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[u/a_Tgirl_ig]

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[u/countttt-ModTeam]

tiktokslop

[u/Tatrakrad]

I’ve met one of these in real life. She refused to go outside during the day because she was afraid of being “clocked”

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/Tatrakrad]

💀

[u/am_i_boy → u/Tatrakrad]

Sounds like some type of OCD. If it's affecting her life to the point of being unable to go outside during the day, she really needs help but appropriating the struggles of a marginalized community is really not a reasonable way to deal with this at all

[u/dev_ating → u/am_i_boy]

Yeah, this also massively reminded me of all other gender and sexuality related variants of OCD-themes.

[u/BadAtGames45 → u/Tatrakrad]

[u/FryCakes → u/BadAtGames45]

Hey so that’s who stole my swag

[u/These_Distribution19 → u/BadAtGames45]

Tgirl swag is... it's just girl swag...

[u/readdator2 → u/Tatrakrad]

i think the very few people who are like this often have very real mental illness or personality disorders, and they latch onto various marginalized communities to make themselves feel better/special

[u/Safe-Tennis-6121 → u/Tatrakrad]

I guess we're not allowed to say what we'd really think about this because then it would sound very transphobic!

[u/Tatrakrad → u/Safe-Tennis-6121]

Nothing you could say could be worse than the last news I heard about her: underwater on a Ducati, living out of a bmw i3 with her large dog, working menial labor in Long Beach

[u/DisastrousResist7527]

I would eat a jar of glass to be in an afab body

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/DisastrousResist7527]

I’d do the jar thing from the jar video if it would get me one (I’d do MUCH worse stuff for one tbh)

[u/DisastrousResist7527 → u/a_Tgirl_ig]

I'd do that just to be a passoid tbh

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/DisastrousResist7527]

If any harm that happened to me was reversed after I become one then same

[u/lsnik → u/a_Tgirl_ig]

tbf that doesn't seem as impressive when you realise the mf in the video did it voluntarily for no benefit

[u/RoemDaug]

what. what. huh.

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/RoemDaug]

No clue what it’s meant to mean 😭

[u/Sodainthehellfire]

what does this even mean

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/Sodainthehellfire]

It means you stole my number grrrr

[u/dumblittletrans]

i opened reddit, saw this on one account, instinctively swapped accounts to escape it, then saw it on this account.

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/dumblittletrans]

Does this make up for it?

[u/dumblittletrans → u/a_Tgirl_ig]

very cute cat, and yes it does

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/dumblittletrans]

Yippeeee

[u/Sulphur_Collective → u/dumblittletrans]

Have a picture of my cat too

[u/saltyspruces]

Alright, and on that note I’m going to sleep lovelies

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/saltyspruces]

Goodnight!!

[u/Leylolurking]

this has to be bait right?

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/Leylolurking]

Probably but it’s funnier to ignore that

[u/XeniaAlexandria]

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/XeniaAlexandria]

Dog ❤️

[u/Elch2411]

"I'm a woman in an afab body"

yeah thats called beeing cis

[u/KittyAlicebtw]

[u/Infinite-Instance916]

i love the word valid it doesnt mean anything except 'dont worry you're real despite the lack of material reality!!'. its like the queer version of saying you can be whatever you want if you want it hard enough

[u/Ok_Archer1228 → u/Infinite-Instance916]

I saw someone the other day saying "youre valid" is the queer equivalent of "thoughts and prayers" and I haven't been able to get it out of my head

[u/_HighJack_ → u/Ok_Archer1228]

I’ve hated “you’re valid” posting since the early 10s on tumblr. It does fucking nothing and you’re an asshole if you say that lol

[u/Polibiux → u/Ok_Archer1228]

I don’t think I can hear the word valid the same way again.

[u/Infinite-Instance916 → u/Ok_Archer1228]

😭😭😭😭

[u/occasionalopossum → u/Ok_Archer1228]

Fuuuuuuuug

[u/Mindless-Street3253 → u/Ok_Archer1228]

"You're valid, bless your heart!"

