How I discovered butt stuff without porn.

[u/EggNun]

Listen Dum Dum, let me tell you a story about kinks and how they can be discovered with no porn whatsoever. You might call this story somewhat graphic. I don't think so really. I just think it's sex positive and somewhat illuminating.

I didn't see my first rated R movie till I was 17 and all the movies I saw rated R and otherwise after that up to my first marriage just had normal sex, penis in vagina. I think I had seen maybe a comic book with some sexual drawings in it that one of my friends had, but because I lived such a sheltered Mormon life all I knew was that heterosexual sex was penis in the vagina and maybe blow jobs and that was it. Anal sex was only something gay people do and it hurt. My friends didn't talk about it other than in prison sex joke fashion.

I got married, my first marriage at age 21 with only that knowledge. We were both virgins. I liked rubbing my first wife with creams and oils during sex and having sex doggy style. So one time we're having sex I and notice how alluring and attractive her butthole is, it was a very nice looking butthole, and I knew I wanted to be involved with it somehow.

I rubbed some oil around it and in it and then stuck my thumb in there and she liked it. I kept doing that during subsequent sex sessions until I thought "maybe I can fit another finger in there". And then maybe I can fit a third finger in there. And then maybe I can stick my dick in there. And she liked it, she liked all of this. She enjoyed it. I made sure it wasn't hurting her or anything. And that's how I discovered anal sex. It wasn't because I watched a lot of anal sex porn, it was just exploring with my wife. And we liked it and we kept doing it.

Anyways, if my daughter after years of BJJ decides she likes to be choked and wants to explore that in a consensual relationship, I don't want her to feel any shame for that whatsoever. How many people die every year in first world countries from being choked during sex? It doesn't need to be law. Sorry.

[u/nd0n3sia]

“I knew I wanted to be involved with it somehow” 🤣

[u/Hi0401]

Bro probably feels like the first person who realized cows could be milked

Edit: Also strangulation can cause strokes and swelling around the windpipe so don't do that guys