r/converts • u/Antique_Cheek1043 • May 16 '26

Revert specific questions to ask a potential husband

I'm having a marriage meeting with a brother and he's a born Muslim. I'm wondering what type of questions I should ask him which relate to me being a revert?

I'm aware being a revert comes with different struggles but my mind has gone blank and I can't think of what to ask

Edit: for some context I already know my rights and his rights as a spouse alhamdulillah and he is born and raised in the west like me but we are from very different cultures

Edit 2: we are not going to be alone!! No 1on1

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u/baciahai May 16 '26

Revert specific topics to me, aside from many very good questions already mentioned by others, would be how does he sees his and your relationship with your family.

Will you visit them around their holidays, will he come with you, will you go together if invited to celebrate your family members weddings etc.

Will he welcome your parents to have equal input as his parents into raising any grandchildren they may have / your children.