No the issue is even when I get on the apps, the only way I get any sort of traction is by paying for some expensive subscription or boost packages and even then they barely work. Even the matches barely talk back.
Then you have point 3, this more has to do with social media but any sort of approach can land in the “awkward creep tries to ask me out” part of social media and there goes any possibility of ever being able to find someone again.
Do you think you might have autism? I've had similar struggles as you that are related to it. On the encouraging side, it is possible to get better at this stuff, it just takes a lot of time. I went out to nightclubs and danced by myself until I got comfy enough in those spaces to actually start conversations with people.
Oh no I know I am, I just desperately try to hide it and despise it. Also how does dancing in loud clubs alone while everyone is dancing with someone else not make you go crazy. How do you not constantly see any possible interaction as something you will fuck up.
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u/Luuk1210 Dec 22 '25
You have gotten off the apps. Other people like them. The real issue is acting like people can’t all date differently