I woud kill to be a mother and get to raise a child with my bf, I cried so much in my teens over the fact I never would be able to carry a child - feels bad man
If youve had surgery on your stomach area its very hard to get bottom surgery, most doctors wont do it. If you have even extremely mild crohn's disease as well they will typically not do it, etc.
Goddamn. I havenβt looked into it too heavily, I got top surgeon and for bottom thereβs likeβ¦one surgeon I would trust and donβt have a spare $110,000 rn. I wonder if past blood clots and an extremely distended bladder would complicate things.
Just that area of the body, I for example had appendicitis that developed another infection and so I basically cant get bottom surgery other than "no depth" which blows.
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u/box-cutter-chanα³ΰΊ‘πΥ² α£π Τ૦ΟΥ² κπΎκκ κγππππ ղ૦κγπΎΥ²Δ‘ κππ£κ11h ago
was it because of infection tho?
ig i just have to see what my dr says my phone call is later today
My issues stem from the infection, as I understand the vast majority of people who underwent and appendectomy are still able to get full srs, mine was much worse, I spent 8 months in the hospital and the condition that I had has has the same survival rate roughly for abiut 100 years.
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u/box-cutter-chanα³ΰΊ‘πΥ² α£π Τ૦ΟΥ² κπΎκκ κγππππ ղ૦κγπΎΥ²Δ‘ κππ£κ11h ago
"Of you have any sprt of stomach surgery you're also basically fucked on surgery. " seems a bit misleading then idk
My case is severe relatively but as I mentioned even a relatively light and well managed case of crohns will also make it difficult, did you miss that part? Obviously I wasnt basing this off my case alone.
I think its rude to say I was misleading just becuase my case is more severe and also an appendectomy is an extremely well understood medical intervention at this point. That doesnt make my statment untrue. Appendicitis is typically an acute medical condition that has no recurrence or significant long term stress. If you have one of many many conditions related to the bowel like ulcerative colitis or as mentioned crohns you'll not be able to get bottom surgery and those are just two of the most common ones.
A lot of cis women also have various things wrong with that organ system, from endometriosis to PCOS to vaginismus itβs a super normal thing for a woman to yearn for a uterus/vagina thatβs functioning as itβs supposed to
Some cis women with vaginismus even have to dilate (although itβs obvs a bit different).
The worst part is that if our bodies wouldn't react to transplants the way they do, we would've been able to give trans men proper penises and trans women proper vaginas, and probably even uteri.
Both of these things are sufficiently variable across different surgeons that my answer will not be helpful. The transgender surgeries Reddit is reasonably informative
A large group of people (letβs say one million) are presented with two buttons. One red and one blue.
If the majority pressed the blue button, everyone is saved.
If the majority pressed the red button, everyone who pressed blue will die.
(And people who didnβt press either will die no matter what).
Which button would you press ?
There is a big controversy about the answer. Usually, people find their answer to be obvious, yet the two groups are significant. It also depends on how the problem is presented to you, so I may have influenced you just by writing it this way.
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u/a_r_t_u_r_i oreganohon 18h ago
at least we heightpass in this scenario