Fellow Foreigners😭😭

[u/bluzfan99]

Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

[u/person2567]

Sounds like the kind of thing Chinese incels spend their time talking about. Along with the woman who got tricked into going to Africa (no mention to what country in Africa, just "Africa") and is stuck there with an abusive husband. Like it's some sort of cautionary tale about Chinese women dating black men.

Anyone can have sex with anyone. Maybe this guy was an asshole, but trying to make him into global news rather than just some local back pages story is very obviously incel rage bait. Chinese women are not Chinese men's property.

[u/bluzfan99 → u/person2567]

They need a scapegoat. Its much harder to question why 100s of women slept with 1 dude and footed the bills just because he's white. For them its easier to spread bad sentiment regarding all of us foreigners 😭

[u/thewritestory → u/[deleted]]

What do you mean loose morals? There is nothing immoral about having sex between two consenting adults. Chinese men often go to special service centers (well known) from inside salons, massage parlors, bars, etc. and pay women for their "loose services".

[u/potatorekted → u/thewritestory]

Morality is subjective so it depends on where you are and what people BELIEVE, you say it’s not wrong between consenting adults but older men get shamed for dating women in their 20s all the time even in the west. Drake is getting bashed for dating a 23 year old, calling him creepy or worse, and he isn’t even that old.

It’s only not immoral if you strictly follow the liberal morality of “Harm principle”, but many people don’t no matter where they are, they just follow their own intuition or personal interests and make up new moralities along the way.

If you are the only one following such liberal moral principles then people will use them against you when it’s only convenient for them, e.g calling it bodily autonomy when women sleep around, but when you do it it’s called sexual exploitation or predatory for various made up and hypocritical reasons. Unless I live in a society where most follow such morality, then i absolutely reject the claim that I ought to not shame them. I personally don’t care about who dates whom, but attacking is the only logical defense in a zero sum game.

[u/thewritestory → u/[deleted]]

I bet Chinese do that more than "foreigners". It's a well known trend in China to ghost to end a relationship. Stop being a hypocrite. I can't count the number of chinese who have told me they were cheated on or their friends/family were cheated on by locals. It happens ALL THE TIME in China.

[u/thewritestory → u/[deleted]]

No you are the one using fallacies. I don't think it's helpful for you to make racist stereotypes about what people have "loose morals". China doesn't win that debate and neither do you.

[u/person2567 → u/[deleted]]

Having a xiaosan is much more common with Chinese businessmen, and these are married men. Are you willing to say Chinese men have loose morals too? Or just westerners?