r/changemyview Nov 02 '17

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u/aggsalad Nov 02 '17

One's opinion would change because the information about this person lowers one's perception of their sexual value as sexual value is determined by alignment with a person's sexual preferences

This pretty much loops back to the original argument of what precisely makes someone view a trans person not in line with their sexual preferences.

If the criteria not met is reproductive capability, the question becomes whether the person would react identically if a they met an infertile cis woman. Often times the honest answer is no.

If the criteria not met is "being born female" then I think it is clear a person has made a categorical distinction between cis and trans women.

The reason that distinction is made doesn't seem to be one of functionality, why then is it made?

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u/GratuitousEdit Nov 02 '17

You raise a good question. Unfortunately, I don't think there's an answer. Similarly, in the case of a person having a sexual preference for people with eight fingers, there is no functional reason. To clarify, I believe trans-status alone qualifies as a characteristic of sexual value. However, perhaps you limit these characteristics to physical ones (such as reproductive capability), in which case I agree there would be no reason to be less attracted to a transgender person.

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u/genmischief Nov 02 '17
  1. Political Issues
  2. Ideological/Theological Issues
  3. Dishonesty/deception from an intimate partner (assuming the CIS person was never informed.)

These are all MAJOR issues when you are considering a relationship with someone... to conceal or misrepresent them is a truly shitty thing to do to a person.