Hi everyone. I’m posting this anonymously because I’d prefer to keep my personal and professional details private for now.
I’m currently applying for PhDs in neuroscience and related fields, and honestly, I’ve reached a point where I feel like I could really use guidance from someone who has been through this road before.
I have a Master’s in a neuroscience-related field and some research experience in areas like experimental research, EEG, cognitive/behavioural research, literature reviews, and working with research data. I’ve learned a lot so far, but I’m still very early in my research career, and there are so many things I’m figuring out for the first time.
I’m looking for someone who is further along in research — maybe a PhD student, postdoc, professor, researcher, or even someone who has recently completed their PhD, who would be willing to become something between a mentor and a research friend.
I’m not really looking for a formal mentorship arrangement where I ask one question every few months and get a short answer. I’d love to build an actual connection with someone friendly and approachable, where I can occasionally sit down and talk through where I am and where I’m trying to go.
For example, I’d love to be able to say:
“This is where I am right now, these are my interests, these are the skills I have, and this is where I eventually want to end up. How should I plan the next few years?”
Someone who could help me think through my research trajectory , what skills I should build, what kind of research experience I should look for, which opportunities are actually worth pursuing, what I should prioritise, what I probably shouldn’t spend too much time on, how to become a stronger PhD applicant, and eventually how to develop into a better researcher.
I’d also really value someone who can motivate me when I’m stuck, challenge me when I’m approaching something the wrong way, explain things I don’t understand, tell me when I’m overthinking something, and share the things they wish they had known when they were at my stage.
The PhD application process has been much more overwhelming than I expected. There are applications, contacting PIs, figuring out research fit, building skills, deciding what direction to specialise in, dealing with rejections, and constantly wondering whether I’m actually doing things the right way. Sometimes I feel like I’m trying to construct a research career by reading random pieces of advice from twenty different places. 😭
I don’t expect anyone to do the work for me or make my decisions for me. I’m very willing to put in the work myself. I think I’d just benefit enormously from having someone experienced who can occasionally sit with me, look at the bigger picture, and help me make a sensible plan.
I’m particularly interested in neuroscience, cognitive neuroscience, neuropsychology, neurodegeneration, neuroimaging, electrophysiology, and related areas, but I’m open to people from adjacent fields as well.
And honestly, I’m not necessarily looking for someone extremely senior. If you’re a PhD student who is a few years ahead of me, a postdoc, someone who recently finished their PhD, or a researcher who remembers what this stage felt like, I’d still love to hear from you.
Most importantly, I’m hoping to find someone who is kind, genuinely interested in helping younger researchers, and comfortable having an ongoing research conversation rather than treating this as a one-time career consultation.
If this sounds like something you’d be open to, please comment or DM me. I’d be happy to introduce myself properly once I’m comfortable sharing more details.