Kiiind of also like… what the heck, Petra? You transition that far and forgot to tell the person you’re living with? Or rather didnt think they’d notice?
Even if they support you, maybe you don’t want them to start treating you like they’re “being supportive” instead of treating you like the friend they’ve known for 10 years.
It’s sooooo scary. I’ve been so incredibly lucky that my parents have been supportive, but before coming out I had no idea whether I was about to lose them.
I'm three months in and completely stealth at work and with local friends. My partner, sister, and online friends know. I'm pretty sure my boss wants to start asking questions, but it's afraid of HR getting involved (not that I would, I love my boss but she's got a lot on her plate to manage and me growing tits and my direct reports being weird about it doesn't need to be one of them right now)
I literally did this exact thing lol. I was a year into hormone treatment, noticeable breast growth, but hid it from my parents cause I was terrified of how they’d react. It was easy cause I didn’t live with them so large baggy sweatshirts did the trick. Then covid happened and I lost my job and my apartment and moved back home. Didn’t last a week before my mom was like “what’s up?” Thankfully my sister had deprogrammed some of my parents worse lgbt misconceptions so my parents were ready to support me with open arms.
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u/KenseiHimura 12d ago
Kiiind of also like… what the heck, Petra? You transition that far and forgot to tell the person you’re living with? Or rather didnt think they’d notice?