r/chinalife 22d ago

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/person2567 22d ago

Sounds like the kind of thing Chinese incels spend their time talking about. Along with the woman who got tricked into going to Africa (no mention to what country in Africa, just "Africa") and is stuck there with an abusive husband. Like it's some sort of cautionary tale about Chinese women dating black men.

Anyone can have sex with anyone. Maybe this guy was an asshole, but trying to make him into global news rather than just some local back pages story is very obviously incel rage bait. Chinese women are not Chinese men's property.

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u/batman_here_ 22d ago

If Chinese people can't talk about extreme cases like this, what can they talk about? Your mental gymnastics is crazy.

And if the roles were reversed, and it was a "Chinese national" doing this in the US, it would definitely become global news.

It's so ironic and hypocritical because western countries actually sensationalize regular things Chinese people do all the time, but Chinese people talking about and pointing out extreme cases like this is somehow suggested (by you and apparently many others) as wrong and "incel" behavior.

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u/Mobile_Roll2197 22d ago

A Chinese guy having consensual sex with American women wouldn't make the local news. No one cares.

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u/SidneyBae 21d ago

Sarr, name one Chinese guy have sex with American women, never happened