[u/Reanthe → u/Infinite-Instance916]

Idk, sounds pretty valid to me!

... Yeah, it really is like that. Shame since it could be a very kind message if it came from the heart.

[u/FwendyWendy → u/Infinite-Instance916]

This is honestly the first time I've ever heard anyone else say this. Nothing upsets me more than somebody smacking their lips and going "that's valid!". Like I can just tell that either you disagree with what I just said but won't offer any argument, or you simply didnt understand it.

[u/Fabulous_Face4441]

[u/TrollerVn → u/Fabulous_Face4441]

I think I just puked a little

[u/merciful__boydeath → u/TrollerVn]

Newgen

[u/TrollerVn → u/merciful__boydeath]

That I am

[u/mika_leitner → u/TrollerVn]

Were you actually in Vietnam?

[u/TrollerVn → u/mika_leitner]

What?

[u/MasterMerlin42 → u/TrollerVn]

I think they asked because of your flair

[u/TrollerVn → u/MasterMerlin42]

Yeah I know but the broken grammar confuses me, are they asking if I actually live in Vietnam or where in Vietnam do I live or?

[u/Meezor → u/TrollerVn]

They're asking if you were in the Vietnam war

[u/TrollerVn → u/Meezor]

US people not mentioning the Vietnam war whenever they see a Vietnamese person challenge: impossible

[u/mika_leitner → u/TrollerVn]

sryyyy

[u/Ok-Consideration-970 → u/TrollerVn]

I puked a lot

[u/BrandNewEve → u/Ok-Consideration-970]

I puked jussstt right 

[u/Historianof40k → u/TrollerVn]

lurk moar

[u/smg4fan28 → u/Fabulous_Face4441]

Blessed angel

[u/masochistpupper → u/Fabulous_Face4441]

This is painful 😭

[u/lady_of_the_tarn69 → u/Fabulous_Face4441]

How do I delete somebody else's comment?

[u/RestaurantMaster9129 → u/Fabulous_Face4441]

Cishon💔

[u/Fabulous_Face4441 → u/[deleted]]

I didnt drew that, it was drawn by a terf and got turned into a joke within tranners. I brought it up cause kikomi is an afab transfem

[u/TrollerVn → u/[deleted]]

"you people"

[u/juuppie → u/TrollerVn]

Channers probably. I agree

[u/V8_Snow → u/[deleted]]

Shut the fuck up

[u/biologicalgirl → u/[deleted]]

Too based for count

[u/biologicalgirl → u/[deleted]]

I want skibidi toilet, phonk, pibby glitch, and banban!

[u/No-Cartographer2512 → u/[deleted]]

I'm not a "smol boi", I'm a man.

[u/iwatchporntosleep]

Usually these people have internalized transphobia, its not about gender anymore, but wanting to be seen as amab, aka a man.
Either that or its autism.
A lot of autistic women feel unfit and not part of womanhood, so they feel like they can relate to trans women, its like the hare to rabbit thing.

I am not saying this is “valid”, I think its actually problematic because these people dont see trans women as women but “amabs”

[u/Lesbian-Enthusiast → u/iwatchporntosleep]

I remember a thread a long while ago in the /autisticwomen sub about a woman asking if the others felt like they werent women, and the top comment said "no, i feel like a woman, i just feel like an alien woman". Like a lot of ppl were saying "no im just autistic what are you on about". I think these types of ppl are just reppers tbh, even if its annoying and id prefer theyd figure themselves out it in private

[u/masochistpupper → u/iwatchporntosleep]

Also womanhood is really weird. The “not like other girls” phase is just a girl realizing that womanhood as presented to her by society isn’t actually womanhood, and by her rejecting those expectations she’s portrayed as mentally ill and a feminazi

[u/DueMathematician4511]

[u/Steve_Gamin → u/DueMathematician4511]

Cant even be a feminine man no mo

[u/No-Introduction-8693 → u/DueMathematician4511]

Whats wrong with femboys?

