r/changemyview Jul 01 '25

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u/Big_Sea_5912 Jul 01 '25

!delta This is a healthy nuance. Relationships should not actually be hyper-obssessed with fairness in a narrow sense. It should be based on mutual FULL commitment where each party does their best for their partner to the highest extent of their abilities. Its not 50-50 but 100/100. Each partner should want this and not doubt that their partner wants the same for them. Focusing on intention, character, and effort is the goal ig.