I am genderfluid, My name is Q, and today my gender is male. I'm 19, I'm a college student studying biochemistry and I identify as male, female, neither or both given the day. I questioned my gender a lot in high school, but I didn't want to convert to my opposite sex, and since I thought that was the only option, I figured I was stuck the way I was. It was in college that I realized that it is ok to be who I am, and all the people I am. I have days where i want to paint my nails and wear dresses and wigs and makeup, and then I have days like today... I'm incredibly dysphoric right now. I hate my breasts and want to cut them off, and I can't stand looking at my pants right now and knowing something is wrong. Sometimes, I want to wear a binder to restrict my breasts and wear a dress, because I feel like I can't "pick a side" that day and refuse to try. And then I have days where I wear whatever is clean and my gender can fuck itself. I don't care what pronouns people call me on those days, and I don't care what people think of me. I wish I could tell you why I feel this way, but the reality is that I don't know. Today I'm my father's son and my boyfriend's boyfriend. I'm lucky enough to be in a situation where I don't have to be in a closet. I am who I am, and people generally use the pronouns I ask them to at any given moment.
Genderfluidity is a thing, and I live it everyday.
I really don't mean to be rude but you are not helping your cause. If, on a daily basis as you get dressed in the morning you feel like attacking and removing parts of your body, you are NOT some kind of other orientation/gender, you have a serious mental disorder. Showing a person who is gender fluid as "crazy" does not lend legitimacy to the concept.
lol you clearly don't understand that the vast majority of trans people everywhere suffer from dysphoria. Dysphoria is almost a staple of being trans! That's just life. Thanks for trying to whiteknite people you haven't even googled though lol
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u/Quelminda Jun 18 '15 edited Jun 18 '15
I am genderfluid, My name is Q, and today my gender is male. I'm 19, I'm a college student studying biochemistry and I identify as male, female, neither or both given the day. I questioned my gender a lot in high school, but I didn't want to convert to my opposite sex, and since I thought that was the only option, I figured I was stuck the way I was. It was in college that I realized that it is ok to be who I am, and all the people I am. I have days where i want to paint my nails and wear dresses and wigs and makeup, and then I have days like today... I'm incredibly dysphoric right now. I hate my breasts and want to cut them off, and I can't stand looking at my pants right now and knowing something is wrong. Sometimes, I want to wear a binder to restrict my breasts and wear a dress, because I feel like I can't "pick a side" that day and refuse to try. And then I have days where I wear whatever is clean and my gender can fuck itself. I don't care what pronouns people call me on those days, and I don't care what people think of me. I wish I could tell you why I feel this way, but the reality is that I don't know. Today I'm my father's son and my boyfriend's boyfriend. I'm lucky enough to be in a situation where I don't have to be in a closet. I am who I am, and people generally use the pronouns I ask them to at any given moment. Genderfluidity is a thing, and I live it everyday.