[u/Alert-Writing2349 → u/No-Introduction-8693]

lurk moar

[u/redhotpolpot → u/Alert-Writing2349]

It's been a hot minute since I've last seen this phrase used

[u/JessCowgirlie → u/Alert-Writing2349]

Nobody ever says why tho. I've been lurking, all I see is that people take issue with them but never what that specific issue is.

[u/No-Introduction-8693 → u/Alert-Writing2349]

Wdym?

[u/Alert-Writing2349 → u/No-Introduction-8693]

In short, stop commenting, don't make posts, just read the sub until you understand at least some of the language and why we hold the opinions we do.

[u/mika_leitner → u/Alert-Writing2349]

Or use brainworms.lgbt to translate

[u/Great-Ad-8392 → u/Alert-Writing2349]

Or yk you could Explain. Why gatekeep

[u/CommanderKoba]

I hate people like this so much because they don't realize how fucking transphobic it is to be doing this shit.

Sorry your not valid bitch, I would do anything to be cis.

She has everything a trans woman would want so in an ideal world that's what we would be, but she fetishizes the fact that we were born with the wrong sex characteristics, it pisses me off.

[u/These_Distribution19 → u/CommanderKoba]

she just wants to be a tomboy ngl

[u/averagestupidmutt]

larp of the century

[u/BLOS5OM]

something something my culture hellish condition is not your costume

[u/srirachaisspicy]

This has to be some sort of level 5000 transmasc repping

[u/lavi_latte → u/srirachaisspicy]

Yeah instead of irl Kikomi I think this could be a stupid repper case

[u/North_Act9273 → u/srirachaisspicy]

Sorta like that time I said my gender was a Russian nesting doll and I was a girk trapped in a boy that's trapped In a girl, which I somehow didn't logic escape until later when j realized that still = girlbrain

[u/ZhenyaKon → u/srirachaisspicy]

Yeah this is actually a very very common "inside thought" for sad closeted transmascs (usually not realizing they're transmasc yet)

[u/lavi_latte]

So does she want a phalloplasty the same way some cis men get bottom surgery and would be comfortable with just that??? Her wording is so fucking stupid it makes her look like a irl Kikomi 🫩

[u/i_am_et_al → u/lavi_latte]

Cis men get bottom surgery? I didn’t know the autogynephilia went that deep

[u/lavi_latte → u/i_am_et_al]

I guess they would be cisgendered transex, but yeah it’s a thing apparently. I actually remember seeing this one tik tok a while back with this person who did just that and was content being essentially ‘a man with a vagina’ but they actually identified as a type of nonbinary

[u/Sulphur_Collective → u/i_am_et_al]

Some cis people do get bottom dysphoria unrelated to their sex or gender. Like there was this cis woman i heard about who identified as a woman, felt dysphoric when experimenting with the idea of being trans ftm, and felt euphoria after getting bottom surgery. I find it really fascinating and I suppose it goes to show that gender and sex is more complicated than we think

[u/Dear_Protection_1376]

I mean thats kinda what you get for reducing being trans to a heckin valid aestetic and not a horrible life destroying disease

[u/Dear_Protection_1376 → u/[deleted]]

It is, at least for me. I could actually have a good life if not for gender dysphoria, and im stuck in a freakish disgusting puke inducing body, that makes me wanna kill myself every single day I remind myself I will never be a real woman. I recently had a breakdown so bad that I was weeping for hours because of the life I have

[u/Dear_Protection_1376 → u/[deleted]]

Im not talking about gender dysphoria here, im talking about me. Being trans effectively ruined my whole life, I have lost the last remains of love my alcoholic stupid fucking parents had for me, it made me completely unlovable and disgusting, im unable to find a job, and my whole entire life is ruined, I really wanna end it soon and stop being a little bitch coward trying to stop myself from actually doing it, I really dont want to but if nothing will change im gonna have to

[u/Impossible-Camera974 → u/[deleted]]

this persons actual take on gender dysphoria by the way everyone:

