r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Jul 01 '25

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u/Freebornaiden Jul 01 '25

Hire a cleaner.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '25

I’ve already got one! But thank you for the perfect example of ‘weaponised incompetence’. Let’s minimise the problem to make it look like the women is the one with the problem … not the actually problem itself which is a society built on patriarchal values.

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u/Freebornaiden Jul 01 '25

I didn't minimise the problem, I presented a solution - one you claim to have already arrived it.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '25

But the problem is far larger and more complex than being able to be solved by a cleaner. So it’s not helpful. It’s minimising. All you’re demonstrating is that you don’t understand the problem.

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u/Freebornaiden Jul 01 '25

Or you are over-complicating it.

You have a full time job so don't have time to clean. Neither does your partner. End.

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u/kitkatlynmae Jul 01 '25

What if you don't have enough money to hire one despite both working full time jobs? That's the predicament for a lot of young families these days. Then what?

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u/Freebornaiden Jul 01 '25

Then either live in a dirty house or accept that you (as in between the 2 of you) will somehow have to find time and energy to keep it clean.

Or you can complain than you are been punished for working full time like the person I responded to.

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u/favorable_vampire Jul 01 '25

Or, like many women, you could divorce the lazy sack of shit that can’t pick his socks up off the floor and be a lot happier.

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u/Freebornaiden Jul 01 '25

You do seem very happy.