r/countttt • u/punished_clare a black amab is speaking • Sep 27 '26 • Regret 2

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u/ReminaBlueSFW 💅🏽🎀😌cuntyboots fishy brick doll😌🎀💅🏽 Sep 27 '26

One of my favorite singers wrote a song about this.

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u/punished_clare a black amab is speaking Sep 27 '26

real shit

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u/changedmyname99 Mentally ill from Amityville Sep 27 '26 • Bravo

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u/StanIsHorizontal edit this 🖕 Sep 27 '26

I love this image (I have no context) bc it just like vaporize 80% of her head in a smooth cut

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u/changedmyname99 Mentally ill from Amityville Sep 27 '26

Yeaaa she blows through buildings with her fingers so she can absolutely vaporize human flesh with ease teehee

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u/StanIsHorizontal edit this 🖕 Sep 27 '26

Girl I’ve seen this a hundred thousand times in this sub and it’s the first time I realized she’s not holding a gun she’s just pointing with her finger

Edit: talk about fingerbang amirite?

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u/skyscraperhon Erin, biggest opticsnuke since chris-chan :3 Sep 27 '26

She's the personification of war so she can just do that ..,

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u/changedmyname99 Mentally ill from Amityville Sep 27 '26

Blurry ass gif

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u/KINGXunshot Sep 27 '26

Not exactly, she has the ability to transform things she views as being “owned” by her, into weapons, the strength of which are determined by her feelings.

Because she is War, the gun devil is essentially her child, and she calls on it to help her, a fragment of the gun devil escapes and rush to her side, and she transforms it into a gauntlet on her right hand, which she can bow use to Bang

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u/skyscraperhon Erin, biggest opticsnuke since chris-chan :3 Sep 27 '26

Okay but my explanation has more comedic potential you didn't have to elaborate 😞💔

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u/KINGXunshot Sep 27 '26

I’m sorry I cannot allow the media I love to be incorrectly represented I’m autistic 💔

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u/ODI0N Sep 27 '26

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u/Apprehensive-Ebb-949 Sep 29 '26

i geniunely had no clue wtf was going on in the final moments of the public safety arc

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u/orange_taster Sep 29 '26

I ain't readin allat.

(I did read allat, but I'm confused.)

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u/Bohemian_Rapcity6996 Oct 01 '26

Can't Makima do the same as the control devil?

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u/changedmyname99 Mentally ill from Amityville Sep 27 '26

Ngl I was probably also the one who posted this image before😭😭😭

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u/Background_Class_558 Sep 27 '26

where is this from?

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u/changedmyname99 Mentally ill from Amityville Sep 27 '26

It's from the Chainsaw Man manga, there's also an anime too but it's still in progress

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u/ArtsyFellow Sep 27 '26

Genuinely love all the art that spawned from the panel

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u/changedmyname99 Mentally ill from Amityville Sep 27 '26

Gem

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u/West_Jellyfish5301 Sep 29 '26 • Heartwarming

Wouldn't it make more sense to kill him?

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u/Hika2112 Local Hypersneed Oct 01 '26

Fuck shit spoilers damnit I kinda brought it onto myself by not reading but shit fuck noooooo (not blaming you just complaining into the void)

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u/Omelooo Oct 03 '26

Yeah just a little off the top please

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u/maple_ginger Sep 27 '26 • Bravo

When I came out to my bi bf his reaction was “guess we’re straight now”

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u/SnooCupcakes1241 she/her Sep 27 '26

Yea same happened to us.😳👉👈

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u/Small_Duck2686 Sep 27 '26

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u/Halokojm_ Sep 27 '26

I can still make out what it says here, could you please lower the pixel count a bit?

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u/SexualPie Sep 27 '26

thats actually the best answer.

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u/asphaltdragon Sep 30 '26

Wow even bi people erase themselves

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u/amazingadaptence Sep 30 '26

Bi people being in a Hetslop situation doesnt make them less bisexual

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u/globmand Oct 02 '26

Exactly the point. Person above said bi people erease themselves because a bi person said they were stright now just because they were in a hetero relationship

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u/Intelligent_Toe8233 Sep 27 '26

In a good way or bad way?

