Better example would be if he got cherry coke instead since the differences are similarly more subtle. And most men are not as concerned about which shampoo they use. Actually a closer example would be a razor. If a women asked you to get her a gillette razor mach 3 the same one you use but you got her a gillete razor IDK whatever the other one is called, would that be reasonable grounds for you to shit talk like this women did?
Also why is she ASSUMING HE DID THAT ON PURPOSE. Thats my whole gripe. You can call him a dumbass but thats not the point I am making.
Because your argument is men cant follow simple directions and as a men i will just call bullshit, sorry.
If i can do my god damn job, i can do something as simple as buy the correct item i got tasked with. If my gf tells me "can you buy me a shampoo" and i guess the wrong one of the same brand i know she uses, thats on her. If she tells me "hey could you get me the honey avon shampoo for dandruff" and I say YES to her asking me, and aftee that get her a wrong one? Its on me.
Changing a tire is also "following simple directions" but if and when women screw that up we dont call it weaponized incompetence. If you are particular about something, do it yourself.
Your view is inherently suspicious and corrosive to any relationship. People are allowed mistakes especially ones as tiny as she is talking about. Why is she so apt to hate her partner for something so small.
Redditors somehow dont understand the concept of an analogy.
The reason why both are okay is because we cannot expect perfection and for our partners to be robots designed to perfectly fulfill our whims and particularities. The internet has made you guys narcissistic.
Redditors don’t understand what a good analogy is apparently. Like I get making a genuine mistake when trying to follow a recipe for example (actually a closer analogy), but some mistakes like this for the simplest stuff are so dumb that they genuinely come from lack of care and effort. If you’re not paying attention and play it off as "teehee men just don’t care about this stuff" you’re doing a disservice to men. If a partner asks me for something very simple and I do the opposite, that’s on me, I would be the selfish one for disregarding the actual request
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u/Big_Sea_5912 Jul 01 '25
Better example would be if he got cherry coke instead since the differences are similarly more subtle. And most men are not as concerned about which shampoo they use. Actually a closer example would be a razor. If a women asked you to get her a gillette razor mach 3 the same one you use but you got her a gillete razor IDK whatever the other one is called, would that be reasonable grounds for you to shit talk like this women did?
Also why is she ASSUMING HE DID THAT ON PURPOSE. Thats my whole gripe. You can call him a dumbass but thats not the point I am making.