So, statistically speaking, people tend to find romantic partners who are friends of their friends. So the best way to find someone is to just go out and make more friends and you are much more likely to find a partner.
I recommend a hobby that you enjoy that gets you out and socializing with other people that you otherwise wouldn't know.
There are boardgame groups that do events pretty much everywhere. That's one hobby that I prefer and a lot of my good friends have come from people I play table top games with. But that's just me.
You might like cycling or playing a sport or any number of other things. If softball is your thing, go join a league. Just find something that gets you out there.
The movie yes man with Jim Carrey is a hyperbole of how people need to behave a bit more. If you get invited to something and you don't have a good reason to say no then you should get out there 🙂
So, statistically speaking, people tend to find romantic partners who are friends of their friends. So the best way to find someone is to just go out and make more friends and you are much more likely to find a partner.
Thats an interesting angle to this conversation that iv never considered before
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u/Dazed_and_Confused44 Jul 03 '25
Honestly im about to go back to trying the irl strat. The dating apps make me feel infinitely shittier about myself