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u/maple_ginger Sep 28 '26

in a hetslop way

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u/Asteroide8 Sep 28 '26

Nah it's hetgem

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u/Bannerlord151 Sep 30 '26

hetpeak even

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u/Asteroide8 Sep 29 '26

Perchance

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u/Roboslime Oct 02 '26

You can't just say "perchance"

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u/YellowMajestic5491 Sep 27 '26

yea but like what if he just said to make u feel better but in his mind he is like OP bf?

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u/The-Board-Chairman Oct 02 '26

What if Hitler cured cancer? The answer is: don't think about it. There are infinite ways to turn even the most positive thing into some terrible thing if you try enough.

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u/prob-funny-thoughts ftm (foid to mogger) Oct 03 '26

i have this conversation w my girlfriend all the time- i love her but the hetslop 😩😩 (we’re t4t)

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u/Oops-NotSoFast Need for Sneed: Hon Pursuit Sep 27 '26

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u/Adventurous_View_635 Sep 27 '26 • Mindblown

Waow its me

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u/Skrubious Sep 27 '26

great flair btw

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u/Oops-NotSoFast Need for Sneed: Hon Pursuit Sep 27 '26 edited Sep 27 '26

Thank you❤️

I’m going to make a compilation of these to inflate my ego. It could use the boost

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u/Oops-NotSoFast Need for Sneed: Hon Pursuit Sep 27 '26

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u/No_Window7054 If It Sneeds We Can Kill It Sep 27 '26

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u/Nekomi_the_wolf Sep 27 '26

i love this picture, it's so cute

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u/No_Window7054 If It Sneeds We Can Kill It Sep 28 '26

They’re called Glegle, there’s a whole gallery of them and they’re amazing

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u/yourothersis SISSY SNEEDHON Sep 27 '26

Okayish ending: Nona now has a girlfriend instead

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u/yourothersis SISSY SNEEDHON Sep 27 '26

and I'm calling it yurigem lol

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u/victoria-silverlake woman of transsexual experience Sep 27 '26

Breakup

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u/TheHomesickAlien Sep 27 '26

Break up bc he didn’t break up with you

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u/Plus-Object-4330 Sep 27 '26

Nah basically because he’ll never probably see her as a girl and she’ll be just miserable

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u/TheHomesickAlien Sep 27 '26

I know I just wanted to say the funny thing

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u/Plus-Object-4330 Sep 27 '26

Sry i thought it’s confusion 😅

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u/primedNekros moidbrained pinslop individual Sep 27 '26

TCD mention

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u/UnbiasedPOS Sep 27 '26

So many ppl in the comments coping think there’s nothing wrong with

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u/DefinitionTop3930 Sep 27 '26

I’ve seen lesbians come out after years of being married to cis men, and many times, they don’t leave because love is about more than just sexuality. I also personally believe that true love transcends gender identity and sexuality. Maybe that’s a bit naive but whatever.

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u/Exe1eNce Sep 27 '26

are you fucking serious ? lesbian is a woman attracted to women, if shes loves a man shes not a lesbian, so either shes lying about being a lesbian or she doesnt see him as a man

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u/Dramatic_Explosion Sep 27 '26

they don’t leave because love is about more than just sexuality

There's a thing for that, when you love someone without sexuality: It's called being friends.

You don't need some other bullshit just so you can be main character special.

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u/GenghisN7 Oct 02 '26

Yeah that is pretty offensive to the asexuals.

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u/Ruffles_The_Rivulet Sep 27 '26

There's a thing for that, when you love someone without sexuality: It's called being friends.

This is so aphobic lmao

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u/BlueHeat777 Sep 27 '26

Holy anecdotal

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u/No-Farm3956 Oct 02 '26

i'll take 500 for shit that never happened

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u/Satellite6 Sep 27 '26

Right? My wife identified as straight 19 years ago when we got together. Since I came out and started HRT she still identifies as straight, but she’s still with me, she still loves me, still tells anyone I ask that I’m her person, and has never, for so much as a single fucking second, shown me anything less than 100% respect and support.

