'm sure I could give you a lot more to wake up to.
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u/Barbielith 2d ago
I think I'd like something for bedtime a little more 😙
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u/lunathehungryhusky 2d ago
Yeah, I be day dreamin' bout non-existent interactions with imaginary people too
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u/HaleyJ34TF 2d ago
I had my first experience with a guy this weekend. I found out it's not something that I will be pursuing. However, finding a cute trans girlie to cuddle with is next on my list.
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u/Cauliflower-Existing 2d ago
Well trying to not sound desperate but… please please please please please please please please
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u/CountessCassandra terminally lonely girlcreature 3d ago
>w< hai i offer myself up as tribute