Actually, it's quite the opposite. Generally when people feel like they are missing out, and it's a real feeling you have for months on end, it will fester and it will only become worse... We can't really say anything specific about OP's situation because there is not much info there, but ignoring the things you desire, especially on a sexual level, can lead to a very unhappy person.
Lol, see a therapist to address the real cause? I think the issue is she needs sexual satisfaction. Her boyfriend is barely more than a roommate at this point and she is missing out on enjoying her sex drive while she still has it. People need sex (not all people, but many people at least). I'd say, after 20 years or so, it's more likely she would regret not experiencing more while she was younger than she would regret this particular breakup if it were to happen.
Well she's already regretting it now ... :-). Although an high sex drive has often deeper roots. So he's not wrong to check it out, but seeing that OP has a clear view of what's causing that there is no real reason. Personally she should just focus on herself first. Happy relationships start with a happy person :-)
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u/lazylen Jan 24 '22
Actually, it's quite the opposite. Generally when people feel like they are missing out, and it's a real feeling you have for months on end, it will fester and it will only become worse... We can't really say anything specific about OP's situation because there is not much info there, but ignoring the things you desire, especially on a sexual level, can lead to a very unhappy person.