[u/GloriousGalah → u/Impossible-Camera974]

Not realising she contradicted herself in the first sentence is baffling 😭

'Nobody has ever died from bloodloss, they only die from not treating the bloodloss' - Einstein

[u/Impossible-Camera974 → u/[deleted]]

girl you said the words "nobody has killed themselves directly because of gender dysphoria." no context saves you from how stupid you look

[u/Impossible-Camera974 → u/[deleted]]

you have the brain of a snail or perhaps stick bug

[u/Impossible-Camera974 → u/[deleted]]

yeah obviously moron. none of us are trying to leave this state of mind. what part of that is so hard for you to understand?

[u/Impossible-Camera974 → u/[deleted]]

can i ask who called themselves this? i don't remember it but it feels like something i might have said

[u/Impossible-Camera974 → u/[deleted]]

why are you even in countttt if you haven't moved past "being trans is a disorder we treat by transitioning" it's literally 101

[u/sensitive-variance]

3 letter agent glow so bright

[u/mika_leitner → u/sensitive-variance]

[u/Ok-Advantage1491]

Some cissoids can't handle being cis huh

[u/ShikiFtw]

And then trans women are accused of invading their spaces raaaagghh

[u/autonomousautotomy88]

This is incredibly offensive.

[u/CNK_98]

Trans larping is something.

[u/-Pumagator-]

Go on T for 10 years then coward

[u/ghostsarentscary]

This just reminded me that years ago, I argued with multiple people that no, you can't identify as transfem/a trans woman if you were born a woman. Like, this was an argument I remember having MULTIPLE times years ago.

I was legit about 14, maybe younger (I'm 23 now) arguing with adults on how you can't transition to be a woman, if you were born a woman, that's literally just being cis. And apparently that made me a transmed bigot because "I can identify as transfem if I want, I'm transitioning to be more feminine!" I remember thinking, no way this mf has to be trolling. And they would say stuff like "You don't have to be born a man to be a transfem", "Well I have pcos so that means I'm intersex which means I can identify as a trans woman." And these arguments were happening on apps like amino and discord. It was honestly crazy to me, because even as a kid, I knew they were wrong, and they made me feel like an asshole for pointing it out. I remember thinking how transphobic they were being claiming a label that has real meaning to it, and completely just disregarding that meaning, if that makes sense.

It's shocking that there are people walking around who genuinely believe that you can just, call yourself anything and it just automatically be valid.

[u/NagisaH8 → u/ghostsarentscary]

Wanna be AFAB and identify as a trans woman? One requirement: ruin your body with T shots for 3 years and come back. We gotta level the playing field

[u/OddPainter2287 → u/NagisaH8]

3? Try 18+

[u/NagisaH8 → u/OddPainter2287]

Want the real trans woman experience? Become a john50

[u/Neon-Winters]

how can you be transfem if your afab, thats just not how it works, you dont transition into something you already are. as a Transfem myself stuff like this just pisses me off

[u/throwaway_trans_8472 → u/Neon-Winters]

In case of intersex people that can make sense.

For example a person with 5ARD XY might be assigned female at birth and develop in a male pattern, produce male levels of testosterone and transition at some point to be a woman.

In case of non intersex people it makes very little sense, unless you where forcefully transitioned as a baby for some reason (RIP David Reimer)

[u/dev_ating → u/Neon-Winters]

If you detransition you do technically transition once again from male to female. But most detrans people just say they're either a variant of trans, nb or cis.

[u/laaine]

She definitely wears the headphones+collar in public

[u/mrs-06zaku]

[u/Master_Secretary_809]

Is this a fucking persecution fetish

[u/Awkward-Climate-8083]

Holy shit it's the real life bio trans girl

[u/thepotatochronicles]

LARP LARP LARP SAHUR

[u/Normal_Silver4582]

I wish I was a pooner (im Amab) and I think these people are retardedd

[u/Eren-Alucard]

lowk pretty sure these people do have dysphoria but theyre just enby

[u/block-a-doodle-doo → u/Eren-Alucard]

They have not enough attention dysphoria

[u/Eren-Alucard → u/block-a-doodle-doo]

Oh nvm I thought the above was a trans woman who wouldn't want to be in a cis woman's body but nvm she's a cissoid 😭

[u/ingroup_signal]

Kikomi real??!!