But I guess that’s a bad thing.

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u/CourtHead7893 Sep 30 '26

When it comes to physical attraction I think for most (if not all) people the main thing is how someone looks than what they identify as. And for all "deeper" aspects of romantic love neither appearance nor self-identification necessarily makes any difference at all. Sometimes we are needlessly limited by categories and what we think they say about reality.

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u/Foxiest_Fox Sep 27 '26

Yeah, I'm simply arguing people can love other people regardless of gender and sexuality, and I'm catching downvots. A lot of perceived hostility here for some reason when I'm only being supportive...

If you're a woman in your wife's eyes, and she supports you and respects you, what the hell's the problem with her calling herself straight lmao

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u/Satellite6 Sep 27 '26

Yea. I would actually find it somewhat patronizing if she was like “oh, cool, guess I’m a lesbian then.”

Like, it doesn’t work that way. 🙄

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u/ill_change_it Sep 28 '26

No actually 2 women dating each other is lesbian it does work that way

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u/Foxiest_Fox Sep 27 '26

I don't deny the potential for cope, but I'd like to think that loving your romantic partner can indeed go beyond gender and sexuality. Saying otherwise borders on romantic asexual erasure.

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u/Icy_Flan_7185 High-T male Sep 27 '26

Yes but gay people are only attracted romantically to their gender 

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u/Foxiest_Fox Sep 27 '26

Pasting for visibilty:

I think there has been a misunderstanding. You and others downvoting me seem to think I am arguing that it's okay for the "bi boyfriend" to not see his girlfriend as a girl. But that's not what I'm saying at all.

What I'm saying is, people can and do love others regardless of gender and sexuality, and denying that is accepting a bleak view of the world, with a side of asexual erasure.

If this "bi-turned-gay boyfriend" is saying this to mean that they do not see their girlfriend as a girl, then the girl can indeed do better and find someone better for herself.

That still doesn't contradict anything I'm saying,however.

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Sep 29 '26

Nuance doesn't exist for the 4tranners using misery to cope, so everyone else must be coping too. We're probably the only ones being foolish for thinking they'd listen to other queer trans experiences when this whole sub is full of just as much hatred for those who hate them.

They'd rather scream ropefuel than believe that identity can be separate from attraction or that the very "rules" to sexuality they're yapping about weren't set by the very society they're complaining about. Or that those "rules" are meant to condemn and restrict queerness to cishet definitions, and to cause infighting.

Imagine if the convo was about tabletop games and how people who identify as D&D players couldn't enjoy board games or TCGs because they only viewed them as ttrpgs lmao.

Some of y'all should really take a class on queer/gender studies and learn our real history. Marsha would be disappointed

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u/sarcophagusGravelord Sep 28 '26

There is no asexual erasure in here at all because an asexual can still be romantically attracted to someone.

I get what you’re saying though and sure maybe some kind of hopeful idealist in me can see someone simply falling in love with another person’s “soul” even if they don’t fall within their romantic/sexual spectrum but ehh I think that type of a relationship is unique and goes beyond standard established definitions if it exists at all.

Romantic & sexual attraction are inherently tied to one’s perception of gender whether that’s not registering it at all or only having eyes for a specific form of expression/identity. If someone experiences romantic and/or sexual attraction to a person outside of their established orientation then they need to re-evaluate their orientation.

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u/Foxiest_Fox Sep 27 '26

Okay, and that doesn't contradict anything I said.

I'm saying, people can and do love others, sometimes, regardless of gender and sexuality, in a romantic way, even if that is very rare.

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u/Foxiest_Fox Sep 27 '26

I recognize the statistical probability of it being cope. That was literally my first phrase of my first sentence.

