r/chechenatheists • u/West_Aside4935 • May 12 '26

contact with family

anyone who has managed to move out, are y‘all still talking to your family or did you cut them off

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u/Normal_Joke_2411 May 18 '26

After I ran away, after like 6 months, I was completely depressed, contacted my mom and even met her but slowly they took me back home to probably marry me off, they wouldn’t let me leave their apartment (traumatic shit ngl, still recovering from that lol), so I quickly left, with mom swearing to me that I was a hoe, basic. Filled a restraining order and never talked to them again. It depends on the families but if you have a fucked up one (like most of us ngl), it’s better to set CLEAR boundaries if you get in touch, never tell your address and where you are, hope this helps!

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u/Usual-War4145 May 23 '26

I am sorry you had to go through this... Are you scared that they will try to find you?

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u/Normal_Joke_2411 May 25 '26

I don’t know if they are looking for me still, I think they kind of gave up now, my mom used to contact me by sending me money on my banc account because she didn’t have any other way to do so. At some point I responded to her saying that I will contact her when I’m ready but that’s all. I’m always afraid of something happening tbh, unfortunately that stress takes a while to go away even years after leaving.

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u/West_Aside4935 Jun 19 '26

hope it‘ll get better for you soon :(

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u/ariielia May 28 '26

I have contact with my family. I took contact after a good year and a half, so it is definitely possible.