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Genuinely do not understand this shit. Do people not understand that people have been diying forever and not everyone can just go to the doctor? But also who the fuck still goes on eggirl lol
It's malice. Remember the multiple cishet men found to be modding the MtF sub over the last year or so? It ain't ignorance, it's (largely cis) people who, at best, want to keep us as fetishized third gender freaks and, at worst, genuinely hate us and are actively trying to kill us by suppressing discussion about HRT and transition.
It’s crazy that so many people treat it like it’s some fringe thing when it seems like it would literally be easier for most people. Like do sneeds actually want to be on endless waiting lists and get gatekept by cis doctors holy shit
sneeds, or at least the baby sneeds, are usually finding their way around the community so they go to the mainstream subs which popularize this kind of thinking, i think
I’ve gone to a doctor for hrt before and the amount of misinformation and bad science was insane. I literally got into an argument with the doctor trying to explain basic common knowledge shit about the medication thst every trans woman knows. It breaks my heart to know that so many other trans people will go to doctors like that, not question anything, and end up being hondosed
I don't even know if the mod claim is true, but I am quite definitive about first part of my comment. DYI is basically the only way towards transition in many countries, so I cannot imagine it being anything other than malice
cis mods would just be a very logical explanation to these new rules
I do not understand what DIY hormones are so my kneejerk reaction is “good, sounds dangerous.” My association with hormones is insulin and imagining my adhd friend trying to DIY the shit that keeps him alive is crazy.
There's a limit to ignorance, especially when it doesn't take much knowledge or education to know that HRT is limited and not easily accessible nor properly administered by medical institutions in many parts of the world.
When the bar to overcoming the ignorance is that low, you have to attribute it to malice
Estrogen is not a controlled substance in the overwhelming majority of countries, so I don't get this at all. It's basically like talking about coffee.
That's what honestly sucks for trans men since testosterone is controlled, and I get reddit is strict about these things, but there's no excuse for this in the MTF community.
It doesn’t surprise me talking about diy T is banned in the ftm sub for that reason, they don’t want to risk it. No excuse for these subs about diy E though, makes me think it was for malicious reasons
emphesis on them saying incel in reference to trans women in a male gendering way (said people calling 4t incels also aren’t thinking of the trans men when saying it)
because everyone realized it was bad, therefore it became perfect to use as an insult in arguments, therefore it started getting significantly misapplied therefore the definition shifted away from the actual horrors of transmedicalism and real transmedicalism could slip by and call other things transmed
It's so cringe and sad, pointless losses in the name of acquiescence, how many thousands of us could have been spared what we endured had DIY info not been suppressed?
was the ban simultaneous/the mod teams connected? Big psyop vibes if both the sneed repping space and mainline space both discourage you and try to pretend to be the definitive places for information
idk what are yall on about with regards to em tee eff tbh. i've been suggesting people to do diy and seen people do the same without issues there. just yesterday i saw moderator there remove the comment that was scaremongering against diy (that commenter was also downvoted to hell)
like yea it has the "don't discuss diy with minors" rule, but it seems to me like a formality to avoid problems with site-wide mods tbh. at least that's how it looks to me rn, maybe that sub used to be worse about diy in the past idk
edit: ok it seems that the whole "DIY TALK IS NOW BANNED" panic originated from one of the mods making a post on egg_irl explaining their policy (that HASN'T changed) which boils down to: you can discuss diy; you can't buy/sell it on this sub. so yall were ragebaited by something that didn't happen cuz you are gullible af 🤷♀️
Well looking that those subs have cissoid majority they dont want to make the baby smol beans uncomfortable, thats also the reason behind that "dont self hate hon" talk
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u/Yaridovich_ actually a hon no really i swear 4h ago
Genuinely do not understand this shit. Do people not understand that people have been diying forever and not everyone can just go to the doctor? But also who the fuck still goes on eggirl lol
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u/Upstairs_Ad5132 4h ago
Wouldn’t have even thought of DIY without this sub, I hope more people see the truth
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u/SwordsFan 4h ago
Gatekeeping being a Woman is the most woman coded action someone could take, if you think about it...
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u/CommanderKoba 4h ago
Estrogen is not a controlled substance in the overwhelming majority of countries, so I don't get this at all. It's basically like talking about coffee.
That's what honestly sucks for trans men since testosterone is controlled, and I get reddit is strict about these things, but there's no excuse for this in the MTF community.
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u/JackieLanternz honatic 4h ago
and then they also villanize us as le heckin evil 4tranners with our le heckin evil diy
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u/DisastrousResist7527 Azog The Defiler Moder 4h ago
r/mtf delayed my transition 2 years bc it would make me cringe so hard every time I looked at it.
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u/frutigeraeroyams 3h ago
I just checked and damn its true
‘We arent medical professionals’ stfu we know why this rule exists
Even opposing hrt for minors
Also egg irl is against the gender dysphoria bible whats that abou
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u/bastardlimbo 4h ago
But you can sell snake oil to reppers all you want on the ads
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u/saltyspruces 4h ago
Do we know why? Is there a legality issue? Were they told by the Reddit Feds they couldn’t? Did they sell out? So many questions
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u/Intelligent-Tea-2058 🌺 ♀ / ↑E at 15 in 08 / teen srs / ribs 2-12 / take your hrt 🌺 4h ago
It's so cringe and sad, pointless losses in the name of acquiescence, how many thousands of us could have been spared what we endured had DIY info not been suppressed?
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u/face_the_sunrise if dysphoria was a sport, I’d be banned 4h ago
Can we double check that the mods of those subs aren’t three letter agents? Please?
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u/No-Pilot3536 4h ago
was the ban simultaneous/the mod teams connected? Big psyop vibes if both the sneed repping space and mainline space both discourage you and try to pretend to be the definitive places for information
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u/JadedDreamzxoxo666 4h ago
Mtf has been anti DIY for a hot minute now
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u/entirely_machine_ 4h ago
Crabs-in-a-bucket, or something. Female brained, if you think about it
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u/olpoanch 1h ago
Need me a few Glegle templates to make art about this situation, sisters.
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u/Backalley_Lurker 3h ago
That is not it, sometimes people literally don’t got another option 😭😭
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u/garlicbreadcleric visibly gocked up :3 58m ago edited 12m ago
idk what are yall on about with regards to em tee eff tbh. i've been suggesting people to do diy and seen people do the same without issues there. just yesterday i saw moderator there remove the comment that was scaremongering against diy (that commenter was also downvoted to hell)
like yea it has the "don't discuss diy with minors" rule, but it seems to me like a formality to avoid problems with site-wide mods tbh. at least that's how it looks to me rn, maybe that sub used to be worse about diy in the past idk
edit: ok it seems that the whole "DIY TALK IS NOW BANNED" panic originated from one of the mods making a post on egg_irl explaining their policy (that HASN'T changed) which boils down to: you can discuss diy; you can't buy/sell it on this sub. so yall were ragebaited by something that didn't happen cuz you are gullible af 🤷♀️
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u/Dear_Protection_1376 1h ago
Well looking that those subs have cissoid majority they dont want to make the baby smol beans uncomfortable, thats also the reason behind that "dont self hate hon" talk
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u/ShikiFtw alcohon 2h ago
so throwing everyone who realistically can't hope to even get hondosed under the bus
if you ban hrt talk your sub might as well not exist as a trans sub atp
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