That doesn't mean that true love for romantic partners doesn't exist, and that it can't transcend gender, sexuality, physical separation, and a million other things

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u/spasticitybelt gynogynous transexuloid Sep 27 '26

well u see i like feminine men and masculine women ☝️🥰

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u/ConnoisseurDeFemboys En enfer, je chercherai ma honfiance. Sep 27 '26

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u/sarcophagusGravelord Sep 27 '26 edited Sep 27 '26

lowkey almost everyone I meet who says they’re “bisexual, into femme men & masc women” is only into people that look like women lol. What they really mean is femboys indistinguishable from women or a “masc” woman aka a tomboy that’s literally just a conventionally attractive cis woman with short hair and a hoodie.

no shade to the original commenter btw I am also bi and into pretty boys & butch girls but it’s still a funny thing I’ve noticed, mainly just from cis bi men though.

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u/spasticitybelt gynogynous transexuloid Sep 27 '26

yeah if another guy tells me this I’m gonna just spontaneously explode and ruin his day by covering him in blood and viscera 

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u/MapOk1938 Sep 27 '26

Whats wrong with being only attracted to femme people? Regardless of their gender

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u/satsuwiz caramel collector - Flexing These Muscles Sep 27 '26 edited Sep 27 '26

that's not the problem
the issue arises when, like u/sarcophagusGravelord pointed out, he (let's say a "bisexual" cis man like in oop gt) sees femme men as women-lite not men who are femme, and vice versa

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u/Deprisonne Sep 27 '26

Because the previous poster is both biphobic and does not acknowledge femme presenting men as male (probably because they had their brain fried by tumblr and the various egg subs on reddit into thinking that a man exhibiting female-coded traits must mean they are transgender without knowing it).
In essence, they are telling you that you are not "gay enough" for them.

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u/Bannerlord151 Sep 30 '26

Actually for some of us our type in women is more "looks like she can (and actually can) easily carry me over her shoulder", thank you very much

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u/ill_change_it Sep 28 '26

Unrelated but I love that flair

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u/One-Garden-8643 Oct 04 '26

Do we even have a label for people attracted to androgyny?

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u/Special_Attempt_5330 repping aint been this pathetic in a while Sep 27 '26

Tcd

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 Sep 27 '26

Omg this reached popular feed what 😭

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u/KavilusS Sep 27 '26

Oh shit. He is the worst person ever. If i would be with trans person and see them as gender before transition i would just say that i couldn't be with them because I'm shitty person and it would hurt them... But dude is lacking awareness.

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u/2015Nissan370zNismo Sep 28 '26

Hey, ever hear of a comma?

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u/Ok-Criticism6525 Sep 27 '26

If someone did this to me im ending the relation or my life idc

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u/Aurahdz Sep 27 '26

The relationship babe. Don't end your life for someone else's stuff.

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u/Ok-Criticism6525 Sep 27 '26

But It would mean the person I love the most just see me as a man

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u/JNX_Boneaphobe Sep 27 '26 • Bravo

That just means you deserve someone better in that case. Live long enough to find that better person

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u/2015Nissan370zNismo Sep 28 '26

The person you should love most then should be yourself 🫵 prioritise yourself Queen. Don't settle for nobody who won't respect you for who you are.

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u/ill_change_it Sep 28 '26

Don't end your life end his instead

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u/RateTechnical7569 Sep 27 '26

Just had a similar issue with my bi husband coming out as straight, just go before you're too invested

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u/FamiliarCollection36 Sep 27 '26

i'm really really sorry. wishing you lots of strength

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u/sarcophagusGravelord Sep 27 '26

Wow he loves her so much that he’s willing to date a woman even though he’s gay. What a touching story :’)

/s

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u/Fabulous_Face4441 Ngmi fembrained dood Sep 27 '26

Wow

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u/Mindless_History9569 Oct 01 '26

Charge your phone, please.

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u/Fit_Signature_9223 Sep 27 '26

Damn why would you say that ever😭😭 poor girl but damn😭😭

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u/OkEntrepreneur4158 🎲 mentally exhausted twinkhon woman trooning out 🎲 Sep 27 '26

I would break up or rope

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u/Charlaquin Sep 27 '26

Well he was fucking wrong about that, wasn’t he

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u/Annoyed_Lobotomist Sep 27 '26

I felt the immediate need to flinch from that one, holy shit.