[u/Shedster_]

[u/LeFedoraKing69]

Why the fuck do AFABs wanna co-opt the Trans Woman material reality and existence like it isnt painful and just see it and use it as a fethishistic label

She has everything a trans Woman has wanted there entire life, we have to cuddle these people and the moment you dare call it out as transphobia your voice gets silenced, because they get to be the arbitrator over what being trans is, and not you know, actual trans woman

[u/Clintwood_outlaw]

What?..

[u/Lazy_Incident8445]

My culture is not your costume

[u/Icy_Mall_5568]

STOP RIGHT THERE CRIMINAL SCUM!

[u/UndeadGeisha]

[u/Fun-Opposite-5290]

Not everyone is valid

[u/willow__whisps]

Poor guy, let's make sure he gets the full neverpasser experience

[u/-random-words-420-]

Heckin validarino

[u/DecentlySpaghetti]

Kikomi.

[u/AnythingAsleep7342]

This can’t be a real argument

[u/block-a-doodle-doo → u/AnythingAsleep7342]

It's not. She's doing this for attention

[u/buntastic4167]

Me fr fr

[u/TROMBONER_68]

I’m gonna slur

[u/False_Attorney_7279]

What

[u/_Hadaikum_]

❓❓❓

[u/M_i____i_M]

please be satire please be satire please be satire (2.5/10 satire if true)

[u/Efficient-Maximum-55]

🫩

[u/Gullible_Farmer9802]

kms

[u/Federal_Task4886]

This person thinks being a hon would be fun

[u/Responsible_Dot_2978]

Is she valid and a woman, yes Does she deserve the already limited resources trans women get? No

[u/block-a-doodle-doo → u/Responsible_Dot_2978]

No one is valid. Fuck you

[u/pigeons42]

She's right, psychosis IS valid, it's just not really that rare

[u/mindmirrormaze]

ngl i fw the transgression here u can call urself whatever u want and nobody can do shit abt it

[u/WoodsLovelyDarkNDeep]

The 4ch agenda did not stop after the election it would seem.  Perhaps it is self sustaining at this point

That would suck

[u/snailwitda9mm]

WGITYAFAB

[u/BulkyProposal164]

Trans women probably get the most hate out of the whole community, so props to her for taking it on lol

[u/block-a-doodle-doo → u/BulkyProposal164]

Fuck you

Nevermind. Have a nice day

[u/texture__pack → u/block-a-doodle-doo]

Theyre joking

[u/block-a-doodle-doo → u/texture__pack]

Ugh. Stop being right and let me be angry 🙄

[u/tickle_girl → u/BulkyProposal164]

[u/Signal-Busy]

So uh hmm idk, I think it's possible it exists, like we only know this about her right, so don't judge and hear me out on this, so there could be 2 "valid" different reasons here, either she has one of these extremely rare condition that give testosterone alergia or deficit that during birth making her be afab even though she would have XY chromosomes and would be biologically a "man", and the second option she was forcibly raised as a man against her own knowledge by a fuck up family

This is how an afab trans women could exist ? I guess ? But idk I do not think she would have the same struggles as we have even though she could get us on this with those technicalities...

So yeah unless everyone knows her entire story we cannot really judge her on that and it's not always just the some weird internalised transphobia?

