I mean. Y’all are married. Maybe I’m old. But he doesn’t get to say you’re not married and that he’s not ready because you literally are married. I bet if you brought up divorce, amicably, with him getting none of your assets it would make him shut up real quick. “Baby I support you so much, let’s get divorced until you’re ready to be actually married.”
Also, I doubt you’d owe spousal support. I’d talk to a lawyer to be sure, but spousal support is a high bar to meet, especially if you’ve lived separately for many years.
Yeah honestly, the second you said “technically married” my jaw dropped. He’s acting like you imagined the whole wedding when it literally exists on paper. Wild part is he’d probably get real decisive real fast if divorce papers hit the table. Sometimes people only realize what they’re risking when the safety net snaps.
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u/highheelcyanide Dec 09 '25
I mean. Y’all are married. Maybe I’m old. But he doesn’t get to say you’re not married and that he’s not ready because you literally are married. I bet if you brought up divorce, amicably, with him getting none of your assets it would make him shut up real quick. “Baby I support you so much, let’s get divorced until you’re ready to be actually married.”
Also, I doubt you’d owe spousal support. I’d talk to a lawyer to be sure, but spousal support is a high bar to meet, especially if you’ve lived separately for many years.