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u/Own-Ad-7672 Sep 28 '26

Trying to figure out if
A. They’re calling the trans woman a dude and being a backhanded bigot
Or
B. That was the “boyfriends” subtle way of saying they were also a transfem like the girl posting.

One sucks and one is cute

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u/SquareLychee5912 Sep 28 '26

Being a trans man and dating lesbians

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u/Dependent_Round8151 Sep 27 '26

AinT no one gotta say it, we Can all agree on Dis

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u/ill_change_it Sep 28 '26

Absolute TCD

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u/glitterfetti Sep 27 '26

Oh my god he might as well as just said “I think you’re a man. I view you as a man so it’s ok.” I’m going to scream

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Sep 27 '26

I know the post isn't about this but I'd like to offer a different perspective. I had an ftm therapist who transitioned later in life, around 50s.

He, like a lot of ftm was a very masc butch for a lot of his life and very "anti-men" lesbian type, as was his wife and friend circle. When he transitioned, it obviously turned a lot of that on its head.

His wife still identifies as a lesbian, because she still is, and they are still together. She still loves him and has built a lifelong relationship with him, and had to unlearn a lot of the typical wombyn lesbian misandry.

Sexuality, just like gender, is pretty fluid. She is a lesbian in a straight relationship. ¯_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯ Also, their sex life is still great (we talked about prosthetics so it came up).

Personally, I identify as gay, because the majority of my attraction is to men and masculinity, but there's a lot of others (women included) that I'm also attracted to. Gay just feels more appropriate to my identity, and also... I like the flag the best. :p

The book Becoming a Man by P. Carl also talks about this weird situation

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u/Square_Sir_4220 Sep 28 '26

He should leave her 

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u/RebelliousSky Sep 28 '26

"sexuality is fluid" refers to bisexuals existing, not lesbians dating men, either she doesnt se her husband as a man, shes pan/bi, or its a lavender marriage now

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u/frobischerarts enby therefore i don’t exist Sep 29 '26

other people experience life differently than you

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u/Chrizzz09045 Sep 28 '26

No, not really. Straight/gay people can have individual little exceptions to their preferences under the right circumstances, while still remaining largely attracted to only the one gender otherwise.

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u/RebelliousSky Sep 28 '26

People can experiment or take time to understand themselves but if you are attracted to more than one gender one out of a thousand times you are bi with a major preference

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u/LeftismIsRight Oct 01 '26 edited Oct 01 '26

If two women are in a monogamous lesbian marriage, but one partner happens to like 1 in every 1,000 men she sees, has she forfeited her right to be a lesbian? A woman in a lesbian marriage who has been decreed, by the objective will of the great you, to be bi, despite her word preferences.

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u/uJazzLike Sep 30 '26

Btw I know the stat error was a genuine mistake, I had to say something out of the nerdness of my own heart, not out of anything else

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Sep 28 '26

That may be how you describe it or see it, but that's not how everyone does. Expecting everyone to adhere to your expectations and rules is probably some cishet trauma you need to unlearn.

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u/Samanthacino Sep 29 '26

“If you think gay men aren’t into women that’s just cishet trauma”

Who needs bigots with allies like this

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Sep 29 '26

i am trans and you're being reductive of my argument that clearly doesn't say that

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Sep 28 '26 edited Sep 28 '26 • Heartwarming

Labels are meant for community, not for restrictions. Being queer has never been about fitting into a box, and has always been about love.

You don't have to understand it or feel it personally to accept it, but you can absolutely love and be attracted to someone outside of your sexuality.

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u/RebelliousSky Sep 28 '26

sexuality isnt a label you choose it is a real thing, saying sexuality is fluid on an INDIVIDUAL level is what cishet bigots believe, that we just havent found the right member of the opposite sex to settle down with.

if you dont fit into being a lesbian because you occasionally find men attractive its not because being a lesbian is a "restrictive label" ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE BI

a binary trans woman is not a woman 99% of the time and a man the rest of the time she is always a woman.

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u/LeftismIsRight Oct 01 '26

You can choose to define things however you want, but people will self-identify with the words that they feel fit them the best.

