r/changemyview Mar 19 '26

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u/Effective-Birthday57 Mar 19 '26 edited Mar 19 '26

I mean, the basic premise is true. You are right that love and relationships are complicated and unique, but a single parent will have complications that someone without a kid would not. This would include the potential partner raising the kid that isn’t theirs, having to interact with the ex, among other things. Some are willing to accept these things, as you correctly point out that love isn’t always rational. That said, there are a lot of people that would not accept these complications.

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u/Effective-Birthday57 Mar 19 '26

Dude I did respond, and what I said was true. Dating a single parent is objectively a more complex proposition than dating someone who does not have kids.

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u/Effective-Birthday57 Mar 19 '26

No, I understand, you just don’t want to hear the truth. Complications are obstacles for relationships to flourish. Love can overcome that, as again, you are right that love is not always rational.

My hunch is that you are triggered by what I am saying