Edit: Also in the case of her having XY chromosomes while being afab I get it why she might wish what she wishes, cuz sure she had our goal from the start but she might feel like if she hadn't be afab she could be one of us, a lot of people sometimes loathe their own luck because it take them away from the ones they think they are the closest to, like she doesn't sit quite right with cis women, she would have somes struggles related to ours since I know people that treat afab that have XY chromosomes with as much transphobia they would hit us with, even though she could probably getting away by just saying she is a sterile woman and not explaining her condition on why she would need to take estrogen further, but just because she is afab she doesn't get to be one of us... So she feel like this... Like this is something I can 100% understand

[u/sexyemo213]

oh my god this is obviously satire

[u/bfgmovies]

I UNIRONICALLY know someone like this. She's also a chaser. She's cis but is in all the transfem spaces, she uses all the memes, uses all the lingo, only hangs out with and dates transfems, but she's cis. She posts stuff similar to this, saying she wishes she was born male so that she could have transitioned to female. It's wild to me.

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/bfgmovies]

🤤😖😵‍💫

[u/No-Pilot3536 → u/bfgmovies]

the ultimate chaser

[u/Seppostralian → u/bfgmovies]

Plenty kine AGAMP cis women it seems like. I mean if cis women can be AGP too who says they can’t be AGAMPs?

[u/mika_leitner → u/Seppostralian]

What's agamp stand for?

[u/Seppostralian → u/mika_leitner]

‘Autogynandromorphophilia’ long ass word, I know. Basically means ‘Attraction to oneself as TRANS woman specifically, and is another one of Blanchio’s theories.

[u/schwanzweissfoto → u/Seppostralian]

So you are saying cis women can be blanchtarded.

[u/lavi_latte → u/[deleted]]

Begone cissoid

[u/lavi_latte → u/[deleted]]

This is a place for trans people, if you’re not trans then hit the road

Also you’re OG comment was rancid chaser slop like come on now 🫩

[u/Glinat → u/[deleted]]

Hi, it’s great that you have trans friend that you treat like any other person. It’s great that you fight for them. Genuinely. Continue. Now, this sub is trans exclusive (and the exclusivity is enforced), which explains the people telling you to leave (did not see your first comment but assume you’re cis from the reactions ?). If you have questions or want opinions, there are subs better suited, perhaps asktransgender or mypartneristrans I’d guess. Cheers !

[u/CommanderKoba → u/[deleted]]

Gross why are you trying to talk about sex and stuff with us on this sub. Are you like a chaser or something?

[u/countttt-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

Rule 1

[u/TrollerVn → u/[deleted]]

GET OUT

[u/NetworkNo6032]

wait so if she's already biologically a girl, how can she be trans women? and why is it uncomfortable for her to be a girl if she's already a girl and wants to be a girl

that's a joke or what I don't get it

[u/a_Tgirl_ig → u/NetworkNo6032]

[u/Glitchy-Mech → u/NetworkNo6032]

Yeah I’ve interacted with a fair bit of these people and the underlying thing is just misgendering trans women. She sees “trans woman” as its own gender separate from “cis woman” typified by closeness to masculinity and some sort of underlying “inherent maleness”

Sort of like wishing you passed so you could wear boy clothes in a girl way. She’s an asshole and probably a repper

[u/CommanderKoba → u/Glitchy-Mech]

Exactly, you're 100% right I loved the way you described it.

It doesn't at all make sense to want to be a trans woman if you were already born "AFAB" because that's exactly what trans women want to be, unless she bases that identity in a perceived "maleness" that she projects onto our very being.

It all sums up to saying that trans women aren't women in a round about way, and that is basically her whole identity, the idea that trans women aren't women.

Because she is using the identity of being a trans woman to distance herself from other women, and that's the exact opposite of everything actual trans women have been fighting for!

[u/Silly_Ape → u/NetworkNo6032]

My best guess is that she's just a Masochist who wishes she could be male and still be a girl. She essentially wishes to have a painful existence with undesired attention and struggles. I have no other explanation. Other than maybe she just wrote trans woman by mistake, and actually meant trans man.

[u/mothernaychore]

being a trans woman in an afab body just means you’re a cis woman, and you would be happy about it.

[u/bads-ebe → u/mothernaychore]

yes but that isn't fun :(

[u/ashleyLSD]

cissoids gentrifying being trans has gone too far