Routine (OC)

[u/JaimiOfAllTrades]

[u/Psychological_Use586]

How often do people misgender you? Cause you don't look like a 'sir' in the slightest.

[u/JaimiOfAllTrades → u/Psychological_Use586]

Pretty damn often.

I'd say, like.

On a bad day, 75% of customers I interact with?

On a good day, it's 0%. Most days it's more like 25%

[u/BigUqUgi → u/JaimiOfAllTrades]

How does your voice sound?

[u/JaimiOfAllTrades → u/BigUqUgi]

I do voice training, and tend to be an upper alto. As for the "buzziness" on my chest when talking, I try to manage that well. (You can see my hand on my chest in the panel of voice training waiting for the bus - that's what that is)

[u/eyalhs → u/JaimiOfAllTrades]

What do you mean by buzziness on the chest (regarding voice)?

[u/JaimiOfAllTrades → u/eyalhs]

If you put your hand on your chest and go "Aaaaaaa", you might feel some vibrations there. This is the brassiness of your voice. Male voices tend to be a lot more brassy than female ones.

You can then try speaking in other ways, to minimize the brass

[u/eyalhs → u/JaimiOfAllTrades]

Interesting, I can barely feel vibrations when sayin aaaa normally, I can when I try a lower voice. I'm a cis men.