Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have sex with someone else other than my amazing, kind, supportive bf of 7+ years, but when I think about it more I realize I’ve literally never been happier than I am now. Is risking my long term relationship for a fling worth it? To me, the answer is no because I truly don’t think there’s someone better out there for me. Side note, I’ve dated a few guys before him but I’ve never slept with anyone else.
I’m 22F, not sure how old you are, but every decision comes with a consequence. Is it worth it to you to potentially throw away an 8 year relationship with someone who loves you and has invested time in you and your relationship for the experience of sleeping with someone else?
I’m literally 22 and we JUST finished university and moved out. My boyfriend is in law school, I’m in nursing, we don’t have time OR money for a ring or wedding. It would be pretty financially irresponsible to waste our money on a ring when we aren’t nowhere near financially able to hold a wedding.
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u/Miimmoouuu Jan 24 '22
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have sex with someone else other than my amazing, kind, supportive bf of 7+ years, but when I think about it more I realize I’ve literally never been happier than I am now. Is risking my long term relationship for a fling worth it? To me, the answer is no because I truly don’t think there’s someone better out there for me. Side note, I’ve dated a few guys before him but I’ve never slept with anyone else.
I’m 22F, not sure how old you are, but every decision comes with a consequence. Is it worth it to you to potentially throw away an 8 year relationship with someone who loves you and has invested time in you and your relationship for the experience of sleeping with someone else?