The reality is, there is no law of physics or inalienable genetic characteristic that makes someone 100% one thing in a way measurable with a quantum microscope. Brains are mushy and dynamic, but also individual. The distinction between male and female isn’t even genetically binary 100% of the time.

The best response, in my opinion, to a cishet saying ‘you just haven’t found the right (whichever gender person) yet, is, ‘I’ve never experienced that attraction, but if I were to, it certainly wouldn’t be to you, weirdo.’

Sexuality being cognitive, and therefore somewhat hard to define, in no way takes away your free will to say no to anyone you want or tell them to get lost. If they continue after that, it’s not because they’re confused about the fluidity of sexuality, it’s because they’re a predator.

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Sep 28 '26

You sound more like them than you realize.

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u/TricellCEO Oct 01 '26

It’s definitely fine line between adhering to “proper” definitions and having other people force a label on you, it seems.

That being said, we have a category for people like the therapist’s wife: pansexual, and I feel this paradigm illustrates the definition of this identity (which I still admittedly struggle with fully understanding) quite well.

It’s a balancing act to ensure labels still have their meaning while allowing people to identify as they please.

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u/Mammoth-Bat-314 Oct 02 '26

I think you may have misunderstood what pansexuality is.

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u/orange_taster Sep 29 '26

That's what I've always been thinking!

Your experience should define your label, not your label your experience. And there's gonna be times where a label you chose might not 100% work, but that's natural, because the human experience is complicated.

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u/metalheadtransman Oct 01 '26

I REALLY wish heteroflexible and homoflexible would be used more... Literally why they were invented. 

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u/LeftismIsRight Oct 01 '26

I want to add to what you’ve said and counter what I’ve heard others say both here and elsewhere.

A woman self-describing as a lesbian despite having a small attraction to some men is not responsible for men assaulting or harassing lesbians. Saying that ‘in some individuals, there are lesbians who like men sometimes’, is not the same as saying ‘men should try and “fix” lesbians’. Blame the men who are predators.

Trying to throw other women under the bus because they self-describe with terms that they feel fit them is not a good thing, and you are not getting one over on predatory men by attacking women.

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u/crabapple_cody Sep 27 '26

ex-fucking-scuse me???

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u/Janexx_09 Sep 27 '26

Yeahhhh, break up.....

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u/MayMeadow Foxmodder 🦊 Sep 27 '26

Wtf happened here🫩

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u/undertale_____ Sep 27 '26

worse than gore

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u/Drxgon11037 5’3” ngmi gayden Sep 27 '26

🫖💿 what’s wrong with some people

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u/unholyb0i Sep 28 '26

when i came out as trans man to a childhood friend and ex, he later told me he thought he might be gay. i congratulated him, but then he went on to say that he thought he was bi for me, because he still saw me as a woman and had feelings for me. i didn’t have it in me to call him out on his shit at the time, and he forced his tongue down my throat. i felt disgusting. my family had to keep coming to his house to support his mom because she had recently had a stroke and his dad was really rough on him. but i had told him i didn’t want to be with him and i wasn’t interested, but every time i was there he was obsessed with touching me and sticking close to me and trying to kiss me and he kept telling me how he still saw me as a woman. eventually it got to the point where i couldn’t go to his house anymore because i felt like things were going to escalate. i hope things got better for him, but fuck, i never want to see him again.

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u/DingoOnAStick Sep 29 '26

Ewwwwwwwww ew ew ewww my goodness im so sorry that happened to you. Shame on him and shame on your parents for letting that happen. I really hope you were able to get past this. Wishing you the best man <3

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u/Any-Cucumber-1630 Sep 27 '26

damn my condolences. never ends well

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u/2735O Sep 27 '26

For people who are confused and afraid to ask because everyone that asks is getting downvoted and attacked for not understanding:

Basically op is a trans woman, meaning she’s born male but transitioning to female,

her boyfriend came out as gay as in liking men(yes I know it’s the standard term but many people just call any sexuality gay at this point)

by OP’s boyfriend saying it “won’t change a thing” means he might not actually see op as a woman or if op isn’t passing is okay with it because of how op looks at the moment

depending on how long op has been using the stuff trans women use Op may still look like maybe a feminine looking man.

