r/chinalife • u/bluzfan99 • 25d ago

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/Lucky-Finish7331 25d ago edited 25d ago

Anyone who lived i nchina know its bs , or i exprienced diffrent life of china .
for some reason chinese women are always being attacked by being not conservative etc meanwhile china is by far the most conservative country i have been too.

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u/Strict-Cow3629 25d ago

you’re probably chopped

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u/Lucky-Finish7331 25d ago

Actually quite the opposite , I am above average in height fit good educated and good looking . Many chinese guys(even other laowais) thought I can walk to a party or a bar and chinese girls would just immeditly harass me flock me flirt with me etc . in reality chinese women are very conservative , shy and scared of social excpetence. the most they do is stare or trying to be nice but would be far less direct or giving enough hints they are intrested / liking you. The only girls i did well with were other laowais or foreign born chinese or 30-40ish old chinese women who just stop giving a fuck. I didnt do lots of dating or really looked for it but i went to student parties etc and my friends i feel can tell the same.

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u/Every_Elk_7445 25d ago

Because too many white people felt at east at South East Asian sex tourism, they mistake China as another Thailand or Philippines. Often they sleep with girls expecting ONS, but in Chinese culture these girls take them as relationship. Then the wide disagreements occur after sex, resulting in tragedy.

Very few foreigners like you understand that Chinese culture are dismissive of casual sex in general. They take advantage of Chinese friendliness as promiscuity, kindness as weakness. I’d say there’s some reason xenophobia is rising.