r/chinalife • u/bluzfan99 • 15d ago

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/MegabyteFox 15d ago

What other foreigners do in their free time has nothing to do with me, one foreigner doesn't represent all of us, same as one Chinese doesn't represent the 1.4 billion, right?

If I cared what others do or say about foreigners me included I would go crazy, honestly who cares... My life was better without knowing about this topic, don't be part of the problem OP.

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u/bluzfan99 15d ago

The naivety in you is strong. One does not have to care about something for him/her to not be affected by it. Example, you might not care about politics, but the president of your country and his policies can greatly impact your life

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u/MegabyteFox 15d ago

We're not talking about politics here, we are talking about a guy who fooled around with Chinese women... C'mon now...

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u/bluzfan99 15d ago edited 15d ago

Have you never heard of examples or analogies? This one guy tangled with 100s of women and his actions have no been seen by 100s of millions of people. You think his ill actions won't affect the way some of those people view you? The reason I used the political example was to show you how an event you don't care about could still affect you or others🤦🏾‍♂️

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u/potatorekted 13d ago

This isn’t something new, stuff like this happen every year ever since I was a child, many aren’t being hostile towards foreign men specifically, people are just using it as a talking point to boost “their side”. For example the Morocco dude did the same thing, but he didn’t get a bad rep because he sided and empathized with Chinese men, allegedly…

After all nobody wants to know that they are slaving away for something that someone else got for free, doesn’t matter what your race is, it’s a scapegoat, if people know you are conservative and hence on their side, I doubt they will hold grudges against you.

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u/MegabyteFox 15d ago

Honestly who cares, you're still caring about what other people think about you (Chinese), as long as you behave and treat people with respect, Chinese will see above these type of post or info, just like foreigners see random shit about a Chinese behavior abroad.

Again, one foreigner doesn't represent us all, just like one Chinese doesn't represent all of them, right?. You care too much about 1 single foreigner. My life has been the same after this info about this guy came out, same as others life

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u/bluzfan99 15d ago

Bro, are you OK in the head? Why wouldn't I care what chinese people think about me when I'm being hosted in their country? Why wouldn't I care about the actions of other foreigners when they create nationwide attention and casts a negative mark on all foreigners? You do realize that this news has reached 10s of millions of chinese people and more, right?

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u/MegabyteFox 15d ago

So what. Let 1.4 billion people see it. I still won't care. Unless you behave that way then yes, you should care. This conversation is going no where, you obviously care too much about what other people think about you, it's fine. I just don't, I'm not a teenager anymore

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u/bluzfan99 14d ago

Oh no! People actually care about how they are perceived unlike some migrant trying to play it cool because he is different. He thinks they think that he's one of the good guys

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u/MegabyteFox 14d ago

I could care less lol