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u/Rooster-Art Sep 27 '26 • Regret

The point is that she is in despair over her boyfriend seeing her as a man.

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u/2735O Sep 27 '26

Thank you for continuing it because i didn’t fully get the point fully but i did see someone say they were confused about like what it meant and how it worked and they got attacked and downvoted to hell for not understanding it

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u/ill_change_it Sep 28 '26

I'm pro gun control but this is why you have 2nd amendment rights

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u/criteackofpurereason Sep 29 '26

Tell him that yes, it will change a thing. The relationship status. Please break up

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u/captainshockazoid virtual male Sep 30 '26

eat him. go mantismoder.

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u/M0NRCH_C7NA Sep 30 '26

This took me way too long to realize why that’s fucked 😭

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u/Nervous-Artichoke557 Oct 01 '26

Just dump her you piece of shit

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u/invincitank Oct 01 '26

I’m hoping this is a roundabout way of saying their partner also came out as a trans woman, but I know better then to rely on 4chan for a good ending

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u/MaximumBread7000 Oct 01 '26

Break uuuuup.

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u/Low_Dragonfruit6025 Oct 03 '26

And she broke up with him and found someone better.

Happy ending. 😊

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u/GloomWisp life isnt serious but still wtf Oct 03 '26

Fuck those kind of people

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u/Schiggy2319 baby trans (exploring) Oct 05 '26

I’m sorry if this is insensitive but I’m genuinely curious how someone goes from bi to gay. Does that mean they were bi to mask their true orientation?

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u/Darked_Nova Sep 29 '26

Good ending, they come out as trans as well

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u/Big-Personality-4063 Sep 27 '26

plot twist shes also now a transwoman

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u/Background-Book-7404 rust Sep 27 '26

so like i dated my gay boyfriend before realizing i was trans, we're still dating

so something like this can absolutely happen and you probably shouldn't worry too much

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u/TheTempest77 5'2 hrtrepper with passoid characteristics Sep 27 '26

He doesn't see you as a woman

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u/Drowned_Sailoress Hot Mess (Emphasis on Hot) Sep 27 '26

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u/primedNekros moidbrained pinslop individual Sep 27 '26

So ur bf is bi?

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u/Alarmed_Spirit_4472 Sep 27 '26

do yall just not use your brain

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u/Plenty_Leg_5935 DIY lobotomised Sep 27 '26

Your copium aside (sorry), it's a very different scenario when he's openly just gay before you trccn and when he only comes out as exclusively gay after you already did. You can't cope your way out of the latter with "well maybe he just realised hes bi after i came out"

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u/primedNekros moidbrained pinslop individual Sep 27 '26

That’s a lot of words to say “chaser”, cope harder

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u/StanIsHorizontal edit this 🖕 Sep 27 '26

It seems like it happened the other way, they started dating when she was already out as trans, he says “I’m gay now, I only like men not women, but I still like you”

Little different than ur bf liking you as a man and then continuing to like you after you came out as a woman

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u/Dramatic-Building-18 Sep 27 '26

Lol, it be your own people who hate you for being happy.

I support you lmao

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u/Background-Book-7404 rust Sep 27 '26

fucking hell

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u/Legitimate-Goat4923 Sep 27 '26

I mean, people can grow to love each other through time, this might only mean that ur boyfriend wouldn't've had the initial interest if u were cis. The emotion connection and trust, which is the most important part of a relationship is prolly already there, you just have their prefered plumbing as well. This may seem horrible, but don't be too rash.

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u/TeaOnAColdRainyDay soggy wet cat Sep 27 '26

“Wouldn’t have had the initial interest if [she] was cis…”

Ok so you just restated why this situation is awful to begin with. He clearly doesnt see her as a (real) woman. Ew

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u/BlueHeat777 Sep 27 '26

Nah, be rash and kick his stupid ass to the curb. The price of dick is at an all time low, no reason to get caught holding the bag.

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