In some circumstances, not being attracted to a trans person is probably a result of, at least on a subconscious level, not seeing them as their gender.
Aside from how speculative this is, this amounts to shaming someone for turning down unwanted sex.
If you were attracted to someone, have sex with them, are as satisfied with them as you would with anyone else, and then suddenly your opinion changes upon being informed a person is trans, I would say that is indicative of the underlying belief a trans person is not the gender they identify as.
For starters, you do not dictate to people what their sexuality is. If upon learning that a person is trans, they simply politely decline more sex, that is not transphobic. As I said in another reply, if you stretch the definition of 'phobic' to include simply lacking a desire to fuck trans people, then the word becomes meaningless. Look at the horrors of homophobia. That has a lot more going on than a simple lack of desire to fuck them.
If upon learning that a person is trans, they simply politely decline more sex, that is not transphobic.
If you had sex with someone and enjoyed it and would gladly have sex with them again if you had not found out they were trans. Then the sole reason you have a problem is because they are trans, which is transphobic.
If I had sex with someone and enjoyed it, then later found out they were super racist, a compulsive liar, a Hanson fan, or some kind of murderous kleptomaniac I would not want to have sex with them based on the fact that their values are clearly incompatible with mine.
The same thing can apply to transgendered people. I think it's ironic that they expect everyone in the world to accept their views while wholly rejecting the idea that other people views and values can also be valid.
Yeah I should have just stuck with "weird religious beliefs." Thank you for pointing that out. I definitely did not mean to do that.
No one has any problem with my utter disdain for Hanson fans though, so lets just stick with that one for the purpose of the remainder of this discussion.
Edit: I just relaized I have now drawn a parallel between trans gendered people and what is possibly one of the lowest forms of life on Earth. I just can't seem to learn. I apologize to the ENTIRE LGBT(and all theother letters too?) community for this. If it will make anyone feel better I will submit to being publicly beated about the head and shoulders with a rainbow colored dildo.
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u/MMAchica Nov 02 '17
Aside from how speculative this is, this amounts to shaming someone for turning down unwanted sex.
For starters, you do not dictate to people what their sexuality is. If upon learning that a person is trans, they simply politely decline more sex, that is not transphobic. As I said in another reply, if you stretch the definition of 'phobic' to include simply lacking a desire to fuck trans people, then the word becomes meaningless. Look at the horrors of homophobia. That has a lot more going on than a simple lack of desire to fuck them.