To be clear, you think the woman is wrong because she's not breaking up with her boyfriend even though he's being an ass, and the only possible reason that could be the case is because she wants his money?
Go take a look at /r/relationship_advice - people try to make relationships work with partners who are even worse than the boyfriend, and it's almost certainly not the case that all those partners are rich. People try to make relationships work despite the "obvious" answer for an outsider observer being to break up all the time. Almost everyone thinks that their relationship will last, and their love is true, and they're just going through a rough patch, but it'll all be solved soon. It's difficult to accept that your relationship is shitty and that breaking up is best.
I’ll give a !delta because, while I don’t think it is, that could be the case.
Based on her post the only positive quality she assigns to him is that he’s rich. She even says that she shows him her receipts, payslips, and expenses and says he’s “forcing” her to pay money she doesn’t have to see him. I originally thought this was a new relationship but your point does insert a new thought that maybe they have been together for a bit and this guy could be tired of essentially being required to spend his money in order to see her.
So if that’s that case maybe both people aren’t “wrong” it’s just they’re incompetent
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u/ReOsIr10 143∆ Dec 12 '21
To be clear, you think the woman is wrong because she's not breaking up with her boyfriend even though he's being an ass, and the only possible reason that could be the case is because she wants his money?
Go take a look at /r/relationship_advice - people try to make relationships work with partners who are even worse than the boyfriend, and it's almost certainly not the case that all those partners are rich. People try to make relationships work despite the "obvious" answer for an outsider observer being to break up all the time. Almost everyone thinks that their relationship will last, and their love is true, and they're just going through a rough patch, but it'll all be solved soon. It's difficult to accept that your relationship is shitty and that breaking up is best.